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trouble trusting boyfriend because of ex boyfriend


Posted Tuesday November 27 2012, 1:35 am

So my current boyfriend is the best boyfriend I have ever had. He treats me like I am his princess and I could never ask for anyone better. but because my ex boyfriend treated me so badly i.e. cheated on me many times, hit me once, made me feel worthless and that no one wants me and just horrible things that i've gotten over and feel better about myself because i know he just did all that to manipulate me to keep me with him. and that's why i kept going back to him, because he was so good at manipulating me. and we've been broken up for a while and i have my new amazing boyfriend that my best friend set me up with. but just because of that past relationship. i'm just a little on edge that it will happen again. i am able to hold it in and th...

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Topics: sometimes we run out if stuff to talk about... any suggestions?


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 11:28 pm

Hey me and my boyfriend text a lot and sometimes we run out if stuff to talk about. We are 14 and just need some good topics. Any ideas?

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My boyfriend is moving to a different school ;(


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 9:40 pm

My boyfriend and I are soo close and have gotten along together like brother and sister but I just found out today from him that he was moving and I got afraid that I would never see him again. What can I do to spend more time with him? What can I do when he's about to leave? How should I kiss him?

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don't knw how to deal wit it....i am a girl from india.


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 6:33 am

i am a girl from india. i am 18 years old n i am deeply in love with a guy.....n even he does. Bt he is in a wrong thought that i am flirtng with him and will leave him. But the truth is that i love him very much and wanna be with him. he is not believing me at all...which is making me upset and i am not in a condition to think whats wrong n whats right.. If he breakup with me i myself dont know what i'll do...that very moment......

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I said: "I Love You" ... but I didn't mean it.


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 5:41 am

Long story short...
Been dating a guy since September. Made it "official" the beginning of this month. After a few beers tonight, we were in his bed and he told me he loved me. I know it wasn't to get laid because that happened before we were even dating. So i'm thinking it was mostly because of the alcohol tonight. I did say it back, i think i messed up there because I do like him a lot but not on that level. I am about to sound dumb as hell for asking this but What could I say to apologize for not meaning it?

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Rekindle a flame


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 10:22 pm

Okay so I had a falling out with this guy I had been seeing for about a month. Basically I said some things I shouldn't have and I hurt him. I apologized a lot because I had been drinking when I said what I did and it was totally uncharacteristic of me and it was not said in the way I wanted it to be said. Anyways, we live in different states and text every once in a blue moon. I really want to try and rekindle what we had. He says that what happen is just water under the bridge. I'm visiting friends in January that live close to him, I'm considering calling him up to see if he'd meet us out at the bar or if he'd want to get coffee or something. Any ideas on how to try to talk to him more without being annoying? I just miss him and I was an idiot. Thanks.

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Long Distance issues


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 9:46 pm

I am a 17 year old girl in a long distance relationship with my high school sweetheart of 2 1/2 years. He started college in Berkeley this August. We went into an open relationship, which both of us are totally fine with. We get to see each other once or twice a month when I go to visit him and those are the best weekends of my entire month.

However, the phone calls are lacking. I'm always the one calling him and I seem to leave every conversation feeling disappointed. What should I do? I'm scared to talk to him about it because I hate arguing over the phone. everything seems perfect but this one little part.

I generally end up doing all the talking and if I ask questions about his life I get one word answers. ...

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Am I a bad person


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 12:12 pm

So my boyfriends family hates me.
Why:
1. He always comes home late because of me. He is 21 and his curfew is ten p.m.
2. I didn't call 911 on time when he got assaulted. Which I dont blame them for because I should have called emmediately.
3. He blames me for his assault. He said I planned it. The day it happened we were at a house party and I felt uncomfortable because everyone was drinking, smoking,thats not my scene. So I went outside and he got mad at me because I was ruining the party. But he stayed out the re with.me and then some guys who were looking for someone to fight come out of nowhere start drama and out of nowhere someone throws a punch.
sonhis
So the family hates me and thinks I'...

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Liking 2 guys at once help!


Posted Saturday November 24 2012, 4:59 pm

So i jusr got out of a relationship about 2 months ago with (guy number 1). We broke up because he was way to controlling and i couldn't take it anymore. I also had feelings for a guy in the past i dated before him (guy number 2). I have been seeing the guy from the past (guy number 2) and i felt like i had feelings for him at first but now idk for sure if i do/if it is right. Guy number 1 changed completely and is trying to get me back with me and he wont give up. I feel like feelings are coming back for guy number 1. So now i'm super confused because i like both guys. Help :( what should i do and btw sorry this is so long and confusing to follow i didn't know how else to put it. :p

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I have a crush on a babysitter.


Posted Saturday November 24 2012, 8:03 am

I am 12 years old. I have a crush on my babysitter. She is 16 years old. She looks really hot!

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Am I delusional or is it just wishful thinking?


Posted Saturday November 24 2012, 1:09 am

Being 15 and worrying about school life and peer pressure, I often just go home and when its just me and my older sister at home I daydream or think about my life as an adult. I have it set out that im going to be a successful person and have money, I've looked at colleges and steps to get there. Then I start thinking of what it would be like to be a housewife someday after I've finished working. I just want to live the dream..don't we all? Sometimes I'll tune out or write songs about it, basically making sure it one day happens. I want it all but I'm afraid of the fall...I don't want to have struggles in life I want it to be perfect but I know that's definately not the case. Basically thinking like this, having pro crushes, and just dreami...

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What should I do?


Posted Saturday November 24 2012, 12:32 am

*Ok,Iam going out with thiz 15 years old guy and I'am 13...He's a good guy ,he respects me and with him I have 10monthz going out with him...But the thing is that my dad doesn't trust him a lot...Jst because he doesn't know him a lot .Should I stay with him?Should I allowed my bf to demostrate my dad tht he respects me or should I brake up with him?*

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My question is im 12 years old can I get engaged


Posted Friday November 23 2012, 12:10 pm

Im 12 years old my boyfriend proposed to me hes 17 we are inlove can I get engaged at my age ?

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I gave him up and now I feel worse


Posted Friday November 23 2012, 10:11 am

So I met this guy a year ago and we dated for 2 months and then one day he randomly stopped talking to me. I was so infaturated with him so I was completely heartbroken. As pathetic as it sounds it took me 11 months and I'm still not completely over him. He was never a sexual person when we dated and so when he texted me on his birthday asking for sex I freaked out on him and told him off. We hadn't talked for 5 months exactly and he texted me yesterday and apologized for the way things went last time and we had a good conversation thennnnn he turned it sexual again, I've missed him so much that I jumped at the opportunity to get with him. I don't doubt he won't talk to me again and he knows i'm not usually easy but I just feel so disappoin...

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should I break up with him? He didn't ask me a question!


Posted Thursday November 22 2012, 11:13 pm

Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and we're in the 8th grade. We've been having trouble with coming up with open-ended questions and good conversation starters. The other day, we were walking outside after school and I said guess what and he said what and I said u now have a free ticket to ask me anything and he said I think I'll hold my ticket.. ? What did he mean by that? Does he not have feelings for me anymore? Should I dump him?

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Is he being unfair?


Posted Thursday November 22 2012, 8:31 pm

1. Boyfriend made plans to go play turkey ball. Comes back and starts talking about how he felt like a loser since all the guys had their girlfriends there playing too. Then he accuses me of not wanting to go with him when he has never asked me to come even in the past years.
2. He called a couple times while I was getting ready to leave the house for a family thanksgiving lunch. The texts he sends me say "I know you are at lunch with a guy. I can act just like you if I want."
3. Him: you never talk about guys around me babe.
Me: yea because if I tell you how guys hit on me, you are going to try and turn the whole thing around on me.
Him:you so you hide stuff from me.
Me:yea well im not hiding a...

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Nicknames for my boyfriend


Posted Thursday November 22 2012, 2:50 pm

My boyfriend always calls me gorgeous and babe but i dont know what to call him. Any suggestions?

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This relationship is dying.......


Posted Thursday November 22 2012, 12:23 pm

Although I am sure I'll get a lot of controversy for this, I am a senior in high school and my boyfriend graduated last year. We've been dating for a year. Our relationship has always had ups and downs like any relationship. We have really bad fights, fake break ups, and then make up. Everything is okay in the end.

Lately I've been feeling indifferent about the whole relationship. While he's usually sitting at home and playing videogames all day, I'm at school trying hard to get into college. No matter how hard I try to motivate him, he never seems to want to get a future. I tell him I can't have a future with him if he doesn't try. He says, "I'm trying." He's been saying that for maybe 6+ months now. I don't want t...

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Does body language really matter in a man-woman situation?


Posted Thursday November 22 2012, 2:30 am

They say that women are usually quick to judge others because they can read body language better. I do not know whether this is true or not and maybe I can use this to my advantage.

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Getting 0ver him !


Posted Thursday November 22 2012, 1:36 am

Heyy,
well i need some help trying to get over a guy ive liked for about 2 years ....i really want to get over him bkuz he hurts me and doesnt cherish what i do for him ...and says hes just not looking for a relationship ...please help i feel stupid and obssesed bekuz i like him alot </3

thank youu for reading

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