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i've alwayz wanted a boyfriend i just don't know why. i get decent grades(A,B,C etc.)and i don't act up in school. i don't have bad friends. i'm basically a good student, but my mom won't let me. she's afraid i might go off and get PREGNANT. at one point i might go behind her back and get one. i don't wanna go behind her back but sooner or later i'm going to get tempted! so what do i do? i don't want to hurt someone i love! my mom said i can't get a b.f. until AFTER COLLEGE!!!HELPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!! please
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Your mother is being rediculious, she can't treat you like a baby for ever, you get good grades, you have good mates, your a good kid, and the more she keeps saying NO, the bigger issue it is going to become, she cant stop ou from seeing anybody.
If she thinks that you are going to go out and get pregnant then sh is just looking for an excuse to say that you can't have one. You have your own life, so do what you want with it
Channii
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Oh my goodness! That is just,...ridiculous! You are a reasonable kid that gets good grades and doesn't hang out with the 'wrong crowd'! I don't get it. You need to tell her that you will always be her baby girl, but you are going to have to grow up sometime and that you are responsible and for God's sake your 13! You aren't going to go sleeping around with ever guy u see! No offense to your mom or anything, but she needs to let go some, she's too defensive over you. Maybe y'all ((Sorry, I'm southern lol)) could work out a deal or something? Like, you can have a boyfriend, if she meets him before y'all go on a date or kiss or anything. That's what I have to do and it's not terrible. So just explain to your mom that you love her, and you know that she loves you, but you're growing up and there's going to be drastic changes in your life, that she needs to get used to. Like a boyfriend.
YOU DONT KNOW HOW MUCH LUCK THAT I WISH YOU!!!
♥Paige
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What??? Okay that's just ridiculous. Talk to your mother. You sound like a very responsible girl, so tell her that there is no way you'll go off and have sex. This probably won't work. But, if you have to do behind her back, there's really no way she can find out, unless you're not careful. If you have a cell, then have him call you on that. When you go out with him somewhere, go in big groups with friends. When you get caught, that's usually when you get her to cave. Explain to her that you really like this boy and nothing has happened, like you haven't had sex and you're not pregnant. Unless she's really...uh, i don't want to say bitchy....you get it, she'll understand. Maybe she's had a really scary experience with a guy at your age and doesn't want this to happen to you. If you really don't want to *betray* your mother, then that's your choice. If there's no way you'll do it without your mother's premission, then please DO NOT rate this. good luck with that honey. happy holidays!
!~*becca*~!
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MY PARENTS WERE ALWAYS WERiD ABOUT iT, BUT ONE DAY A GUY ASKED ME OUT, AND i REALLY LiKED HiM..AND i TALKED TO MY MOM ABOUT iT..SHE DiDNT MiND US GOiNG OUT BECUZ SHE KNEW HiM..SO MAYBE iF YOUR MOM GOT TO KNOW SUM OF YOUR GUY FRiENDS BETTER..OR AT LEAST MEET THEM A COUPLE TiMES..SHE WOULDNT MiND..AND SiNCE THEN iVE BEEN HAViNG B/F'S..AND THEY DONT MiND..OR YOU COULD JUST SiT DOWN AND TALK TO YOUR MOM ABOUT iT..TELL HER ALL YOUR FRiENDS DO, GUYS LiKE YOU, THEY WONT TRY TO DO ANYTHiNG MORE..OR TELL HER YOU WONT DO ANYTHiNG LiKE GET PREGNATE!
i HOPE i HELPED--MoRgAn
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