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should I break up with him? He didn't ask me a question!
Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and we're in the 8th grade. We've been having trouble with coming up with open-ended questions and good conversation starters. The other day, we were walking outside after school and I said guess what and he said what and I said u now have a free ticket to ask me anything and he said I think I'll hold my ticket.. ? What did he mean by that? Does he not have feelings for me anymore? Should I dump him?
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That doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings for you. It just probably means he wants to hold onto the ticket so that he can think up a good question that he really wants to know.
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There are 3 POSSIBLE resons:
1: He was in a hurry to go somewhere and is going to ask you something later on.
2: He didn't know what to ask you so he was going to think of something.
3: He found it awkward that you asked him to ask him something.
DONT DUMP HIM GIVE HIM A CHANCE
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That means you put him on the spot and his mind blanked, so he's going to 'spend his ticket' when he thinks of something. Keep in mind, you can pretty much guarantee he wants to explore your life, and giving him that ticket is pretty much a blank check to do just that. There are a million questions he wants to ask (most of them dirty) but he has to gauge which questions will be offensive to you and which ones won't, and how to phrase those questions. Asking "Who have you cheated on me with?" is a VERY different question than "Would you ever cheat on me?"
I don't understand why you would even think to ask the 'should I dump him' question unless you were already looking for an excuse to do so, or he really scared you by not asking you a question. If you are looking for an excuse to dump him, just do so instead of dragging it out. If you're scared by his apparent lack of interest in asking a question, don't worry, deciding which question he wants to ask you is in the forefront of his mind.
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Commication is important in relationships. How often do you both spend time together or text? Spending 24.7 together in person or through a phone can be the kiss of death in a relationship. People need to breathe, The spark will burn out fast if you both don't give one another space. Space is what keeps the spark and gives you something to talk about the next time you see one another. My advice is too give him space for a day or two, If he doesn.t show interest after then you know its time to move on.
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