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Hey. I have a big problem. I had a crush on this guy who is like 2 years older then me {i'm 14, so he is 16}, just a tiny one. But, my older sister who is 20 LIKES him. But, it sucks because all the guys I like I can't because of friends, and now it's come down to my sisters. I liked a guy that was my other sisters age but then she started likin him so i had to back off, since he was so much older... but there not dating ne ways. But, my 20 year old sister is going out on a date with him... What if they become boyfriend and girlfriend.... maybe i just think that he's cute... But i dunno... If they do become bf and gf, it would be weird if i like, see them kissing or something.. well maybe it wont. I'm really confused...
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First thing you should do is have a chat wit your sis. Second is if you think you only might have an attraction then wait it out a couple of days. See if you think about him a lot, or if you jus can't get him outta your head. If that happens then you prolly like him.
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Someone's always there to steal your crush, as evil as that sounds. Mine was my cousin, and her and I were very close, but she got EVERY guy! My advice, is to stick it out, if you really like him tell him how you feel, and explain that you would appriciate that if him and you sister do become bf/gf that if you kept your lives sperate because it would be rude to flaunt his relationship in your face. If they don't hook up, try seeing if you like him for personality or for looks, because there might be your answer, yea, you may crush, but its poeple who have sparkling personality's that keep things fresh and fun...I would try sorting out if you really like him or your just crushin... Hope I helped... Jack
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tell your sister, she will understand
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