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My question is im 12 years old can I get engaged


Question Posted Friday November 23 2012, 12:10 pm

Im 12 years old my boyfriend proposed to me hes 17 we are inlove can I get engaged at my age ?

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LoveBurner44 answered Monday November 26 2012, 1:03 pm:
oh gosh no. honey, you're 12, he's 17, one that's illegal just for you 2 to be dating, and two, you're WAAAAAAAAY too young to be even thinking about marriage. you should be out having fun with your friends and NOT having marriage as a problem. i have no right to question y'alls relationship, but in my opinion, he is just way to old.

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sweet7love answered Sunday November 25 2012, 10:48 pm:
Oh my gosh no!! You shouldn't even be thinking about marriage at your age!! You need to go have fun with friends. You're wayyy too young, you have your whole life ahead of you to be with someone the rest of your life. Trust me, I'm in my 20's and some of my friends are just getting married now. I can't even imagine getting married at my age and i'm about 10 years older than you! You have so much to look forward to in your life that you shouldn't even be worrying about now (college, a career, etc) at your age you should be having fun and being a kid!! trust me, when you look back you're going to miss those days so much. enjoy being a kid as much as you can!!!!!!

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lightoftruth answered Saturday November 24 2012, 10:03 pm:
Well it's illegal in most places to even be dating. So no, there is no way you both can get married. You shouldn't even be dating someone who is 5 years older than you. He can get into a lot of trouble.

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adviceman49 answered Saturday November 24 2012, 10:37 am:
Short answer: NO!!!!

I cannot think of any state or civilized country will allow you two to marry. Worse is the fact that the age difference between you is illegal in most states for the two of you to even be dating. Do your parents know about you two and how old he is?

In the eyes of the law this boy is a pedophile. Someone who takes advantage of young children. You are not even a teenager yet. You may think your in love him. I think your in love with the fact that a much older boy is interested in you romantically.

You are not mature enough to understand the reasoning behind his interest in you. This is what pedophile count on and take advantage of. You are being set up to be hurt in ways I will not attempt to explain to you. I will let your parents explain once you tell them which you need to do now, today.

I know you don't want to hear this; you cannot see this boy anymore. You need to call the police and report him. You have done nothing wrong. You are a victim. If you don't report him and don't stop seeing him you will not only be hurt you will be a statistic in the crime figures. Then he will move on to another young girl. You can keep other young girls from being victims and crime statistics by telling your parents and calling the police.

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Xui answered Friday November 23 2012, 5:57 pm:
No


There is something very wrong with a 17 year old dating someone who is twelve years old. In many states 17 is considered an adult. Do you realize if he were ever charged he can be in trouble for enabling a minor, rape, and be forced to register as a pedophile? Sweetie think about it, seventeen year old man dating a twelve year old...There is something very wrong there.

He is too old for you, he is taking
advantage if you and you are a minor. Stay away from that and date someone who is your age!

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micZz answered Friday November 23 2012, 2:40 pm:
Sweetie no I'm also 12 and for a 12 year old to date a 17 year old is illegal in some places. Hun say no because he can wate if he truly loves u. I'm 12 and none of my realationships have worked out right even though I thought we were madly in love no girl its just not right. You should rather focus on your hobbies friends and school work of course you can have boyfriends but when you 12 they won't stay forever. Like me my longest relationship was a year but I try focus on my hobbies like modeling,dancing,swimming listening to music being with my friends stuff like that not getting enganged

Sorry hun but its the truth imagin what your parents will say

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