Question Posted Saturday November 24 2012, 4:59 pm
So i jusr got out of a relationship about 2 months ago with (guy number 1). We broke up because he was way to controlling and i couldn't take it anymore. I also had feelings for a guy in the past i dated before him (guy number 2). I have been seeing the guy from the past (guy number 2) and i felt like i had feelings for him at first but now idk for sure if i do/if it is right. Guy number 1 changed completely and is trying to get me back with me and he wont give up. I feel like feelings are coming back for guy number 1. So now i'm super confused because i like both guys. Help :( what should i do and btw sorry this is so long and confusing to follow i didn't know how else to put it. :p
lightoftruth answered Saturday November 24 2012, 6:53 pm: Well what you need to do right now, is don't get with either of them.
Because if you choose one, you want it to be the right one.
Now if you are positive guy number 1 changed, then things could work out but you have to make sure he has changed and isn't just faking it to get you back.
Whatever reason you and guy number 2 didn't work out in the past, make sure you think about that and make sure that it won't hurt the two of you if you end up dating again.
And then again, maybe neither of these guys are the one for you. You never know, but you know them better than I do and if you believe it can work out and they are good guys, then take your time to figure out who you really have feelings for [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
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