Question Posted Thursday November 22 2012, 1:36 am
Heyy,
well i need some help trying to get over a guy ive liked for about 2 years ....i really want to get over him bkuz he hurts me and doesnt cherish what i do for him ...and says hes just not looking for a relationship ...please help i feel stupid and obssesed bekuz i like him alot </3
thank youu for reading
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lightoftruth answered Sunday November 25 2012, 3:03 pm: I know exactly how you feel. It will definitely take time to get over him but if you put the effort into it, you will be over him eventually.
You have realized he's no good for you and just thinking about him hurts you, so it's good that you know that and you do want to get over him. A lot of girls try to fight it.
What I think you should do is, try to find other things to do to keep your mind off him. If you have a lot of free time, that is when your mind wanders and you think about him.
Go make yourself busy doing absolutely anything. Go out with friends, make things for your friends and family, find a hobby, anything really.
You'll eventually find someone else you'll be interested in and they'll keep your mind off him. Make sure the next guy you like is a good guy though, you don't want a guy who is a jerk. There are so many guys out there and there is one who is perfect for you.
You'll be over him eventually, just keep yourself busy. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
Lalalalala answered Thursday November 22 2012, 2:54 pm: Hey! I've had the same problem. It's super hard to get over your long-time lover but here are a few things that help:
Find someone new to like and be obsessed over
Listen to good girl-power break up songs
Stop stalking him and you don't have to always know what hes doing. Hope this helped! [ Lalalalala's advice column | Ask Lalalalala A Question ]
cherryhelp answered Thursday November 22 2012, 1:39 pm: hey ..its kinda hard to get over someone you liked for such a long period of time and if you loved him that would be sooooo much harder, but just tell your self he is no good and you deserve better ..this will kinda hurt but just think of all the negative things he did not the good cause that will interrupt the focus on getting over him .. i hope this works ... [ cherryhelp's advice column | Ask cherryhelp A Question ]
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