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Real Thing?


Posted Tuesday July 19 2005, 1:09 am

Alright, so, as it's probably helpful to know a little info about me, I'm 16, female. And I'm in love, I know it, I can feel it's true just as surely as I know that 2 x 2 = 4. I find myself having a whole new perspective, a whole new outlook, on life. I realize that whatever happens, it's going to be alright, because I'll have someone there by my side who I can trust with anyone, and we can be there for eachother through whatever happens. (btw, Thanks to anyone who answered my previous question, the answers have helped me realize that going to seperate colleges, while tough, is something we can handle.) Now, I know he loves me, and he talks as though whatever happens, we'll always be there for eachother, but am I doing the right thing? I me...

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Posted Tuesday July 19 2005, 1:04 am

ok so i go on sites like myspace xanga etc and tonss of guys are always like u r so hott etc but the thing is..in real life no guys really come up to me and i mean i look the same and act the same in both situations, i dont get it?? whats wrong

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Posted Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:54 am

I really like this guy, I feel like I love him but the problem is that he moved I haven't seen him since but he said he was going to back the 2nd semester of the next school year but I don't believe him I think about him every day I had his # but it got disconnected and I changed my cell # and by the way I had gone out with him before he moved

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Posted Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:47 am

ok...well this guy went out with my friend for about 4 months i hung out with him and some of our other friends and he was really nice and hott... and then she dumped him....so i lost communication..taht was in november..anyway 3 weeks ago he randomly imed me..and so we have just been talking alot..anyway so the friend he went out with had a party a few nights ago..anyway so i got to see him because he came..we hit it off really well..we talked alot and it go dark so the whole group was hanging out on the trampoline and we were talking and he was really flirting with me....anyway so i went inside for a few mins......the meantime he told my friends that he liked me and the girl he went out with for 4 months.....but he still likes the girl he...

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Posted Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:40 am

hey♥ i have been with Tim off and on since february vacation but at the end up may we started actually getting close and can talk about anything now. we have been goin out and we hangout alot ( we`ve already had sex, so dont critisize) but today i noticed he asked me something that i was sort of worried about before. me and him were sitting at dunkin donuts and he was like " do you seriously love me" and he was the first guy i have ever said it to and i said of course i do, alot and i told him he has no idea what he means to me, then i asked why? and he was like i love you and like you alot, and sometimes i think you dont and your randomly gunna not like me and break up with me. it was so weird! like i dont understand w...

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Posted Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:19 am

everything is starting to go wrong today two guys played me without me even noticing i feel so awful and depressed its been a few months since my last boyfriend and i really thought it would work out with the first guy i thought he would never hurt me then there was another girl and all the shit he told me i actually fell for it
then with the other guy i was falling for him hes interested in me and everything but now hes saying he has a gf i dont understand this shit
and when i think about it i have no intentions of going out with the second guy
please help me

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Posted Monday July 18 2005, 11:53 pm

Okay, im really like overwhelmed. Like 5 guys always iM me and are like would u fuck me? and, there really nice people but like to joke around with me, and they say there jus messin with me. but its hard bc all the guys are all really hott. but it gets really annoying bc now i dont know who to trust. ive been in relationships where ive been cheated on, and theres rumours going around about me having sex with diff people. one of my guy friends said he heard im "loose " an that it seems like i have sex alot which isnt the case at all. i jus feel like giving up on guys all together and jus...be lonely the rest of my life.....any advice on what to do?

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WiLL HE ASK AGAiN??!


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 11:39 pm

okayy well this kid i like nick has asked me out 2 now.. but i kinda keep saying maybe. i say maybe because i wanna get to know him more. we met about 4 months ago.. and we connected on a boy friend girl friend relationship right away. sometimes i wish we were just friends for a while.. and THEN we started liking eachother.. but anyway. ive gotton to know him more.. and i like him so much.. i dunno how to let him know.. do i just come out and say " nick im ready to go out with you! " or just wait around n see if he asks me again? ahh id feel stupid if i just came out n said it.. i know he still likes me.. but i dunno how to get him to ask me again because i think hes afraid im gunna regect him..any ideas or suggestions?? =(

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Guilty?


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 11:09 pm

Okay, so i think i asked this question wrong last time, so im guna re ask it.

-- Theres this boy whom i meet thru a friend at the movies a week ago. And we really hit it off, so he came over the next night. That night we played the "question game" and now i feel like i've known him forever. So when he was over he was like a family guy, and this made me really happy! Because most of the time when i have guys over to meet my family, they just get annoyed and want to be alone. And coming from a family of 5 kids, i need a boy who will enjoy being around my siblings. Well anyways, the next night he came over.. and we were chillin on my couch and like cuddling and watching movies. I have a messed up knee && just ...

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LONG STORY - PLEASE HELP!!


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 10:29 pm

Okay, here's the deal. My one guy-friend told me he liked me and that he wanted to go to the movies with me.. and I said yes ; because I did/didn't like him ( cause I haven't seen him in for like ever ) but I didn't want there being awkwardness so I had my one friend kinda invite herself ( lol yeah I know.. ). So she was coming to the movies. But then he didn't have money for it, so he couldn't go, so he suggested just hanging at his house. Well all day nothing happened, and it was getting latish kinda around 7 or something so I didn't even think I was going...but then he suddenly said he could come and get me. So I was allowed and stuff which was awseome! But then we stopped to rent movies, and his mom went shopping and stuff, so we didn't...

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crush


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 10:26 pm

i have a crush on a guy that everyone thinks is cute an dhe knows but he doesnt like me anymore than just a friend he says im pretty that i have a nice body but he still says that he only likes me like a friend and every time i see him with another girl i get mad. do you guys have anything to offer something that will make him like more or anything good will rate a.s.a.p

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Long Distance Love


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 10:08 pm

My boyfriend of over two years is in the Navy. We're working on a long distance relationship and we have gotten so much closer, it's unbelievable. I'm going to visit him in 18 days where he's stationed in Florida, and I'm going to be there for almost two weeks. I want these two weeks to be the best ever. Any suggestions on what I can do to make it awesome? What kinda things can we do, or what can I say/do to show him my feelings haven't changed? I want this to be perfect. =)

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lost and confused


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 9:31 pm

ok i have this g/f and i really care for her and i even love her but i dont think she understands exactly how much i care she is always flirtin with other boys and she gots mad at me all the time and i dont kno wat to do she says she really cares for me too and at times she shows it but at other times i fill like im not even datin her i have tried to tell her and talk to her but then she gits mad at me...please help me

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I Love Him..?


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 8:43 pm

Okay, well.. I've known this kid for like, ever! Since he moved here. And I was his FIRST friend when he moved up here. Well, anyways.. I liked him when I was little. But then I thought, that's kinda weird cause he's my best friend..So then I just started to like him this year. And, I tried to get over him, but I can't. What's your advice for me? What should I do???




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HMM a LiTTLE NERVOUSS


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 8:12 pm

okayy well.. this nick kid n me really like eachother.. i have a few questions.we're not really going out right now.. but we deffinatly act as a couple. im just wondering.. do you think we have to do " freaky things " in order to keep the relatioship alive> i mean hes 15 im 14, n i kno hes constintly thinking about sex with all his hormones.. but will he just dump me? he knows my value on sex, how i want to stay a virgin untilim married, and hes continued liking me. but i also have some other questions.. haha this might sound weird.. but how do you make out. i mean ive KISSED ex-boy friends.. like little pecks and all, but i know wen nick and i start going out, we wont be going any further than making out.. so im just a little ...

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Posted Monday July 18 2005, 8:08 pm

okay well I like this guy alot but he's so confussing.I mean he will tell me he like's me and flirt's with me then the next day he will act like he dosn't like me and start talking about another girl.It's like he can't decied if he actualy likes me or not.I've liked him since like December and I've had boyfriends since then, but always have wanted him.Im so confussed and don't know if he really like's me or is just pulling this along.I've tried to just get over him but it didn't work.I don't know really what to do.please help.

--Confussed love

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????????????


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 8:01 pm

Ok I'm 13/f and I have a crush on someone. I never have in my entire life. I refuse to tell anyone because I feel really guilty and I'm worried people will make fun of me because everyone thinks I'm a nerd. I should be focusing on getting into the Honor Choir and straight A's, not boys! Is it a bad thing? It would be really cool if someone can give me some info! thx

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Boy to be or not?


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 6:41 pm

..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no par...

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getting back together


Posted Monday July 18 2005, 4:06 pm

I have this crush on this guy who i really like we keep going out and breaking up and i want to get back together with him but i don't know what to say. HELP!

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Posted Monday July 18 2005, 4:03 pm

Not long ago i came on here for advice between my boyfriend and another guy i really liked and decided to make a go of trying to spice things up.We went out clubbing together and had the night of our lives and soon forgot about this other guy i like.A week later me and my friend got together had a few drinks and decided to have a few more at the local.The other guy was there and as i was plastered, bought him a drink i owed him and danced and chatted with him all night.He invited me and my mate to his house for a few more drinks but my mate left at 3am leaving us 2 alone and then we had a drunkin kiss and ended up sleeping together.Im now meeting up with him and we have so much in common including partners.Now im confused coz i like this other guy but i love my boyfriend.

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