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SO..
im 15/f
me and my cousin always hang out together! she's awesome lOl. but anyways she used to like this one guy and i thought he was cute. well she didnt exactly like him anymore she moved on..but she still thought the kid was hott! and my littler cousin (her brother) is like 13? and he talks to this kid. the kid is in 9th grade and my cuzin is also but im in 10th grade. well i was like OH MY GOSH that kid is really hott! i said that to my cousins. and then my 13 yr old cousin was talking to him on the computer and was like yeah my cousin likes you. and i was like NOO how can i like him? i dont even know him! and then he is like just kidding she just thinks your hott. and he is like who is she? and my cousin told him..but of course he doesnt know me since we go to different schools.. and the kid is like dont know her..never seen her..never heard of her. well this made me feel GREAT. even tho i knew he didnt know who i was. but then anyways this kid is like well next time that she sees me tell her to come up to me and tell her who she is. SO next time i see him what am i suppose to say? hi im the girl that thinks your hott. it will be soo embarassing! and im pretty shy.so that doesnt help. and then later that night my 13 year old cousin was still talking to him and was like yeah my sister (his sister my cousin)thinks your really hott and he is like man whats up with your family..first your cousin and now your sister? whats next your grandpa??! so then i felT SOOOO unblievebly stupid!! now i for sure dont wanna go up to him next time i see him..i will feel so stupid! but then again maybe he will think im cute or something? I DONT KNOW!! i mean i wanna hang out with him or something..or at least try and talk to him..let him know i exist!! but then i only see him at their schools hockey games..and there isnt any going on over break! and my cousin that goes to school with him is really shy too and wont ask to hang out with him..because she doesnt really talk to him either..and i dont wanna talk to him on AIM because im not good with talking on the computer..so please dont suggest that..but yeah so i cant throw a party or anything! ugh this is soo horrible and confusing :( you dont even know..this kid is the funniest..the cutest! and he doesnt even know i exist..all the girls are over him and i guess he is goin to this party that a girl is throwin from his schoool. what do you think i should do!?
SORRY SO LONG!! i really am!
but thanks for answering sweetie
i really appreciate it!
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aww its all right dont worry if he doesnt know who you are... YET! i think your cousin and this guy go to the same school right? im not sure but if this girl is having a party and if your cousins invited i think you should go too! you dont have to go right up to him and meet him you could have your cousin introduce you and then just casually talk from there and be like "your screen name is ___ right? ahha i was at my cousins house when her lil bro was talking to you" or something along those lines..but dont act shy! just act like your having a really good time and smile and dont be a wallflower
i hope this allworks out for you, if you need anything else drop some in my inbox
♥ =) erica
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Oh boy you must really like this kid. That`s fine that you haven`t really talked to him. Just like the next time you see him say hi. When he said the "..first your cousin, now your sister.." thing, I think he was just being sarcastic. Don`t fuss over it too much. Even if you are shy, it`s ok. Since he is going to this girl`s party - is your cousin invited? If she is then ask to go along and maybe you`ll get to know him and maybe other cute guys! You and your cousin can get all dressed up and I bet boys will be in line waiting for you to talk to them :DD !! Just talk to him and be relaxed. It`ll be fine because he probably wants to meet this girl who thinks he`s sucha cutie :) If you have anymore questions then leave some in my inbox. Good luck darling.
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Hey hun.
Well, try to get that 13 year old cousin who is friends with him to come over and hang out while you're there and then have him introduce you guys and then just hang out and stuff, get to know him and what not.
I hope this helps and if you need any more suggestions or whatever, just leave a message in my inbox.
♥ Kourtney
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You don't have to go up to him & talk to him but if would be a good idea. Before you just go up to him, you should talk to him. Talking on AIM isn't a bad idea. Everyone can be good at talking on the computer.. trust me. You should just get to know him so he gets to know you & your personality. Maybe you could send him your picture or something, but if you really want to hang out with him & start being friends with him, you will have to do something about that. Just talk to him! When you do see him, jus say heyy.. & start a conversation & then tell him that you're the girl that thinks he's hot. I don't think you should be remembered as the girl who thinks he's hot if you haven't even talked to him. He should know your name. That's just my opnion but you can do whatever you want to. Good luck.
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Wowy. Its okay if its long... i got all excited like woahh yess a long one, how fun =)! Well, if your nervous to meet him then maybe go with a best friend, your cousin, etc. Because if im alone with a guy(depending on who) I get really like shy and nontalkative, but when im with a good friend im all normal because I can talk to her too and don't have to be all akward around the guy and be like... sooo(if you know what I mean). When you meet him you dont have to say "I'm the girl you thinks your hott". Just say.."I'm so and so's(your cousins name) cousin/friend". I guess I understand how you feel... I get really nervous if I talk to people online that i've never meet in person before, and then I'm suppost to meet them. And even though you said you didn't want me to tell you to talk to him online... AIM really helps. Its always like 1379 times easier talk to them, tell them something, or say something to someone online rather in person. So you should give it a try because you could probably talk to him eaiser and get to know him better so when you meet in person again or for the 1st time things aren't so werid. I'm sorry if my advice wasn't the answer you were looking for, i tried to understand your question as easy as possible. If you need something more spasific then just ask =). Hope this helps and good luck &hearts.
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Hey
Awww don't sweat it! There's nothing to be embarrassed about. I mean I understand your situation but it's not that big of a deal. Okay here's what I would do if I was in your place. Over the vacation I would try to improve myself, everyway I could. I would re- do my hair, get new clothes, I would also try not to gain any weight, but that's just me. Then the next time you know you're going to see him I would do my makeup nicely, wear something sexy/cute, and just smile at him A LOT! Make yourself noticeable you know?! I'm sure if you try to look extra nice he'll notice you. If he doesn't make sure you keep smiling at him. If your little cousin is there make sure he introduces you guys. Don't be embarrassed, just play it off with a laugh and say ohh yeah I'm the girl that thinks your super HOT! And right after you say that giggle. I'm sure he'll ask if it's true that you think he's hot and what I would do is, say well actually I was just joking around I never really noticed you before, but after really seeing you today I must say you're a cutie. Then smile! Just be sure to flirt a lot! I'm sure things will go good!
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NEXT TiME YOU SEE HiM, MAYBE TAKE A FRiEND, OR EVEN YOUR COUSiN AND iNTOURDUCE YOURSELF..BUT DONT MENTiON ANYTHiNG ABOUT YOU THiNKiNG HE iS HOTT..UNLESS HE ASKS, JUST KiND OF TELL HiM..THEN LAUGH ABOUT IT (NOT RUDELY, JUST TO SHOW YOU ARENT REALLY EMBARESSED)..AND MAYBE GiVE HiM YOUR PHONE #..YOU COULD START OUT AS FRiENDS..AND DONT WORRY ABOUT OTHER GiRLS BEiNG ALL OVER HiM!..HE PROBABLLY THiNKS iT iS ANNOYiNG, AND HE MiGHT LiKE YOU MORE THAN THEM ANYWAYS!..BUT ANYWAYS..i REALLY HOPE i HELPED!..<3 ALWAYS..MORGAN_DANiELLE..
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WOW, very long, but OH WELL, dont be embarassed that both of you thinks that his cute i mean its better for him to know & to have a chance then to NEVER tell him .. & whenever you see him if you dont feel comfortable going up to him tell one of your friends to & then he will be like OH THATS HER WOAHH HOTTAY !! & then he'll walk up to you & you guys wil start hanging out i mean you have to have comfidence, my freinds go up to guys im suppose to meet ALL THE TIME !! i know how you feel & if hes going to the party,, find a way to go & be around him all night ! lol GOOD LUCK !!
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