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c0nfused...


Question Posted Thursday October 20 2005, 8:57 pm

Ok well there's this guy at my skool who acts like a total retard...like all the time..he's mature looking but he acts immature. Well he likes me...and he's always going out of his way to get in my face and act retarded...literally..im not just usin retarded as a way to say actin like an idiot! Like I never even noticed him until he started appraochin me and,,at first I was like ewww...but now im so0o confused..it's like i cant wait till I get out of my class to "run into" him in the hallway....idk if I like him or what..like it's so wierd...i think about if he were to ask me out..nd my first reaction would be no..but then why do i think about him and want to see him??? I'm really confused and I'll rate 5's if you even try to answer my question! thx!

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CheerleaderGirl answered Friday October 21 2005, 3:01 am:
your probably like him inside but usually you act like, "omg hes such a retard" because at first instinct you wouldnt want people to be like eww shes likes him! you get what im saying?? well anyway if you actually talk to him and be like your imatturatly level isnt there yet and if you matured a ton more then a ton of more people would like you" sort of thing.. well i hope i helped if you have any more ?'s feel free to drop me one in my box ♥ Kelley ♥

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Thursday October 20 2005, 9:40 pm:
hey well i think you like him deep down but his imaturity level as proved to him being a good enough boyfriend yet but being imature isnt to bad i was in the same situation but it turned out alright because he was fune to hang with good luck

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Advicelady6798 answered Thursday October 20 2005, 9:23 pm:
I think that you like him because he makes you laugh and want to see him again but when he acts retarded then that makes you question it. The reason he acts that way is because he really likes you. I think it is his way of hinting it to you. This is the only way he knows how to flirt i guess. I think you like being around him b/c you never get bored and a guy that does that is a keeper. You dont want someone who bores you to death trust me they are boring. Maybe you should have one of you friends find out if he likes you or not.

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Chicken_flavored_eggs answered Thursday October 20 2005, 9:20 pm:
His acts of retardedness are probably an attempt at attention. I have known some very spastic people in my day and they are not always like that. I would assume that is also the case for this guy. You said that you hadn't even noticed him, he probably picked up on that and decided to get your attention in a different way. Now, it seems as if you have taken a liking to said retard. Attention is flattering and it makes you think. Now, if it is genuine interest then I don't know try mirroring his actions back to him. I mean next time he gets in your face and acts strange, do the same back to him. That may break the ice and start a conversation. Then you can ask him why he acts the way he does and find out more about him. Then decide if you want to go any further.

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