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3's an odd number
i have 2 best friends and we all hang out all the time but my two best friends have known eachother longer and they tend to leave me out ALL the time! Its annoying, it comes to the point where i dont want to hang out with both of them at the same time. When they arent together and im just hanging out with one of them its is soooo much fun! i have already talked to them about it so that wouldnt work...any suggestions?
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well, when you hang out with them... and if they ignore you still, butt into the convo! laugh with them, and just have fun!
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You should find another friend to hang out with. After you do that, they four of you could become a four group and not just three. That would work out better.
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been there, done that. 3 is an odd number so... dont do it. make at least one new close freind and hang out as 4, if they feel left out and talk to you aobut it explain that they ddi the same thing. also that way they can make new freinds other than eachother to. its not likley that they will do something as a 3 without you. but if 2 of them hook up, you can hook up with the other one. i wouldnt completley forget aobut them right away though, sometimes people dont realise whats goins on untill itsbeen done to them, so make new freinds and see what happens.
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I used to be in the exact same position. My advice to you; is to find new friends - seriously. That's what I did and they stopped being friends anyway so we all went our seperate ways. Or, you can pick one of them out that you like the most and start hanging out w/ her more. OR, you could just join them. Invite them both over to your house & both of them out places with you. Trust me, it'll work & you guys will definitely get closer.
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well if you cant beat them? join them ! start by bringing up fun memories you all had together by saying OH REMEMEBER THE TIME ... & take it from there 3 is never a good number especially when someone gets left out .. so take advantage of this friendship as you can .. when your w. just on of the 2 friends have an awesome time so that way when you are w. them both u can say to each of them ohhh remeber tha weekend we ... it was so much fun !!! so that way you can share the memorable times too ! good luck w. tha
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i've been in that situation before..plenty of times lol. im guessing you're a girl because girls are weird like that (no offense if you're a guy). what you have to do is hang out with other people, because if you can't hang out with 1 of them because they act different towards you because someone else is there..what kinda friend is that!? not a good one obviously. you don't have to not talk to them totally, you can still be their friend, juss hang out with other people & maybe not be as close. it should work & then you can try talking about it with them again.
-hope that helped!♥
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