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BiG PR0BLEM
There are these two kids that both like me. One of them split up with the girl they were seeing for me and the other one just started liking me again. The thing is, I can't pick who I like right now..its so frustrating!! They'll always be like "your on the phone with (guys name)? F*** him!" and one of them I've liked for about a year now. The other one I told him I liked him before and he's like "No I want you to see how it feels to feel sh**ty so I don't wanna go out with you again". Now he wants to go back out with me and gets mad at me when I talk to the other guy on the phone! I mean REALLY mad. Can someone help me before this gets outta hand????? THANKS!
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Oh for christ sake
1) are you a piece of meat to be fought over?
2) why do either of these boys feel they have the right to tell you who to talk to? Even if you were dating one they'd be out of line.
3) Mr. "i-want-you-to-feel-shitty" is not worth your time. The end.
4) you do not owe the guy who broke up with his girlfriend anything so don't make a decision based on that. It was his decision and is irrelevant to how much you like him.
It doesn't sound like you ahve strong feelings towards either of them really so probably best not to date either. Besides, if you tell them both you just want to be friends you'll be able to tell which one is better for you- it'll be the one that sticks around to be your friend anyway.
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okay i think that you should just not go out with either of them. if they are going to be like that then you shouldnt go out with them. plus if you go out with one of them they might get all mad at you or at the other guy more.
hope i helped!!
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Dear Big Problem,
Falcon has a point. If that is something you want to do, I recommend taking a break.
But, the guy that you have liked for a year is saying things about the other guys because he sees him as competition. It's a natural reaction, although he doesn't have to talk like that.
The other boy at some point wanted to hurt you, to get back at you. Be aware of this behavior, he's vindictive and may cause problems for you if you date him and it doesn't work out again.
I would give the guy that you have liked for a year a chance. After all he split up with someone for you. That is flattering, and deserves attention. The other guy, just started liking you again, but also wanted you to feel emotional stress when you told him you liked him, just to get back at you. That is a horrible thing to do and deserves no attention.
Who do like more? Who do you think will hurt you less?
If you still cannot decide, sit down and make a list. List both boy's good and bad traits. Pick the one with the most admirable/likable traits.
Hope I have helped you a little :)
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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maybe you should just take a timeout for the moment, just tell em that you need some time to be alone because both of them sounds like their starting to get really clingy and desperate from the sounds of it! after you've had like a couple of weeks to think about stuff, then i guess you're feeling may have made up their own decision. take more time if you need!
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