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cell phone issue......
If a guy is in love with you would it bother him that you called him on his cell before 6 pm? A guy that I thought was really into me got upset today when I called him on his cell. He phoned me first but then his phone cut out and I phoned him back. I wanted to talk to him for a couple of minutes because I hadnt been able to talk to him much lately (he works in the oil rig camp), but then he got annoyed and said he couldnt talk anymore and that it was costing him a lot of money. He told me to only phone him after 6 pm. I know he is making a ton of money in the oil camps so I think that is bull that he cant afford the extra money.
I thought if a guy really loved and cared about you you could phone him anytime. Does anyone else think hes being a bit of a jerk?
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Yeah I mean he shouldnt mind a few minutes. And he could be getting annoyed but so what then he need to say something and stop lying! So dont let him get mad bc hes being the jerk. Besides a few minutes doesnt kill ne 1
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Bianca
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You may have caught him off guard. It might be that he was in the middle of something, but, if that were the case, I wouldn't answer the phone at all until I was ready. But that's me. Everyone is different. I can’t think of one illicit reason for him not wanting to receive a phone call until after six. But I can think of an official one. It very well could be that it is the rule of the work place. He is not supposed to receive or make calls while working. It may be that he snuck a call to you and when someone was coming he had to hang up. When you called him back he got caught. Remember, they are paying him very good money. It may be that they want 100% of his attention to his duties. When you love someone that does not mean that you can call them whenever you want. Of course there are always allowances for emergencies. Love also includes trust and respect. Respect his request. This doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. He may have very good reasons for it.
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LULABELLE
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Well maybe he doesn't want all his extra money to go to a cell phone bill. And yeah, you can call someone any time you please but they might not be able to talk or want to talk. Just because you love each other doean't mean you need to talk to each other 24/7. Just hold back on the calling him so much while he's working and when his minutes are being used up.
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i think you're right. you should be able to call at any time. i think he's a jerkkkk.
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it seems like he is kinda sounding like a jerk but he does have a point. . .do you call him a lot? was he in the middle of working? he might be stressed out becuz of the work
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