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symptoms of depression showing, what's next?


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 11:47 pm

My girlfriend and I both believe she has the symptoms of depression. Her sleeping schedule can never remain stable and she typically sleeps an average of 14 hours a day, more or less. She's home a lot since she's currently unemployed and has had no luck with jobs she's applied for. She doesn't really have any friends locally since she moved here a year ago. She basically just has me and my family. I've been trying my best to help her, but being the only one working, my time during the day is limited too.

What makes matters worse is, i'm making barely enough to make ends meet and neither of us have health insurance. I've looked up local clinics and plan on calling in the next couple of days to see if we can get any free servic...

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blow job


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 10:04 pm

okay, so i'm good friends with the guy, and we were talking and we got into like hooking up and stuff.
and me giving him a blow job.
i've never done something of this sort before so i don't know what it entails.
i don't really want him like fingering me or anything like that, but does that always happen?
and what makes a good blow job?

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shisha addiction?


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 9:45 pm

i smoked hookah shisha for two hours straight yesterday from school. i know that is very bad but i feel so addicted its all i want i hadnt even slept yet. is there anything i can do or smoke that is non tabacco or drug? and no gum to get me off, i mean something in alternative. my boyfriend of nearly two years is totally against any type of drugs or smokeing and i feel like a total bitch for keeping this from him but i cant handle it idk what to do?

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HJ and blueballs? haha help...


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 9:10 pm

Alright. Here's what happened. Awhile ago I was at my boyfriends house. We had been dating for like four months at that time. So about a week before that day he had fingered me for the first time. He'd done it before but I hadn't. He's sixteen and I'm fourteen by the way, but he's only the grade above, a year and a half older. But anyway. So it was new but I liked it and yeah. Well on that day I started giving him a handjob but I didn't think I was doing any of it right and I felt like an idiot so I kind of stopped right in the middle... I guess you're not supposed to do that /: ... yeah. oops. So we decided to slow things down a little cuz I didn't think I was ready for all that stuff yet but it's been a few weeks and I want to try again....

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phone sex??


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 8:45 pm

hi

welll...
what do you people think of phone sex..it it really bad..i did it a couple times with my bf..and it feels really good. To me it makes me feel..slutty..;/ My bf treats me well..and we hardly see each other.. i never felt this way about someone before..but tell my should i be ashamed of doing this..my mom almost caught me..she's suspicous now...;/ help me out? thanks nd plz dont be to harsh..

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euro-trash...?


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 8:05 pm

i'm going to a euro-trash themed party this weekend, but i don't know what to wear. i'm a girl. does anyone know any clothing ideas? (don't say *trashy* or an adjective, actual clothing please)

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sould I give up or still fight for are love?


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 7:48 pm

Ok, you might think I'm trying to give up on someone I see every day but I never saw this guy in my life we meet in a chat room and since then are relationship grew. I knew him for about 1year and a half and we started by sending mesages and now we talk amost ever night. Don't get me wrong it is heavy flirting going on when we talke I mean how els can we tain are selfs.
We are starting to say things to eachother like iwant you to myself and iwant to love you and he made a song about me.....two songs..... real songs and he calls me sweety and I call him babe.
Your proble saying why you want just meet up somewhere but he lives all the way in LA and that's a distance from here. So help what should I do sould I give up or still fight for are love

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Selling T-shirst online


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 7:38 pm

Hello, just recently decided to start a business by selling my own t-shirt designs on e-bay, finding a job is so hard. Not really sure how to start like, what t-shirt brand can i use, do i need to pay the t-shirt brand for using their name? I just need plain white t-shirts and i'm not sure how i'm going to get my design on the t-shirt, is anyone familiar with this business and will you tell me how i can get started step by step?

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I can't cum when I masturbate


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 7:22 pm

16/M

When I masturbate I cannot ejaculate. It's really embarrassing and I'm not going to go to my parents and say, "Hey, when I masterbate I'm not able to cum out! Should I see a doctor?"

I have masturbated many times now but I never reach orgasm. I've tried different techniques, have tried "cumming" quickly, and have tried jacking off for a long period of time before trying to "cum" but it never happens!

What's more embarrassing is that I urinate instead of cumming, it seems. I've peed on my bed twice now because I was trying to reach climax. I now stand over the toilet to masturbate so when it gets to the point of urination I won't make a mess again. It is ...

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How to tell my mom that I'm pregnant...


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 7:07 pm

How do I tell my parents that I'm pregnant?

I live with my mom and I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. My mom thinks he's OK so it isn't like she hates him. I heard her telling my dad about it on the phone once when he called to see if I wanted to come down to his house on the weekend so I know my dad knows about him too.

Anyway, I've been having sex with my boyfriend since we got together. We used a condom every time but I guess one didn't work because I didn't get my period this last time. I bought some home pregnancy tests (4 of them total) and they ALL came up positive. I even took once mid-way through the school day and it still showed pregnant. I totally didn't want to get pregnant, es...

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I have nothing to talk about with my boyfriend now...


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 6:54 pm

I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and we have a great relationship. He comes over to my house once a week and we cuddle and he's really a sweetheart. My problem is that we don't really talk about anything. Ever.

I don't know what to talk to him about. I don't really have anything to talk to him about that I haven't already said. I don't want to end this relationship because he's such a good boyfriend but it's getting boring and, to say the least, strange.

When we talk on the phone we say the same things we usually do. I've been trying to cut down on the time we are in communication with eachother so that when we get together we have more to talk about but it doesn't seem to change anything....

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Confused?????


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 6:54 pm

14/m

last monday, february 15, i went out with a girl. I knew she liked me and this other guy who is older then me i think 10th grade. After the movie we kissed, nothing else. So when i get home i text her and she texts me. At the end i tell her night and i'll be thinking about her. She said night and same. Well Tuesday comes, i send her a text in the morning same time i do everyday usually. No reply, i go to school, thinking she was busy.

Later that day i send a text after school. No reply. So i called her later that night. No answer, fully rang, 6 times went to Voicemail and i didn't leave a voicemail i never do.

So now its today, Feb 17. Didn't send anything till this afternoon well actually ...

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What is a McGangBang from McDonald's?


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 6:45 pm

Hi! I was talking to my best friend one day and she said she was heading to McDonald's. I asked her what she gets there and she said she usually gets a McGangBang to eat and the Mickey D's sweet tea to drink. I didn't want to sound stupid so I went with the conversation and didn't ask, "What in the WORLD is a McGangBang?!"

I'm pretty sure McDonald's doesn't have that on their menus but I don't know what it might be. My friend isn't nasty and doesn't participate in gangbangs or anything so I KNOW it isn't dirty or some weird sexual thing. What is a McGangBang so the next time my friends talk about it I will have a better idea of what it is?

THANKS!!!

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How do I know if I'm using a tampon that is too heavy for my flow?


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 6:36 pm

I've just started using tampons for my period and I've noticed they don't come in a wide array of sizes really (light, regular, super, super plus from what I've seen). I picked up the super absorbencies since my period flow is really heavy but it feels pretty uncomfortable when I insert it. I thought maybe after the tampon soaked up some that it would be more comfortable and "normal" feeling but it still feels the same.

I read that you could get TSS from using a tampon that was too heavy for your flow and I really don't want to risk that. How do I know if my tampon is too big?

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How to get rid of a sexual fetish, fantasy, desire, or kink?


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 6:26 pm

I have a very odd, rather embarrassing, sexual fetish. I have always been "into" this sort of thing and all of my fantasies and sexual thoughts revolve around the fetish itself. I really don't want to have this sexual fetish any more though.

I have searched online on how to get rid of a particular fantasy or sexual fetish and all I can find is to embrace it. All of the material is the same thing: Embrace your sexuality, embrace your sexual differences, be unique and enjoy your sexual desires and kinks, fulfill your sexual fantasies, etc. That's not what I want.

How do I get rid of this odd sexual desire though?

Like I said, it really isn't common so it isn't like I can find frien...

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i have two sex questions..


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 5:23 pm

what is anal sex? everybody always talks about it and i have no idea...
and my second one is, im not really sure what all this means but how does a condom protect from the cum because ive heard that the cum comes out of the penis so how do the condom protect from it? lol. im not planning on having sex at alll.. im waiting till i atleast find the right person. but i atleast want to know what this means. lol. i rate 5 for all(:

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always mean to everyone for no reason.


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 4:59 pm

i'm 17/f and i have a problem with myself. i'm never really "happy". whenever i'm at school i'm distant and cold to everyone, even my friends. sometimes my moods lift and i'll be happy but then i'll get tired from the sudden rush of energy and go back to being depressed or angry. at church i'm pretty much the same way, and at home i'm just quiet most of the time. the only time i'm not a pissed off upset mess is when i'm hanging out with friends outside of school. but recently my best friend moved about thirty minutes away and my other friend and i aren't aloud to talk to eachother. and my other best friend already lived about 25-30 minutes away. how do i keep my moods from waving all the time?

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i've aproached this many times!


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 4:55 pm

Me and my boyfriend haven't been together long (less than 2 months) and we never really actually got in a fight ( well one time !) but the only thing that we sometimes feud on is his communication with me. He's a really busy guy and i understand that,but sometimes he doesn't text me for almost a day (if its the weekend!)or we will make plans to hangout and sometimes they work perfectly and other times,he messes them up.For example,on monday i asked him if he wanted to go to the gym with me...he said yeah and at 5 o clock when we were gonna go to the gym ,he told me he couldnt go because he had to watch his sister and that we'd go tomorrow.The next day comes around and he had a parent/teacher meeting with all of his teachers after school and...

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odor


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 4:45 pm

i posted a question on here a while back about being unsure about whether or not i had a yeast infection. well, i'm pretty sure i don't, considering i'm not "uncomfortable" and i don't itch. but i do smell terrible. i went to the store recently and got some vaginal deodorant, but it only seems to work for about an hour, and then i smell really bad again. i spray it on/around my vaginal area and in my underwear because it said to do that for extra strength, but it still wears off.

does anyone know of any good products that could get rid of this horrid odor? it's frustrating me to no end. thanks for any advice.

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best friend hookup...


Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 4:26 pm

sorrry for the length in advance..

ok so, my best friend has told me that she has really liked me since she left for college, about 7 months ago. i have never though about liking another girl, so when we talked about it a while ago, i was against the idea of hooking up and whatnot, and just wanted to stay friends, and she decided that would probably be better, but it sucked because she liked me so much. and over the months i have really grown to like her a lot. i went and visited her last weekend so we could figure out where to go from here, and if we should try being together. but i got extremely drunk on friday night, and ended up hooking up with a random guy right in front of her. i made her really upset, but i dont rememb...

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