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Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 11:27 am

ok so there's this guy *Tim* and I have been talking to him alot on IMs but everytime we talk I somehow end up flashing him on my web cam. I mean I have dumps two of my boyfriends(now my exs). I really like this guy so don't tell me something like stop talking to him. I just wanna know if there is anything sneaky or something like that so that I don't end up flashing him!

I Really Need Some Help!

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love or ethics....oh crap


Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 9:41 am

Saw a waitress (shes 21, im 25) at local pub, big crush, five months later I'm pretty sure she likes me, never talked to her but she stole glances (as did i) so I asked her out for coffee, she said yes. I phone her the next week, she is ill, phone again a couple of times to hear how she is doing. The next sunday I phone her again, no awnser, 5 minutes later she sms me back that she has a boyfriend "but we can still have coffee". I sms back that she should just give me some time, decide to get over it.

Next time I'm at the pub she comes and chats with me (sitting next to me), and the next time, and the next. The more we talk the more I love her. She even tells me when shes working (I didn't ask). Last Tuesday i'm th...

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Boyfriend


Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 9:39 am

I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until im 14 or 15. is this fair? why?

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my ex =[


Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 9:01 am

SORRY ITS SO LONG.. BUT I'LL RATE 5'S FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT.

ok so my ex ((james)) broke up with me in April and we had been going out for 4 months.. i really liked him alot.. he was probably the one guy i liked the most.. well i really missed him for a while and i would talk to him online and we'd be friends.. but then he started to become popular and snobby to me... then we were fighting and he called me a slut.. so i blocked him and he's been blocked.. and now its summer and i never see him or talk to him.. but i still have feelings for him.. i mean i don't like him as much as i used to but thinking of him makes me sad and i miss him.. i can't tell if i really still like him.. but i wanna hate him so badly!.. so then...

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My girlfriend and me are getting depressed


Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 8:11 am

I met my girlfriend over the internet about 7 months ago. We started as a good friendship. So then I asked for her phone number. We talked on the phone for hours and hours. I started to love her and have really strong feelings for her. She did too. We did webcam and send pictures and mail. But things started to happen to me I started to feel depressed. I started to have personal problems with my family about it. I didn't care I know I love this girl a lot. I haven't seen her yet cause I'm not ready yet. I want to look good for her physically and in ma peronality. I don't want her to see an ugly me. I want to lift weights get taller and look good for her. I want to have money and get my education. Thats why I haven't gone to see her. I want ...

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Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 7:57 am

ok...well im really upset right now...usually im the person giving advice but not this time..well me and my boyfriend lets call him...bob?...and this girl...up lets call her paris?...idk..well im reallyy upset right now..and im sorry if this is long..i was going thru my boyfriends myspace and i saw a comment that "paris" left saying awww i <3 you too...so i was like huh..and i looked on her myspace and on her comments he left one saying...i love you =) hehee...that got me jealous..and i looked at "parises" pictures..and he left a comment saying...like dang your soo pretty..and im so jealous cse i know im not as pretty as her..and i dont get why but im soo upset..and i know shes better then i am..and she goes to him wh...

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Developed a need for love


Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 7:41 am

Over the past 2 months, I've had 4 crushes. One of them I met online, she likes me too; one of them likes me as a friend; one of them I really don't give a damn, but I think she was hitting on me; and one of them is my best friend's sister. So, when I had a crush, when I loved, it was the best feeling of my life. I never wanted to lose that feeling, it was (I quote "What is this feeling?" from Wicked) "Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe". But in a good way. A very very good way. Problem is, I've lost the feeling. Good feeling's gone. I love no longer. But I want to love despaately, I really do! I want to keep the feeling! I want to be truly happy again! Advicenators, what should I do?

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Harry Potter/Ginny Weasley-Style Crush


Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 7:36 am

Aight, this sounds so much like Harry Potter #6, I'm just gonna call myself Harry, my friend Ron, and hi sister Ginny.
NOTE: I'm not taking anything except for names from the book, everything else is just a coincidence.

So, I've been Ron's friend for 6 years. Nothing wrong with that, we're best friends. Then he has a sister who's a year younger than him. I kinda like her, but not quite entirely. Plus, I'm telling myself that I can't like her, she's Ron's sister! I see her a lot, I go over to Ron's house frequently. She participates in a lot of the activities we do, be it Monopoly or GameCube. I really haven't cared until about two days ago, when I noticed, "Hey, I could spent the rest of my life with this girl!&qu...

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Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 2:27 am

alright. this will be long.
me and my boyfriend have known eachother since kindergarden. we went out in sixth grade, and broke up after 4 months of seeing eachother.
i am in love with him, and he knows it, because we have been going out again since the 2nd. last night he told me he loved me as well.
my parents do not approve of him though. i think it is because my mom thinks he lies to me (which he doesnt) and my dad never liked any boy i went out with (because that's just how dads are) my sister doesnt like him, either, and i dont know why she doesnt.
how can i get my family to approve of him?


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Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 2:07 am

is it bad that i am an independant person.. when ever i get a boyfriend i dotn like it when he spends any money on me because i dont like it when girls use guys to buy them shit. but anyways my best friend is makin a big deal about it and my boyfriend doesnt like the idea. he thinks i dont like him when i dont let him buy me anything.. can someone please either help me change my point of view on this?? or do you think it is a good or bad that i am independant?? thanks

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=/ I D0N`T KN0W!


Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 1:49 am

Im 14 and my boyfriend & I have been going out for 3 weeks. 2 nights ago we have a really romantic night and we cuddles and he kissed me and we watched movies. & he said he had a great time and i did too. But when we talked a day after he was acting weird & not himself like on IM hes usually like HEY BABY!! And he was just like heyyy. & he stopped calling me and it was weird. i dont know if hes scared of getting hurt or hes gonna break up with me =/ i wasnt being clingy or anything he made all the first moves. So i dont know what to do. ive been worrying about it & I like him so much you have no idea. whats going on?? PS. tomorrows my birthday and he said we were gonna spend the whole day together and he hasnt even talke...

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how can i tell this boy i like him


Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 12:04 am

hi pplz. i think i like this boy but i'm scared to tell him. what can i say to give him hints that i like him. he's supposed to come down tomarrow. to talk to me and stuff and watch a movie. but i still wanna tell him b4 hand that i like him..please help me

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I'm Inlove But I Did Something Bad


Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 12:01 am

Well i was datin this boy *jamie*. and me and him got into a arguement over me braking up with him cause my parents split up. he said i broke up with him for a boy named *rodney* but i didn't me and rodney started talking 2 days later. cause he lives next to my mom. i was supposed to move in with my mom but i didn't and i wrote him a 4 paragraph note on icq. and sent it to him. explaining everything to him. but he still is all jumping down my throat. well i don't know what to do. cause i REALLY love *jamie*. he was my first love. and i can't move on with out him. i'd do anything for that boy. what can i say or do to make everything better.. the other thing is. that the other nite i think last saturday. we got into a arguement. and he threat...

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does she really love me?


Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 11:56 pm

okay me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 5 months. i knew her a good while before, and fell in love with her before we started going out. she says she is so in love with me, and sometimes yeah, it seems like it i mean she brings me random gifts and calls me back right after we hang up. dont get me wrong she does many other good things too. but what im wondering is we broke up 3 times. i did it once, she did it once, and 1 time was a misunderstanding. each time i had to fight my little but off to get her back, shes so stubborn she wont even put forth an effort. she kinda seems like she just watches me try. well either way im in love with her so im forced to deal with it. whenever i try to get us back together, she just...

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pornofreak


Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 11:49 pm

Okay.. i know that its normal for guys to watch porn and all, but i mean come on. My boyfriend sits there and says that he's not interested in it anymore and stuff and then he goes and says he's gonna buy some for one of my friends... that doesn't even bother me its just that he is OBSESSED with it. he like always is saying hes gonna get rid of some of it but then he liked never does and just gets more. its like a drug for him. ik its not that big of a deal but am i totally crazy for being jealous?? we have the greatest realationship outside of that... im sorry this is so long but if anyone can answer this good ill rate high.

thanks!

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Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 11:45 pm

16/f My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months. Our 3 month anniversary is coming up in a bit over a week. I really wanna make it special for him but I keep thinking that all of my ideas are a little too cheesy or not good enough for him. He deserves the best. What should I do for him that would be loveable?

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Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 11:42 pm

i think i might be bisexual, how do you know if you are?

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How can i tell?


Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 11:36 pm

How can i tell if this guy i was with but just broke up with because of a distance issue still likes me?? I mean cuz he is always around and talks to me still..Like calls me everyday..and his fave team is the ravens and he wants me to wear my ravens shirt and idk..but i really do love this guy..How can I express myself to him and How can i tell if he still likes me??

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help pleasee!!


Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 11:14 pm

Ok theres this kid i know, and we met at camp. were always making eye contact and at the dance he waited til the last song to ask me to dance.. i kno i like him, but im not sure if he likes me.. i wanna talk to him more but when i talk to him i get all shy and stop talkin. Wat are some good topics to talk to him about and do u think he could possibly like me?
please anything!
i rate 5's!!

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Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 11:05 pm

Hey. I have a big problem. I had a crush on this guy who is like 2 years older then me {i'm 14, so he is 16}, just a tiny one. But, my older sister who is 20 LIKES him. But, it sucks because all the guys I like I can't because of friends, and now it's come down to my sisters. I liked a guy that was my other sisters age but then she started likin him so i had to back off, since he was so much older... but there not dating ne ways. But, my 20 year old sister is going out on a date with him... What if they become boyfriend and girlfriend.... maybe i just think that he's cute... But i dunno... If they do become bf and gf, it would be weird if i like, see them kissing or something.. well maybe it wont. I'm really confused...


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