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ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out 1 month this tuesday. but the only thing we've done is cuddled and like 1 kiss. it was just a peck too. :( he thinks i've made out before, EVERYONE does.. maybe because i told them i have. just because i didnt want to seem like a loser. so everyone thinks ive madeout before, so my boyfriend matt is really wondering why im not making out with him. well i just, dont know what to do. when i kissed him two wednesdays ago, i just like kept my mouth half open, because i never knew like, what i should do.. so then yeah idk tonight we're going to a football game, and football games are makeout central, and i know he wants to make out with me.. and i know hes gonna start to, but i dont know what to do!
HELP. ASAP
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Well if you don't want to either tell him oryou when he is about to make a move just change the subject like say "WOW did you see that pass?"
if yo udon't want to because you are scared you might mess up or ddon't do it rite well i'd and i justed took a deep breath and went with it listen to yourslef you'll know when the time comes
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If you dont want to makeout then you shouldnt have to. Its your body and your lips and you do what you want to with them. He may want to makeout but if you dont then you shouldnt whether other people are or not. I know what it is like to have to lie to your friends in order to make you look like your not a loser. My advice is to do what you want and if he doesnt like it then you can persuade him to do something else. Guys are stupid you can persuade them to do anything.
Keep him mind off of it while the game is going on. Find some friends and talk to them and find some of his and talk to them that way he is not thinking about making out.
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First off you should tell him the truth. He should be very understanding and maybe he will even offer to "teach you" how to make out, which can be very fun. The reason you are so worried is because since you told him you've made out before you're afraid that he's going to think you're really good at it and you don't want to disappoint him. Telling him will make you feel better, but let me tell you this...you won't disappoint him one bit. You'll get better at kissing through practice, but the only people that are actually bad kissers are the people that think about it too much and are worried that they're bad. Just go with it and try not to think about it so much. Good luck!
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There is nothing ashamed with never making out before. I think it's respectable and some guys think it's cute because then they can teach you. I say that you tell him the truth.
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It doesnt matter how many times you have made out... it is always different with a new person. Everyone is nervous the first time. Just take it slow ... go with your feelings.. you can always slow him down if he moves too fast for you. All you have to do is pull away for a second and start over. Relax .. if you are not ready ... dont do it. You should never do anything you are not comfortable with.
Good Luck,
Eva J
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Hehe i have a brother named matt lol anywayzz youll no what to do it just is natural i think!! Ive only made out with one guy and i new i didnt no what i was doing but everything turned out fine!! But if you dont want to do it you dont have to!!! ok hope i helped buhbye MUAH!!oh and just incase you might be going out with muh brother his name is Matthew Blackwelder heheh prolly not tho but that does sound like him with his girl friends
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DON'T WORRY!!! It'll come naturally. When it starts to happen you'll know what to do. And if he likes you the way he should, then he won't mind helping you along (; Have fun!
♥ Melissa
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