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confused
Posted Friday October 21 2005, 7:42 am
well i went out with this guy for 16mths and we broke up coz he cheated on me with alot of my mates i know its bad but were been broken up now for 6 mths and out of the blue i get this email i wana be mates and i still like you and all the rest of it i realy want to be mates but i know i love him to much to just be mates but i dont want to get back to gether with him coz i know ill only get hert agian and yet i also want to be mates im so confused i know i shouldnt go back but it realy herts deep down i dont know what to do please just help me i realy carnt deal with this on my own
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first make out problems PLEASE HELP ASAP
Posted Friday October 21 2005, 6:09 am
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ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out 1 month this tuesday. but the only thing we've done is cuddled and like 1 kiss. it was just a peck too. :( he thinks i've made out before, EVERYONE does.. maybe because i told them i have. just because i didnt want to seem like a loser. so everyone thinks ive madeout before, so my boyfriend matt is really wondering why im not making out with him. well i just, dont know what to do. when i kissed him two wednesdays ago, i just like kept my mouth half open, because i never knew like, what i should do.. so then yeah idk tonight we're going to a football game, and football games are makeout central, and i know he wants to make out with me.. and i know hes gonna start...
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want to make the first move........
Posted Friday October 21 2005, 1:56 am
What do you do when you've got two people that really like each other but they are both really shy?
The guy that I like ( and he likes me back) is really shy. We've done things together as friends like played tennis and gone to hockey games. But he's never tried to kiss me or even go to second base with me. The most we have done is hugged each other. I'm really shy too so I've never tried anything with him, but I'm worried that if I keep waiting for him to make the first move it will never happen!
I want to break out of character and make the first move the next time I see him.
Does anyone have any advice on how I could do this without freaking him out!
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i dont exist anymore
Posted Friday October 21 2005, 12:57 am
ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months, but we've been close friends for about a year. when we first got together, everything was great.. we were so happy together!!! but then over the summer i went on a family vacation for alomost a month (i kept in touch with him as much as i could while i was gone, but i was overseas and it was hard) and when i got back (on his birthday! wouldnt think that was a good present? lol) he acted like he didnt care about me anymore. and it gets worse.. im a senior and he graduated last year, and he works two jobs, so it makes it hard to see him. when hes not working he "forgets" to call me and goes fishing or some other manly thing with his friends. now, i dont have a problem with his ...
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i simply need help with everything to do with my boyfriend
Posted Friday October 21 2005, 12:21 am
how do i let him know i want to makeout with him? how do i talk to him and how do i know if he wants to be kissed. if he didnt want to be kissed would he be mad? if i see him in the hall at school what should i do. I RATE 5'S ALL THE WAY
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Third Times A Charm Right?
Posted Friday October 21 2005, 12:04 am
Well, there's this guy, omg where do I begin....I love him sooooo much, and I know this for a fact because in the past I've had two bad relationships, and I vowed to myself that I can never love a man again....until I met, well let's call him Jack. Jack and I work together, and we've actually gotten alot closer throughout the time we've worked together. I've liked Jack now for 7 months now. I found out a while back that Jack liked me too, but I never really believed the people who told me because I've been rejected quite a few times. So yeah, I'm like deeply in love with him, and where I work @ we're about to get laid-off, but he said we're gonna keep in touch and besides we live close to eachother. So should I break the ice? Our management...
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relationship phobia
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 11:37 pm
Hey...my roommate (20/f) was in a horrible relationship recently and she's kind of afraid to start dating again. There's this guy that really likes her and he seems pretty nice. However, he's shorter than her, which she doesn't like, and he's pretty clingy. They've slept together before, they didn't do anything, so she was totally leading him on and everything. She hangs out with him still sometimes, but she always complains to me about how annoying he is. I know that she liked him at one point, but I'm not sure if she still does, it's really hard to tell. I know that it makes her feel bad whenever I say something about my boyfriend because she's lonely. Should I encourage her to date him and if so how? I really want her to get over her new...
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boy troubles
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 11:31 pm
i like this one guy named tyler. ive never actually really talked to him but i think he is really cute and i really want to get to know him. i have 2 classes with tyler and i dont sit near him in any of them. any ideas on how to talk to him without going too far out of my way?? thanx
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Confused...
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 11:30 pm
ok I am talking to my X Boyfriend and we are thinking of dateing again cause we cant really let each other go...and my mom dosnt like him at ALL!! she calls him a jerk and all that....I have been asking her to give him another chance cause he really has changed....and my x boyfriend (might be boyfriend) he keeps talking about how I hurt him and he tells me that he was heartbroken for a month or 2 and he feels better that we might be dateing agian...but how can I get my mom and dad to approve of him again???
PLEASE HELP ME!!! I will rate all 5's I just really need ADVICE!!
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help!
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 11:12 pm
I need to get over this guy. I have liekd him for about 14 weeks and I finally decided that I have waited long enough. How do I get ovre him? Please respond quickly, I rate high for GOOD answers.
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friend zone
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 10:49 pm
So is it true what they say, that once you are friends with a girl you are trapped in the friend zone forever, and it will never grow into something more? or is it just a myth?
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boyfriend.. jealous.
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 10:07 pm
lately my boyfriend has had girls all over him or at least tryin to be. i dont go to the same school as him or get to see him all the time. i see him like once every two weeks. anyways here is my problem he used to like this girl be4 he meet me. he asked her out and she wanted to except she didnt because she thought he was a big flirt so didnt. and now she is going back to liking him and she trys to be around him all the time. (from what he tells me) and i know that he likes her still because he still talks to her and flirts with her. (i know guys are big flirts) but lately i have been getting jealous that she can spend more time with him then i can. one more thing on top of that i barely get to talk to him on the phone anymore. his phone i...
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Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 9:01 pm
okay well theres this guy at school. he really really likes me and i dont know what too do. i mean hes really nice and all but not too be shallow but hes not all that attractive. i would date him because hes such a nice guy but when i think about doing anything with him. like sexual stuff. i completely get turned off but its not like that with other guys. what should i do? whats going on?
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Is he intersted?
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 8:58 pm
18f I recently met a guy online. We have been talking through friendster. He makes me laguh and I amke him laugh. He has mentioned in passing that if he had known me im person he would ask me out. What does that mean? He says that I am funny and intersting and I think he is too. I have not mentioned it b3ecuase i am shy. However does anyone think he is interested? I would like to know becasue I have become interested in him. I dont know if he is just being nice becaue we are online or if he really thinks Im cool. We have also started talking on aim.
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c0nfused...
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 8:57 pm
Ok well there's this guy at my skool who acts like a total retard...like all the time..he's mature looking but he acts immature. Well he likes me...and he's always going out of his way to get in my face and act retarded...literally..im not just usin retarded as a way to say actin like an idiot! Like I never even noticed him until he started appraochin me and,,at first I was like ewww...but now im so0o confused..it's like i cant wait till I get out of my class to "run into" him in the hallway....idk if I like him or what..like it's so wierd...i think about if he were to ask me out..nd my first reaction would be no..but then why do i think about him and want to see him??? I'm really confused and I'll rate 5's if you even try to answer my question! thx!
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Mixed feelings..?
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 8:17 pm
Ok, so I have a friend, Trevor. He's everything that anyone would want in a guy.. Curly blonde hair, big blue eyes, a 6 pack, smart as poindexter, nice, funny, and he plays any sport under the sun: Tennis, Basketball, Football, Badminton, Cross Country, and Surfing. I used to have a crush on him a couple months ago, and he had a crush on me, too, but at the time he had a girlfriend. Then about a month later it seemed as though our feelings for eachother totally went away. Then one day we were talking on the internet, and he recently found out that I asked out a person from our tennis team, Marshall. He asked me, "Are you going out with Marshall?" and I go, "No, but I asked him out" and he totally freaked out about it and...
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Kickboxer...
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 8:16 pm
ok well I stay fit and when ever I date someone they are just after my body!! if really bugs me and if they ask how I stay fit I tell them that I kickbox and the make jokes like WOW YOU CAN KICK SOME ONE AROUND IF THEY MAKE YA MAD HUH? AND IF I DO THIS YOU'D PROB HIT ME WONT YA it bugs me!!! I mean and I do a bit of kickboxing but why do they always make jokes at me???
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real or not?
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 7:46 pm
im not sure if im exsperincing a real feeling for a "guy" friend of mine or if im just doing it to like someone. I'm afraid to ask him to do something because i don't want to ruin out friendship but I'm afraid that if i don't say anything than I may miss a good chance. i want to try to like him but i don't want to ruin our frienship, which i value more.very confused here..please help!
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Prenuptial agreement
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 7:41 pm
If you were asked to sign a prenup, would you sill want to get married to that person? I always thought that if you go into marriage with the thought of divorce then it will happen. Signing a prenup is kind of like saying "hey, if this doesn't go well then we can just get a divorce and all my money will still be okay."
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i like my friend
Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 6:58 pm
i like my friend and i cant stop thinking about hehr but i dont know if she likes me back what should i do?
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