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boyfriend is acting strange


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 5:18 pm

Can someone explain my boyfriends behavior?I had been out of work for a really long time and i finally got a job as a sales rep in a large superstore. At first he was excited for me and said "well I hope everything works out for you".
Now heres where it gets strange. I had my first shift 3 nights ago and I told him how nice everyone was and I much fun I was having. He didnt sound happy at all and just said in an unfriendly tone "oh I guess things are working out for you". I don't understand , wouldnt he be happy for me? The only thing I can think of is he might be worried I'll meet a guy at work.
Does anyone have any ideas as to what is going on with him?

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DO I LIKE HIM OR NOT?


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 4:22 pm

ok well muh ex bf juss broke up with me last night. we went out for 3 weeks but we been talkin since da first week of school. and we talked a lot PRETTY much every night n in school. after he broke up with me i cried for about 20 min or so but now i dont really care dat we're not together or do I? bcuz da nite he broke up with me he went out n he was talking to this girl but she thinks hes just cute thats all they know each other bout 5 yrs now. but im so jelous EVEN THOUGHT THEY R JUS FRIENDS. im reali upset dat me n him wont talk as much anymore. i have to see him at school and same lunch table AUGH! BUT EVEN though it seems i have a lot of feelings for him still BUT I DONT! so do u think im right for being jelous and what should i do if he stops talking to me as much?

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really angry


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 3:54 pm

last night i went over my friends house for his birthday. the situation is hard to explain but, i really like him. i went out with him before but he broke up with me after 4 days. which i guess hardly counts. but we've been flirting ever since we broke up. i always flirt with him and i've hooked up with him a few times in the last few weeks. i know im not gonna be able to go out with him because of the way he is and cant stick to a commitment. so last night my best friend was cuddling with him on the couch. it was really ticking me off. she knows i like him and always yells at me for flirting with him so much because "im gonna get myself hurt" but last night she was all over him. i think he's mad at me. im not sure though... i was...

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not sure wat to do..


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 2:38 pm

um ok well, first thing is i really like this guy names billy.. i dumped my boyfriend erik for him on halloween but that night i made out with this kid tom (which i shouldnt of done cos billys thinks im retarted now cos that his best friend) but even though i knew doing that was stupid i went to the funway dance last night and made out with his friend chris marvelle, which was alsoo stupid cos the beginning of the school year he made fun of me for making out with his other friend kevin.. wtf do i do kelli?

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I RATE 5's !!


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 2:26 pm

I've been going out with this boy, Jay for a little over a month. When we first met we clicked. He's one of the nicest boys i know and he treats me very well. The only thing is that he goes away to boarding school, which is about 20 minntutes away from my town, and his family lives around 45 minnutes away. It's very difficult to go and visit/ see Jay, because i'm always the one who has to do al the work for the relationship, and he is very seldom able to leave his campus. He also tends to be very dorky at times where i just look at him and am like, oh lord. And he makes gay jokes all the time, pretending to be gay with his friends and it comes off as a bit creepy as well. But overall he's a cute boy.

Theres also this other bo...

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guy friends


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 2:02 pm

i was talkin to my gy friend that i like online and he said that i was jealous of all these girls that like him now and i would never get aniguys to like me...and the only guy who ever liked me was him...although he was jokin i told him that i turned this guy down over the summer(which is true) and that he told me more in the 2 weeks that i knew him than you(my guyfriend) did in the 2 yrs that he supposidly liked me...i still like him and we havent talked in a few days...do u think that hes mad or what should i do...i realllly like him. ps i rate high

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What's He Really Mean


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 1:28 pm

Sorry If Its Long!!! .. Well here it goes

Ok well theres this guy .. well call him cody.
well me and cody have know each other for like almost 2 years. and over the summer we talked about how we liked each other .. and he kind of i guess strung me along for like 2 months .. sayin he liked me but wouldn't do anything about it, but when i asked if i should juss forget it he told me not to b/c he liked me ..

he said he'd call nd he said we'd hang out but he kept blowin me off and not callin but he "liked me" so i guess he thought it was ok. so i left him a message on aim sayin to call me so we coudl talk about it .. yahh well he got the message but didnt call. so we stopped talkin for like 3 week...

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Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 1:07 pm

im really confused..i just keep getting this weird feeling that my boyfriend doesn't really like me as much as he says he does..like online and on the phone he talks to me a wicked lot and he tells me he loves me a wicked lot..but like when im with him at school and like outside and stuff he like neverr talks to me..and i think thats really sad because he's in my majors and in my homeroom ( for the second year in a row) and afterr school he leave to go on his bus before i go home..and he just waves bye and leaves..like he never hugs me or anything when he leaves..and like everytime i wanna do something, he says he wants to too..but like the day before we were gunna do something he makes up an excuse so we can't go..like his mom said no beca...

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Does He??


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 12:15 pm

Ok here goes :). I have feeling for my Ex boyfriend who broke up with me. He said he liked someone else. But he keeps on flirting with me i think anyway. Like everytime we see each other he smiles at me and stares and he will come and stand biside me when we have breaks in between classes and he walks me to my bus EVERYDAY. He even gets kinda mad when other guys are flirting with me. So Does he. I am kinda confused! Thanks!

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BF and my car


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 11:53 am

I have a '05 mustang GT and I wont let anyone drive it. I don't even let my best friend who I've known since we were 3 drive it. But, apparently, my bf thinks he should be an acceptation.


We were supposed to go to a concert last night. Well, he called me up and told me that we can't take his car because he didn't have any gas and we were running late. I told him that I didn't want to take my car because the concert was in a different city and I didn't know how to get there. He gets very irritated when he has to tell someone where to go when they are driving. So, me driving was not an option.


He then suggested that he drives my car. I said no. He asked why not and I told him what I always tell ...

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ex boyfriend trouble


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 11:30 am

i am totally in love with my ex. He broke up with me about a month ago because he said he didn't have time for a relationship and that i deserved someone that could put more time into it and spend more time with me. well it's been a month since our breakup and i'm still in love with him and can't get him off my mind. i really want to get him back and talk to him about it but i don't know how to get him back or start out the conversation about it. anybody got any ideas that could help me?

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sexual displessure


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 9:20 am

I have a boyfriend that I am very much inlove with. But in every relationship that I am ever in it goes great until they want to do something sexual! I duno why i just get really shy and scared. its not that im afraid of the thing its just im afraid of doing it with the person! its kind of confusing. I really love my boyfriend though and I want to be able to do stuff with him when the time comes cause I love him to death! How can I loosen up? Any advice?

I rate well
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i think that i love him ..


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 8:31 am

okay, so here it goes. i`ve known this guy for six years, and ever since i have just wanted to be with him, be around him, talking to him, whatever. i'm in high school now. we went out all last year, but we broke up and since then it`s just been me really liking him, and him liking me. he said that he liked me since about four years ago, but he just doesn't want a girlfriend right now so he can focus on friends, family, school, etc. and that's cool with me. i`m fine with that, it`s just when we're not going out. he acts so different around me. like me and my friends will him and he`ll be like i can`t talk bye. within the first few seconds. sometimes when i call him alone he`ll talk to me for a while, but it just seems like he doesn't want a...

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i need advise girls n boyz


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 6:19 am

hi dear..!!

ur advice can be of much use for a guy whose now planning to start dating ..!! probably ur advise may proove to be of some use to mee..!!

well i'm a v.shy guy with a attractive personality..6'1, 18yr.. who goes along well with guyz n galz. . ?? bt the problem is that i cannt approach a girl n ask her 4 date ?? probably because of my shy nature ??

your advice can be of lot of help 4 me so guys n galz .. help me out ?? so that i dnt regret my whole life for this simple reason that.. ' i didnt have any love life '..??


yours;
SAM

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cell phone issue......


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 2:43 am

If a guy is in love with you would it bother him that you called him on his cell before 6 pm? A guy that I thought was really into me got upset today when I called him on his cell. He phoned me first but then his phone cut out and I phoned him back. I wanted to talk to him for a couple of minutes because I hadnt been able to talk to him much lately (he works in the oil rig camp), but then he got annoyed and said he couldnt talk anymore and that it was costing him a lot of money. He told me to only phone him after 6 pm. I know he is making a ton of money in the oil camps so I think that is bull that he cant afford the extra money.
I thought if a guy really loved and cared about you you could phone him anytime. Does anyone else think hes being a bit of a jerk?

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Who should make the move?


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 1:28 am

Hmm... I guess this question may have been aked quite a lot but here it goes. I am currently a freshmen, and there is this very cute junior at my school. I see him every other day during lunch and he's always staring at me, and it's obvious that he's talking about me with his friends. Plus I know one of his friends and he has told me that the guy likes me. The problem is he never approaches me. Do you think I should try to make a move or play it cool and wait for him to say something?

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Another one of those stewpid love questions. and it's really


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 1:25 am

As indicated by the subject of this question, this is another one of those 'omg am i in love? or is it lust? or is it... something my mind made up to mock me?" type questions. So please bear with me. this is going to be a LONG question or series of questions. If you don't believe me go ahead and scroll down and look.

My first question would be to the guys: Do you guys enjoy flirting with a girl before making any type of move? It seems to me that guys find it fun to seem interested in a girl then totally shoot her down. Or something to that effect. Do guys believe in real honest-to-goodness true love? Or do you guys just see flings [right word?] as the right thing and see how many girlfriends you can get and then d...

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Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 1:07 am

ok...well me n my ex bf broke up in august...and ive been missing him ever since...like he was the best bf i could askfor...and when we broke up i was devistated...i tried dating other ppl to get over him but it wouldnt work...then in october we got back together and i was sooooo happy its not even funny...then like a couple days ago he dumped me...like...its soooo hard to get over him and im trying as hard as i can...i just cant let him go uk? well n e ways, when i asked him why he dumped me he couldnt give me an answer...like tonite he was at my house and he left around 12:30 ish...we just like had a really long talk and he gave me all these hugs and stuff and like i totaly spilled my guts to him saying that like i wasnt gonna get over hi...

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BiG PR0BLEM


Posted Sunday November 6 2005, 12:17 am

There are these two kids that both like me. One of them split up with the girl they were seeing for me and the other one just started liking me again. The thing is, I can't pick who I like right now..its so frustrating!! They'll always be like "your on the phone with (guys name)? F*** him!" and one of them I've liked for about a year now. The other one I told him I liked him before and he's like "No I want you to see how it feels to feel sh**ty so I don't wanna go out with you again". Now he wants to go back out with me and gets mad at me when I talk to the other guy on the phone! I mean REALLY mad. Can someone help me before this gets outta hand????? THANKS!

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Girlfriend acts like a kid


Posted Saturday November 5 2005, 11:49 pm

Hi Guys my girlfriend is a couple of years younger than me (23) but she acts like a little kid! When we're out with her friends that are her same age group she's acts completely normal and I am so attracted to her as a person when she's like this. BUT whenever she's out with my friends (their my age) she acts like a little brat, i'm a pretty patient person so have put up with it for a while now, but its starting to be a problem as i feel a little nervous whenever I take her out.

she's acts like this constantly when we're with her family too (she's the youngest child), and i guess her family has treated her like she's the youngest child like forever...

What should I do? I really love this girl, but its just in c...

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