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I don't know how to act around my Boyfriend
I got asked out in school on Wendsday and he's my first boyfriend and I don't know what to do! I'm really shy. I really like him but since I don't know what to do I'm scared he'll break up with me.. HELP!
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i have also been in a similar situation! but you don't have to be nervous, he obviously asked you out for a damn good reason and he obviously likes you just the way you are! so always be yourself weather thats a little shy or not! maybe at school you can get a friend to make you a little more comfortable when talking or interacting with him, also a good thing to do is ask a lot of questions! so you can get to know him better, be a little more comfortable and not have to do much of the talking and as your relationships grows, so will your confidence eventually! hope this helped and good luck!
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I was in a pretty similar situation last year when I had my first boyfriend. When we went to a ball, I was so nervous like, really nervous. I kept looking away and I couldn't even maintain eye contact. He thought I didn't like him anymore but I talked to him and explained how I was so nervous because I had no idea how I should act as a girlfriend. The talk we had helped us understand each other and we are still together. :)
Break the ice by letting him know that you're happy to have your first boyfriend but at the same time you're so nervous because you've never been in a relationship. He'll probably appreciate it if you tell him because he won't get confused. Be honest. After all, he is your boyfriend. Don't be afraid to show him who you really are. :)
Just enjoy every minute. Young love is so cute but it can be complicated too just like any other relationship. Nevertheless, don't let your worries ruin your moments! :)
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Just be yourself because he obviously likes the real you and how you are if he asked you out. Sweetie if you act like someone else then he's liking a fake person and not you and might not even like the fake you. Just be you sweets*
Hope I helped
Michaela x
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If he asked you out, he obviously likes you for the way you are. Just relax and act normal. If he likes you for you then he won't break up with you. Eventually you'll become more comfortable around him. Don't stress or worry about it. Just talk to him like a normal person but in a way to make sure he's more than just a normal person to you.
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RELAX. Seriously just relax. Be the same person you always were to him and act no different. That's what he obviously likes. He probably is nervous around you too and it's okay. Letting him know how shy you are is a very good idea too. This way he can get you to relax and enjoy yourself.
The only way he would break up with you is if you weren't getting along. Just talk to him about all of this and how excited you are but that it's really new. I know he will do everything to put you at ease.
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