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Liking 2 guys at once help!


Question Posted Saturday November 24 2012, 4:59 pm

So i jusr got out of a relationship about 2 months ago with (guy number 1). We broke up because he was way to controlling and i couldn't take it anymore. I also had feelings for a guy in the past i dated before him (guy number 2). I have been seeing the guy from the past (guy number 2) and i felt like i had feelings for him at first but now idk for sure if i do/if it is right. Guy number 1 changed completely and is trying to get me back with me and he wont give up. I feel like feelings are coming back for guy number 1. So now i'm super confused because i like both guys. Help :( what should i do and btw sorry this is so long and confusing to follow i didn't know how else to put it. :p

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micZz answered Sunday November 25 2012, 12:50 am:
Well if you like two guys at once choose the 2nd guy because if you really were in love with the 1st you wouldn't of fallen for the 2nd 1 is one of my fav quotes. Hun the guy who was controlling might of not changed he could be acting or he could even think he has. Guys can't just change you could take him back it could all be good at first but then BAM he's back to the controlling person he was
Hope I helped
Michaela x

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lightoftruth answered Saturday November 24 2012, 6:53 pm:
Well what you need to do right now, is don't get with either of them.
Because if you choose one, you want it to be the right one.
Now if you are positive guy number 1 changed, then things could work out but you have to make sure he has changed and isn't just faking it to get you back.
Whatever reason you and guy number 2 didn't work out in the past, make sure you think about that and make sure that it won't hurt the two of you if you end up dating again.
And then again, maybe neither of these guys are the one for you. You never know, but you know them better than I do and if you believe it can work out and they are good guys, then take your time to figure out who you really have feelings for

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