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Question Posted Monday December 26 2005, 11:58 am

My ex and i had a long history together for 3 and a half years. We havent been together now for over a year.(over something stupid) anyway hes been with his new gf now for that long.
Heres the problem and my question>2 Christmas's ago, i spent alot of money on him(no big deal)
anyways he bought me the most beautiful necklace. It had 3 hearts joined together, with the middle heart having diamond chips going all around it. He told me that HE had designed it himself, and that it was expensive. The 3 hearts symbolized our 3 years together. I loved it and wore it all the time (when we were together)It is now in the safe downstairs!!!
Christmas evening my gf and her new bf came to vistit me at work. She wanted to show me what her bf of only 2 weeks had given her. It was that EXACT same necklace i received 2 years ago. I was in shock. Then i became very angry!! He bought it from the same place my ex told me he got mine from, but i thought mine was a 1 of-a-kind!
I dont care what advice i get about this, but i am going to confront him no matter what!! I cant see his face online or over the phone, so im doing this in person! If any of you say to just let this go, you dont know what i have been through. I cant help but feel that those 3 and a half years were all a lie!
Since hes been with his new gf, he has told me he still missed what we had, and told me he loved me!
When they broke up(every month basically)he ditched her to hang out with me! We made out(thats all)told me he still loved me again!!
Then when things didnt go his way AGAIN, he tells me that he would NEVER do anything to hurt "her". He always lies and makes up excuses why he said this or why he did that to cover up the real truth!!
I would just like to hear everyones opinion on this!
I rate high!!


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chakra answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 2:11 pm:
i think he's scum and a liar. next time they break up DON'T make out with him, dont even let him hink that you like him, he keeps using you to pass the time till he gets back with her.
he's not boyfriend material and by making out with him your letting him walk all over you.
dont waste your time on him

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jeanine278972 answered Monday December 26 2005, 2:27 pm:
What an ass! But of course it was kinda sweet that the three hearts represented your time together. As for him saying it was a one of a kind ... that was stupid. He had no reason to lie about it ...
Again .. what an ass.. and i agree that you need to confront him.. and make sure you give it to him good ... guys don't need to be like that!
Good luck ..and make it worth it!

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orphans answered Monday December 26 2005, 2:11 pm:
Wow! what a bastard
Anyways confront him.
when doing it, bitchslap him, to make it more dramatic. preferably do this in front of his new gf, so she'll see what an lier-ass he is.
Alicia ♥

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