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very confused
ok so this is an interesting situation. Pretty much em and my bf have been goin out since march. but he has moved to another province for work. Neither of us ever even mentioned breakin up, i had waited for him before and i am willin to wait for him again, but hes gone for a very long time not like just 2 or 3 months longer hes been gone for 4 months now,and we had made plans for him to meetme in a city near by and we could hook up again. But he never did get back to me on any of those plans, so i got really annoyed, so then a few dys later I had a friend tell me that he was commin to se me, so i asked him and found out that I had ruined one hel of a suprise, i felt horrible but was stil soo excited because is been so long . So he messaged me on msn saying that he was in town, o of course i was insanley excited, but i havent heard from him since its been a few days and every tiem i try to talk to him on msn he never replies.( i would call him but my phones in another town and thats where his cell number is) Now i know it could be that hes just not at the copmuter or something stupid like that. but i really dont think it is. Now i really want to find out whats goin on, im of course thinkin the worse, but thats just how i think. He really is a great guy and this just seems so unusual for him. I really want to be with him for new years, new years is an important thing for me. but there is notmuch i can do if i cant talk to him or hes ignoring me. im just so confused right now. soe opinios from guys would be great. and im sorry it was so long . <3
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Hi! It sounds like you and I have a lot in common. My bf moved to another province for a job in the oil rigs. I sometimes don't see him for months at a time, the longest I've gone without seeing or hearing from him was almost 4 months.
I know that you love your bf and he loves you. But I can also tell you from my own experience how difficult long distance relationships are. I havent been able to email him because his email isnt set up at the camp he works at. The only way I can contact him is on his cell, but because of his crazy work shedule it's very difficult to get a hold of him. I finally got a hold of him tonight to wish him a merry xmas, the poor guy was still at work and I just happened to catch him on his break! But anyways, the point I was trying to make is that long distance relationships REALLY suck, especially around the holidays.
I think the problem with your bf may just be communication? I mean maybe his computer crashed or something. Case in point, I was really mad at my bf for not emailing me in 2 months but then just by phoning him I found out his internet wasnt hooked up. I'm sure there is a logical explanation for him not getting a hold of you. It could be many number of reasons, maybe he had a family emergency. This time of year families can really be a pain in the butt, maybe his mom made him come over for dinner.
So my advice is try to relax and don't worry about your bf. If he really loves you it will work out.
good luck and merry xmas.
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