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real or not?
im not sure if im exsperincing a real feeling for a "guy" friend of mine or if im just doing it to like someone. I'm afraid to ask him to do something because i don't want to ruin out friendship but I'm afraid that if i don't say anything than I may miss a good chance. i want to try to like him but i don't want to ruin our frienship, which i value more.very confused here..please help!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
like I alway's say, give life a chance!
so why not try it? and you wont ruin the freindship, youll just know you can only be friend's if he no's ya,
hope this helps you out!
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heres the oldest trick in the book:
Get a friend.. a friend who knows the guy and is willing to tlak to him. tell your friend whats going on, how you feel and stuff if she doesnt already know. tell your friend to do teh following: talk to the guy in a joking matter by saying "so0- who do you like ? i think you should like (( what ever your name is )) you guys would e so cute together" ask your friend what he said and what his reaction was if he answers with shyness or shockness he might like you and tell your friend to keep making a joke of it and it might turn real
hope i helped =
xoox
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Don't stand in the shadows and not tell him how you truly feel, just tell him the truth get that weight off your shoulders, let it sink in with him and then see how he feels. If he doesnt feel the same way then dont feel bad, just consider it a sign from God that he wasnt meant to be your boyfriend just there for you as a best friend you know what i mean? And its ok to like your best friend as something more believe me. BUT if you are not sure about you really liking him then give it a little bit more time and see if your feelings are pure THEN tell him! But, if you think you are ready to reveal your secret then let it out- live life without regrets k girl? (Kisses)
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i can say from experince that know for sure whether or not you let him first will be best for both of you. going into it confused can cause you to breakup on bad terms, confuse him, or hurt one of you. so my advice is make up your mind before acting on a maybe feeling.
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Asking a friend if they like you is the hardest thing especially if you value your friendship more than anything. I think that if you really want to be his g/f then you should go for. Why not just ask him how he feels about you in what way. If he says friendship then stay friends but if he says more then go for it. But there is a chance that it wont work out but that is the probablity of every relationship.
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well just ask if he would like to go to the movies and just try to see what he thinks of it never know he might like you back...
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