im really confused..i just keep getting this weird feeling that my boyfriend doesn't really like me as much as he says he does..like online and on the phone he talks to me a wicked lot and he tells me he loves me a wicked lot..but like when im with him at school and like outside and stuff he like neverr talks to me..and i think thats really sad because he's in my majors and in my homeroom ( for the second year in a row) and afterr school he leave to go on his bus before i go home..and he just waves bye and leaves..like he never hugs me or anything when he leaves..and like everytime i wanna do something, he says he wants to too..but like the day before we were gunna do something he makes up an excuse so we can't go..like his mom said no because he had to watch his little brother..and i was talking to this kid and he sent me this convo between him and my boyfriend..and it was like ohh dancing w. her was horrible and im going to break up with her soon...and when i was talkin to my boyfriend about it he was all \"ohh you kno i love you and im not guna break up with you \" but like now im just not really positive about that..like how can i believe that afterr what he said to his friend..and im just really confused now..and i just like feel like i can\'t break up with him..because i've liked him for overr a yearr..and thats anotherr thing thats confusing...because it seems like in our realationship..he can control everything because he thinks i'll never break up with hi..and i seriously don\'t think i could do it..because it would just be like ruining my life..well i think it would...please help me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? br0ken_x_smile answered Sunday November 6 2005, 3:11 pm: <center>well if i were you. i think i would break up with him. if he tells that to his freinds and tells you something totally different thats just wrong. && its like hes being two faced, or a hypocritt. to me it sounds like he is treating you like shit. and you sound like a nice girl that doesn't deserve any of that at all. && if you have liked eachother for over a year then wouldn't he have used common sense to realize how much yuo really like him&& if he didn't feel the same or doesnt want to hang out why doesnt he tell you the truth? you should be like well, do you just not want to hang out. but right now... if i were you i would break up with him cuz that would be a shocker to him, and if he lieks you ALOT he'll come back to you and will ask you back out.
btw if he ignores you that's not a good sign.
it's just not good at all.
it's pain rude and unkind especially to a b/f&g/f.
IM me if you need anything else-unxreachhable.
i don't really know the entire story so i'm not sure how much i should say or not.
xonikkixo answered Sunday November 6 2005, 1:47 pm: sounds to me like your bf is sending alot of mixed signals and its really upsetting you .. well try talking to him telling him that you feel sort of neglected .. you bf like other people could be shy in public like not want to do things in front of people and he could be scared face to face tha if he says iloveu that in public you wont say it back & he'll feel embarrassed!! ask him if this is what he wants ask him if he wants to be wiht you and if he doesnt tell him you guys should end it before you get too emotionally involved ... let him kno you care for him and want to be with him buh not at the expense of you bein led on ... you can even bring up the conversation between him and that other kid ask him & tell him you really need to know what he feels and whats goin on ... GOOD LUCK [ xonikkixo's advice column | Ask xonikkixo A Question ]
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