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My live in boyfriend was having an affair with a married woman
I found out my live in boyfriend was having an affair with a married woman. I told him I knew and he says he ended it. He says he did it with her because she came onto him. Her being married made it safe, because the relationship wouldnt go anywhere.He said he cheated because he thought I didn't want him. She keeps calling him texting, shes even been calling our house phone daily blocking her number and hanging up. The affair took place in her and her husbands home. She also told him I keep driving back and forth by her house(I don't know where she lives). What do you make of this situation? My boyfriend and I are in counseling and recently got married.
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Stay in counselling and ask your questions there.
Your husband betrayed you in a big way, and it sounds like he still hasn't really taken responsibility for it.
She's a bit nutty - and he might use her nuttiness as an ongoing way to avoid really taking ownership for his choices.
He brought this on you and on your marriage with him. Whatever mistakes you may have made, you can own them, and he needs to own this and get very serious about bringing it to an end.
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Stay in counselling and ask your questions there.
Your husband betrayed you in a big way, and it sounds like he still hasn't really taken responsibility for it.
She's a bit nutty - and he might use her nuttiness as an ongoing way to avoid really taking ownership for his choices.
He brought this on you and on your marriage with him. Whatever mistakes you may have made, you can own them, and he needs to own this and get very serious about bringing it to an end.
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