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help!
I need to get over this guy. I have liekd him for about 14 weeks and I finally decided that I have waited long enough. How do I get ovre him? Please respond quickly, I rate high for GOOD answers.
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First of all I would like to announce one comment: AMEN, SiSTA, AMEN!! That's awesome that you're not waiting around for a guy like some girls in this world. I think what you should do is lay off the love songs that remind you of him, and start scoping out some other guys. Go to some school dances, let your friends introduce you to some guys, and just be happy being single! Pretty soon you'll get over him once you find another guy. I hope I helped. :)
*X0O Nikki
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Find something to do that will keep your mind off of him. Suggestions like getting involved in a school activity. The band or FFA or some kind of club. Or you could learn how to make smething. Learn to sew or evern learn how to play guitar. The best thing to do to keepp from thinking about him is to occupy yourself with something
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well its not something that gonna disapeer instantly, it takes time if you really like(d) him. just dont think about him and a good way to make sure of that is keeping yourself busy. hang out with friends, find a new hobby and perfect it, anything! just be busy so you wont have time to think about the past--only the future!
hope i helped X0X0♥
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It's hard to get over a guy that you liked isn't it? First of all, remove anything that makes you think about him like a book or something like that. Avoid him as much as you can. Don't think about him by thinking about other things. Be busy with friends or family so you wont have time to think bout anything else. Well, good luck
-Sk8trash
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What's so great about him that he's worth thinking about so much?
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Well thats not an easy process! The thing that helped me is not to see him or hear him. Meaning that if you see him in the halls at school, try and take an alternate route. Get more involved, and keep busy. Stop talking about him, and thinking about him. When the thought pops in your head, think of something else!
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Getting over someone isn't something you can just force yourself to do. It'll happen when you're ready and it takes time. There are a few things you can try that might help to speed up the process though. The first thing is to keep busy. If you're busy doing other things you won't have time to let your mind wander to him. Try hanging out with friends a lot, watching movies, listening to music, playing a sport, maybe becoming involved in hobbies or something. Another thing you can try is to look for someone else that's worth thinking about instead of this guy. I'm sure that there's another guy out there that's perfect to fill that void you're feeling right now. Finally, make a list of the things your perfect guy would be. Physical attributes such as height, hair color, weight, body type, etc, as well as emotional and mental features: a good listener, passionate about life, friendly, etc. Compare your "perfect guy" to the guy you can't get over right now and see all the shortcomings of your current crush. That helps sometimes too. I hope this helped out, and let me know if you have any other questions :)
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listen to alot! of music and keep your mind on music, see if I liked a guy once and cant get over him I have listen to music that caught my attintion.... start talking to other guys and keep your mind on other things...
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