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boyfriend.. jealous.
lately my boyfriend has had girls all over him or at least tryin to be. i dont go to the same school as him or get to see him all the time. i see him like once every two weeks. anyways here is my problem he used to like this girl be4 he meet me. he asked her out and she wanted to except she didnt because she thought he was a big flirt so didnt. and now she is going back to liking him and she trys to be around him all the time. (from what he tells me) and i know that he likes her still because he still talks to her and flirts with her. (i know guys are big flirts) but lately i have been getting jealous that she can spend more time with him then i can. one more thing on top of that i barely get to talk to him on the phone anymore. his phone is ALWAYS busy. and he has his own line so his parents dont use it. i know for a fact that no guy can talk to another guy for over 2 hours. i want to tell him how i feel except i dont want him to think that i dont trust him. because i do i just dont know or want to know her or trust her. someone help me out!! please.
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I know how you feel. I have been there plenty of times. I know that you trust him you just dont trust her. I think that you should talk to him because if you dont you are just going to continue to be miserable. I know you dont want him to feel like you dont trust him. You should tell him that its not that you dont trust him you just dont trust her and ask who he is talking to for 2 hours. If he has the internet does it affect his parents phone or his b/c if has a computer he may be on it for 2 hours.
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Tough situation girly! It's all a game... either he's trying to make you jealous, or wants to break up with you and is trying to get you to break up with him... or he's just an insensitive jerk. All's fair in love and war.... you should invent someone that's been flirting with you too.
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While a lot of the people on here will say he is cheating, or he's not trustworthy, think about his perspective, he could just being trying to get you to focus more on him. He is the one telling you this stuff right? If you haven't seen it first hand then I would say he is just wanting you to be around him more, craving attention from his girl, most guys need lots of attention. Also, guys sometimes aren't the brightest people, so him not calling you is a big deal, but he probly doesn't think about it, he is a guy, he just figures you are gonna call.
Now that I have said that, if the above is not the case then I would try to ask him, ask him casually, like if he is talking about that girl, just saknhim if he still likes her. Yoi are never gonna find out until you ask, and you can't go behind his back to find out, that would be kind of snooping and if he found out he could be a little angry, honesty is always best.
Hope this helped.
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Why doesnt youre bf call you? Its tough when you both go to different schools.
You cant just blame the other girl. It takes 2 people to flirt. Doesnt sound like your bf is very trustworthy.
If your bf really cared about you, he would be making some kind of effort to talk to you somehow, and maybe reassure you, that you and him are still cool and that he doesnt like the other girl that likes him.
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