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Taking the next step... (this is long)
Posted Monday December 26 2005, 12:27 pm
Hi everyone!
My name is Todd, and I am a 15-year-old teenager. Well, my question is whether or not I should take the next step. Let me explain.
About close to a year ago, I met this girl, Andrea, in my Freshman year, and she and I didn't date, but we were good friends. We were both the same age, but I was about a month older. Through the months, we knew more and more about each other from our last names to what candy we like.
As strange as it seems, I've never had a relationship, much less my first kiss. I am trying to see if Andrea likes me or not, but more than a friendship. Some relationships can be harsh, so I don't want to try that, but I just want to know if she has the same or at least sim...
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Why?
Posted Monday December 26 2005, 11:58 am
My ex and i had a long history together for 3 and a half years. We havent been together now for over a year.(over something stupid) anyway hes been with his new gf now for that long.
Heres the problem and my question>2 Christmas's ago, i spent alot of money on him(no big deal)
anyways he bought me the most beautiful necklace. It had 3 hearts joined together, with the middle heart having diamond chips going all around it. He told me that HE had designed it himself, and that it was expensive. The 3 hearts symbolized our 3 years together. I loved it and wore it all the time (when we were together)It is now in the safe downstairs!!!
Christmas evening my gf and her new bf came to vistit me at work. She wanted to show me w...
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erg.
Posted Monday December 26 2005, 11:57 am
alright so I like this guy but now he has a girlfriend..yea my friend =/ ...and my friend knew i liked him and she said yes anyways and the boy knew i liked him and asked her out right infront of myface..totally a BUMMER..i was mad at my friend but should i stilll be or should i act cool like i dont care..and the guy nows i was pissed off but this all happened a week ago...so should i stil be pissed or just be over it..and now how do i act towards the guy..
ill rate 5 for trying!! =)
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He really frustrates me
Posted Monday December 26 2005, 8:57 am
I'm getting to the point where I can't stand to be around my boyfriend. He is really frustrating me. I don't really consider myself unreasonable and I feel really guilty about all this. He's constantly analyzing every aspect of our relationship on whether it's considered "sinful" or not. He even went on about kissing and how it must be considered 'selfish' to a persons own desires. He reads all these sexual purity books and gets his morality and philosophy from them. He is really stiff and concerned about purity.. I know most girls would love a guy who isn't sex obsessed, but sometimes I think it'd be better if he was. I feel I'm not worthy when I'm around him. I always feel like shit when he preaches about morals and stuff. what ...
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lovelife
Posted Monday December 26 2005, 7:28 am
I am a student of 10 class, I like a girl of my class she has rejected many proposals even my friend's she says she likes someone else(not to me but to those who have proposed her) shall I propose her after boards?
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throwing his life away
Posted Monday December 26 2005, 3:36 am
i'm in a bit of a predicament w/ my boyfriend. i'm 19 and a sophomore in college and he's 21 and has not entered college. i'm not with him for booksmarts or trying to force him into going to college, but everyday i see him throwing his money away on useless things like his car.
i want him to have the motivation to have a future, to move forward w/ his life instead of living under his parents roof and job hopping every 3 months.
i've tried talking to him about it, but he always gets mad at me when i do, accusing me of lecturing him. he just doesn't understand that i'm only trying to look out for him. and i don't understand that when he says he wants a future with me, that he's not doing a goddamn thing about it?...
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MY GF
Posted Monday December 26 2005, 3:15 am
well there is a problem as you know or i wouldnt be here. I was talking with my gf and then i came to this website and red what she said about me. she obviously likes her ex too but she doesnt know who to pick. i love her and i would do anything for her but she doesnt see that in me. she said that it seams like i dont care and shes nothin special to me but ahh.... it just makes me sad. i really dont want to break up with her please help. p.s. i am a 14 yr old MALE
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More then Friends?
Posted Monday December 26 2005, 2:30 am
Okay, well let me first describe the boy I think I like. Lets call him Z. Alright, well Z is a really nice and all around cool kid! But, he likes me and evrything, it's just he also thinks other girls are also hot. He has gone out with other girls and when he was going out with them, he would call me sexy and stuff, so when he was going out with other girls, he was also flirting with other girls too. He's nice to me and I go a lot of places with him. I'm not even sure if I really like Z a whole lot.
Well my question is, should I go out with him? Or do you think he would flirt with other girls, too?
sorry if its long = )!
thank you.
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very confused
Posted Monday December 26 2005, 1:11 am
ok so this is an interesting situation. Pretty much em and my bf have been goin out since march. but he has moved to another province for work. Neither of us ever even mentioned breakin up, i had waited for him before and i am willin to wait for him again, but hes gone for a very long time not like just 2 or 3 months longer hes been gone for 4 months now,and we had made plans for him to meetme in a city near by and we could hook up again. But he never did get back to me on any of those plans, so i got really annoyed, so then a few dys later I had a friend tell me that he was commin to se me, so i asked him and found out that I had ruined one hel of a suprise, i felt horrible but was stil soo excited because is been so long . So he message...
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Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 11:53 pm
how can i get a guys attention?
ive seen this guy before but i know he doesnt know me..i know he doesnt know i exist! i wanna change that :) lets say i see him somewhere..what do i do? i want him to notice me ..i want him to think WOW that girls hott..i dont really wanna go up to him because i will be like 'hi i dont know you but my name is kristen' ha that will sound like stupid..
any suggestions?
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Confuzzed
Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 11:31 pm
OK i was dating this guy josh for about 2 months. he has a best friend nate and i have my bestfriend tanya. Ok well me and josh were hooked up then nate and tanya hooked up. Well after like a month nate and tanya started to have promblems and so did me and josh. well thats when me and nate started to hang out more. well i got tired of josh and his promblems(drugs-he would take it out on me that he was on drugs, and he was really rude and mean) well i got really mad and he said bad things so i broke up with him. and that same day nate told my tanya that they need a little break. So me and nate hung out together and well we did some things. and he told me the feelings he has for me, and they were really really strong ones. and like i said bef...
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age law
Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 11:17 pm
okay well im 14 and my boyfriend is 16. we've messed around and stuff but we havent had sex. the other night he told me that his step mom was talking to him and said that he should be careful because my parents could say that he has been doing stuff to me and he could get in big trouble. is that true? i thought the only law was anyone 18 cant do anything sexual with anyone under 18. i dont want to get him introuble so i want to know if what his mom said was true. i rate 5's
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so confused
Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 11:12 pm
ok well im 13.. and there's this guy i think i love.. but i dont wanna love him cause i dont wanna get hurt..im not sure who he is anymore thoiugh.. but like when i first met him.. i knew he was special.. i could just tell.. and like all my problems, worries, and cares just go away everytime he holds me in his arms.. the only problem is.. he doesnt love me back.. well i dont know if he does..because we went out for like 2 days and he said he really just wanted to be friends.. but he told my friend he loved me and his cousin told me he was thinking about asking me out later on this year.. but im really not sure how he feels towards me.. and i feel cheated .. because i opened up to him and let him know how i felt and what my feelings were tow...
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I emailed him and still have no response
Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 10:27 pm
I posted a question several days ago about my bf the stubborn jerk who hadn't emailed me for 6 weeks since he moved to another state for a job. Well I took the advice to send him an email to wish him a merry xmas. I sent this email yesterday on xmas eve and was at my moms for the night. I just got back home and checked and was shocked to find that he never responded!! But then I found out that there was a delivery status failure or something so he never got it. I just emailed him another one. Well I guess my question is does that mean that he could have changed his email address and not have told me? I'm positive I sent his email to the right address. And what does that mean when it says delivery status failure?
I'm still ste...
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Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 10:15 pm
SO..
im 15/f
me and my cousin always hang out together! she's awesome lOl. but anyways she used to like this one guy and i thought he was cute. well she didnt exactly like him anymore she moved on..but she still thought the kid was hott! and my littler cousin (her brother) is like 13? and he talks to this kid. the kid is in 9th grade and my cuzin is also but im in 10th grade. well i was like OH MY GOSH that kid is really hott! i said that to my cousins. and then my 13 yr old cousin was talking to him on the computer and was like yeah my cousin likes you. and i was like NOO how can i like him? i dont even know him! and then he is like just kidding she just thinks your hott. and he is like who is she? and my cousin told ...
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what should i do?
Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 9:54 pm
hey!!.... im 17.... i went out wit this guy last year for like 2 months....and i really liked him but we barely had time for each other so we broke up...and this year....he went out wit one of my close friends and i liked seeing them together because he seemed happy and i couldnt pick any better girl then one of my girls...and anyways....my friend broke up wit him...and it turns out he didnt like her he was just wit her because he knew he would be seeing me while dating her...and he likes me...i dont know if i like him the way i used to...but wen im not with him i want to be wit him and sometimes wen i am around him i dont wanan be wit him like i kno i can do better but sometimes i dont...so i dont know what to do...
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Which guy?
Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 7:20 pm
Okay well I have a boyfriend and he's great, he gives me great compliments but he never makes a move!, he never gets jelous and it makes me think he doesnt really care and seams like I'm nothing special when he's around me, but then theres this other guy my exboyfriend, he's great, nice, sweet, thoughtful and he would do anything for me but the only problem about it is he's not that exciting and it makes it no fun sometimes...could someone please give me some advice on what to do its been bothering me for a week and I dont want to hur either of them thanks
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which one?
Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 5:38 pm
okay, i know this is gonna sound like all those other stupid guy questions, but i have to ask. I like two guys. One is my age, which is 13, and he is tall, cute, and athletic. The other is 16, he's not really that good-looking but i think he's really funny and cool. I'm a little afraid because he might expect me to go further than i feel comfortable. I don't know who to "go after". Could someone help? thanks in advance!
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boyfriend
Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 2:39 pm
13/f
i've alwayz wanted a boyfriend i just don't know why. i get decent grades(A,B,C etc.)and i don't act up in school. i don't have bad friends. i'm basically a good student, but my mom won't let me. she's afraid i might go off and get PREGNANT. at one point i might go behind her back and get one. i don't wanna go behind her back but sooner or later i'm going to get tempted! so what do i do? i don't want to hurt someone i love! my mom said i can't get a b.f. until AFTER COLLEGE!!!HELPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!! please
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My sister's new relationship
Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 8:17 am
13/m. I have a sister who is 14. Where we live, stuff happens slowly. It's not like in NYC where everyone loses their virginity at, like 13. My sister finally got her first boyfriend. I'm not too worried about that. But, they're taking everything too fast: one week, they're dating. Another week, they're holding hands. This may not seem like much to you, but where I live it is. And now yesterday---they've been together 2 months, tops---they both had their first kiss.
I've been trying to get more info, but she's really private about this. I asked her if it was just a peck or if she made out, and she said that it was about 5 seconds. Is that long for a first kiss? And I asked her when, and she showed me a ring that she got from ...
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