Question Posted Friday September 28 2012, 11:38 pm
okay, like..we talk everyday afterschool and he always tells me to go visit him during his break at work since i live like right across the street from his job, so i do. but like,at school we'll see each other and we'll only say hi , and then when we arent at school and we're hanging out he's like, a complete flirt and he's super sweet and stuff. i feel like he's hiding me or something. but then i dont because his cousin knows about me and since me and his cousin are good friends he tells me that he (the guy i have a thing with) always talks about me and says im amazing , and that he really , really likes me and all this other cute stuff.
so i really am considering your previous advice because he makes me like the happiest person ever and like, straight up makes everything more fun and entertaining, but uggghh why doesnt he show it at school!? haha
lvr answered Saturday September 29 2012, 2:13 pm: Well love, If he only wants to be with you when he's not around other people, it's quite possible that he likes you as a friend or for casually sex but not as a relationship girl. So don't sell yourself short. If he's keeping you a secret, he's just not that into you and if you are looking for a relationship, don't give yourself to him until you are sure he's into an exclusive relationship with you. Don't have casual sexual encounters with him expecting that cause him to fall for you, you could be the best sex he's ever had and if he isn't ready for a relationship, you won't be able to change his mind. You have to know what YOU want from the relationship and don't give yourself away for less. [ lvr's advice column | Ask lvr A Question ]
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