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i think that i love him ..
okay, so here it goes. i`ve known this guy for six years, and ever since i have just wanted to be with him, be around him, talking to him, whatever. i'm in high school now. we went out all last year, but we broke up and since then it`s just been me really liking him, and him liking me. he said that he liked me since about four years ago, but he just doesn't want a girlfriend right now so he can focus on friends, family, school, etc. and that's cool with me. i`m fine with that, it`s just when we're not going out. he acts so different around me. like me and my friends will him and he`ll be like i can`t talk bye. within the first few seconds. sometimes when i call him alone he`ll talk to me for a while, but it just seems like he doesn't want anybody else to know that he likes me. like he's embarassed about it or something. and i guess for right now that's okay with me too. but it also seems like he's just trying to see how far i`ll go before i stop liking him. and i'm scared because i know will love him forever. i just want to know what i could do to help him, or something i could do to help me get my mind off him a little more of the time. i know everyone reading this thinks it's just another stupid high school girl who thinks she's in love. but you don't know me, so if you're thinking that. please don't respond with something like "you'll move on, how many boyfriends have you had this year?" i`m not looking for mean comments, i'm looking for advice. i know this is kind of long but i appreciate anyone who read the whole question and is willing to give good genuine advice. thank you
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Well listen all I can say is it seems like he is pushing you off. And your catching the hint. Listen I know everyone is going to tell you this but stop trying to put yourselff out there. If hes gonig to act like that then you should too. And if he says he need space then you have to respect that and just let it go. but if he still likes you then hell notice your distance and try to come back to you. But if he doesnt then thats ok too. Like my mom told me If you love is set it free if it comes back its ment to be
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that seems kind've rude. idk maybe he's juss shy & doesn't want everyone making a huge deal that he likes you & you like him. thats understandable. try talking to him about it & get the real story. you shouldn't wait around for too long though, because if he doesn't try anything & stops liking you, then you'll have a problem with that. the only way you can help him is by talking to him about it & giving him time & space. that's all he really needs. i'm definately in love with my bf & love is complicated but it's great. moving on can be difficult, & you don't have to do that. juss give him some time & talk to him about it. being friends is a good thing too.
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