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My live in boyfriend was having an affair with a married woman


Posted Tuesday October 2 2012, 1:32 pm

I found out my live in boyfriend was having an affair with a married woman. I told him I knew and he says he ended it. He says he did it with her because she came onto him. Her being married made it safe, because the relationship wouldnt go anywhere.He said he cheated because he thought I didn't want him. She keeps calling him texting, shes even been calling our house phone daily blocking her number and hanging up. The affair took place in her and her husbands home. She also told him I keep driving back and forth by her house(I don't know where she lives). What do you make of this situation? My boyfriend and I are in counseling and recently got married.




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I always fall in love with straight guys


Posted Tuesday October 2 2012, 5:00 am

Hi I'm M/22 and I'm from the Philippines. I came out when i was in 1st year college, but not to everyone, but my family knows about my sexual orientation. I have this dilemma in life that i always fall in love with straight guys, but im cool with that, but im not cool with the fact that he doesnt know that I'm gay... i've been with the circle of friends for almost a year now and 2 of my friends know that im gay... what to do with my feelings for this guy? I think I really fell in love with him already... :(

Thanks in advance.

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What is the difference between dating and being together


Posted Monday October 1 2012, 9:53 pm

I'm a 17 years old male

My question is what is the difference between dating, boyfriend and girlfriend, and when a girl says she is together with you. I have met this girl of the same age as me and we started to get to know for about nine months. In that time I admitted I liked her, which caught her by surprise, but she started to begin to like me. I asked her out but she didn't respond because she didn't want to lose me as a friend or something ,but at the same time wanted to. So i asked her to the dance and she said yes in a flash despite the bunch of guys that asked her. Were both awkward people so we decided to learn to be closer to each-other for the dance, like holding hands and stuff. After the dance we continued this...

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Do you think I'm clingy towards my boyfriend?


Posted Monday October 1 2012, 9:56 am

I text my boyfriend everyday, and call him at most once a day. Is that considered clingy? We hardly hang out. I have a job, I go to school & I friends. When I want to call him or hang out he doesn't want to. He acts like I get on his nerves sometimes.We have mutual friends and I hear that he tells them that I always want his attention. It hurts my feelings when he doesn't want to talk to me sometimes, I get paranoid. I don't think that I'm always up under him, but some days he wants to be with me and we're happy. Other days he treats me like I'm an annoying little sister sometimes. Am I being clingy?If I am I don't wanna lose him, so how do I work on staying "not-clingy"?


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your his first love, do u think he'll ever forget u?


Posted Monday October 1 2012, 7:02 am

hey, well when your ex tells you that your his first love, do u think he'll ever forget u?

or say that you've broken up around 2 months ago do you think he doesn't still think of me or anything?...

i just still aint moved on

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All he wants to do is eat me out after 5 years... does he love me?


Posted Monday October 1 2012, 4:43 am

Does it mean a guy loves u,if u been messin wit him for 7years,and he just eat u out after 5years,And now thats all he wanna do?

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Posted Monday October 1 2012, 2:00 am

what to call him instead of his name.

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Confused about my sexuality


Posted Monday October 1 2012, 12:43 am

I'm a junior in high school and my entire life I've only been into guys. I have never felt an attraction to a girl no matter how long and close I was with her. However, recently I feel like I might have a crush on a very tomboyish girl. It's her masculinity that attracts me to her and her feminine side turns me off. I don't like the thought of boobs and a vagina, but then again, I don't really think much about the penis either. I've never had sex, but I've had boyfriends. I don't think I'll ever like a girl aside from her again. I've only ever had the occasional girl crush, nothing sexual. I don't even know if what I feel towards her is sexual, but I would like to kiss her and touch her.... Am I just curious? Am I bisexual? Is it that I jus...

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Should I leave my boyfriend?


Posted Sunday September 30 2012, 10:38 pm

I'm Camilla I'm 21 my boyfriend 21 as well. We been together for a year and 9 months. It's been the same issue he would talk to another girl. Lie say he not in a relationship we would breakup. Get back together talk it out then have good days. Then the issue would just repeat. I don't know what to do anymore. Please help me?

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How do u get ur bf to call u babe and be all lovey dovey


Posted Sunday September 30 2012, 9:38 pm

How do u get ur bf to be all lovey dovey with you

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Met a girl who lives across the Atlantic online..


Posted Sunday September 30 2012, 6:14 pm

Hi,

I'm a 16 year old guy and live in New York. I was just bored a few weeks ago and signed up for "flirtbox"(www.flirtbox.com), I came across this girls profile who lives in the Netherlands(pictures werent very clear, but she seemed cool and open minded), and she liked traveling. She was the same age as me so I sent her a message. We started chatting back and forth, and she says she's really into the Indian culture(I'm American Indian), so we hit it off, talking about school and what we're studying...

so then, she gives me her MSN(no facebook, she said she didn't have one and I was very skeptical..), but we talked on MSN a lot, and then she asked if I had "Viber", I said no but I googled it...

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i want to be exactly like her


Posted Sunday September 30 2012, 4:35 pm

Sorry didn't know in what category to put this.well I'm 12 and I do modeling and this 16 year old girl doesn't it with me. I really like this guy and he's dating this 16 year old girl and me and her fight a lot and well yeah. Anyway that's not the point she's my role model and I want to be exactly like her!she dies her hair a lot but I'm not allowed she has the best body ever! She takes laxitives tho should I take that or is there any other ways to get a body like that?(I'm not fat I have a nice body but I want her body!)I'm even trying to talk and act like her! This isn't just to get the guy its also because I think if I'm more like her then maybe me and her can talk and stuff and then she won't hate me:( we used to talk but then I lied to...

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Am I a slut???


Posted Sunday September 30 2012, 4:15 pm

Ok, so I am 13 years old and I liked this guy, so my friend asked what he thought of me and he said he might go out with me. It turns out he was lying. He did it for the fun of it. He then said that I would never have a chance with him. He also said I would never find love or a boyfriend ever. Then what shocked me. He said that I come of very slutty and am a slut. I have NEVER had sex or even had a boyfriend. I was raised by good parents and always wear clothes that don't show too much cleavage or shorts that are too short. I don't wear that much makeup either. Recently I was called a slut again by my friends sister. I am always really nice to people and I don't understand why they all seem to hate me.. Am I a slut?? I am starting to believe it since a lot of people are saying it.

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Posted Sunday September 30 2012, 1:20 am

i am 32. I loved a girl and considered her the Goddess of my life, never looked at any other girl but later we(she and myself) discovered that i have erectile dysfuncion. She says i knew it and i did not tell her. She says i cheated her. So she left me. I am devastated. Want to end my life because
1. I don't know whether my ED is curable or not
2. Even if it is, my life is worthless because she doesn't love me anymore she hates me and loves somebody else. So without her, i cannot even think of life

I have no hopes left other than killing myself


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a boy i dated for 2 days


Posted Saturday September 29 2012, 5:06 pm

One day i was going to skool and i saw a guy that i liked and my friends were asking me who i liked and i said his name and most of them seem like they were serious so they went up to his table and ask him out for me and he said yes so i dated him for 2 days then his ex-girlfriend came in the relationship and i was angry forthe day he broke up with me just for a girl that was my bf and she knew that i was datin him so i got angry at her so when i hear his name around i get sad cause i miss him. So i want you answer should i still be mad at my bf? or not? :(


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Have feelings for my flatmate.


Posted Saturday September 29 2012, 12:32 pm

19/F/Bi

I moved into my flat at university a week ago, and it didn't take long for awkward feelings to arise. I really fancy one of my male flatmates, let's call him H. When we first met we instantly clicked and got on really well, but for some reason that went away quickly and now we're not very comfortable around each other. I think it's possible this has something to do with the fact that he's very extroverted whilst I'm very introverted.

To make matters worse, I'm also somewhat attracted to one of my female flatmates, N. And N and H have gotten very close and appear more than just friendly to me. They act like they're just friends - and H is actually interested in another girl on campus - but then they'll d...

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forgive me for breaking up with you when i was mad it was stupid


Posted Saturday September 29 2012, 12:33 am

i told my boyfriend it was over and i broke up with him because i was mad and i told him alot of nasty stuff, now i want to take everything back and i want him back but i dont know what to say. what do i do

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Stuck and Confused: I am crushing super hard on my SI organic chemistry student tutor.


Posted Friday September 28 2012, 11:54 pm

I am crushing super hard on my SI organic chemistry student tutor. Let's call me *Kane*. He's really smart, but not arrogant, so cute, funny, and laid back. I want to talk to him, but I just don't when. I only seem on three occasion : 1) when he's sits in on my lecture 2) when i go the SI tutor 3) when I go see my private tutor. I just can't talk to him alone, and its driving me crazy, because I really think we hit it off. I just don't how start with, because he's not the typical guy I fall for, and its freaking me out. I just don't wanna come off as stupid or creepy grrr I don't know what to do, I just really like him a lot! Help!

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he doesn't even talk to me at school though


Posted Friday September 28 2012, 11:38 pm

okay, like..we talk everyday afterschool and he always tells me to go visit him during his break at work since i live like right across the street from his job, so i do. but like,at school we'll see each other and we'll only say hi , and then when we arent at school and we're hanging out he's like, a complete flirt and he's super sweet and stuff. i feel like he's hiding me or something. but then i dont because his cousin knows about me and since me and his cousin are good friends he tells me that he (the guy i have a thing with) always talks about me and says im amazing , and that he really , really likes me and all this other cute stuff.
so i really am considering your previous advice because he makes me like the happiest person ev...

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Excuses of the way i tick just lost


Posted Friday September 28 2012, 10:16 pm

Since childhood i was made to feel worthless (from father)i was 2nd &reminded of who i wasnt &a glimpse of me would be told off for daring to be someone else but who i tried to be was me.from there i put myself in mysery to fight for my dignaty ,whith handfulls of happiness ,laughing to me is such joy when it happens i relish it.My biggest problem as an adult is i have 5children&apartner &as a family im the leader to outings but any invites to anybody ,i excuse myself ,i have anxiety but its having to communicate that il reherse if its an unbreakable commitment ,&if i let myself be seen mentally i feel a second of relief the shame&anger for lettin my thoughts out why

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