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How to get rid of a sexual fetish, fantasy, desire, or kink?
I have a very odd, rather embarrassing, sexual fetish. I have always been "into" this sort of thing and all of my fantasies and sexual thoughts revolve around the fetish itself. I really don't want to have this sexual fetish any more though.
I have searched online on how to get rid of a particular fantasy or sexual fetish and all I can find is to embrace it. All of the material is the same thing: Embrace your sexuality, embrace your sexual differences, be unique and enjoy your sexual desires and kinks, fulfill your sexual fantasies, etc. That's not what I want.
How do I get rid of this odd sexual desire though?
Like I said, it really isn't common so it isn't like I can find friends to share my sexual interests with or find a partner "into" the same thing I am. It's incredibly embarrassing and I don't think I could even say it outloud to another person if I had to. Since it's a strange, unusual sexual desire it makes me feel like a bad person. I'm tired of these feelings and I'm tired of thinking about it. I want to be more "vanilla" and normal.
Please, help me get over these sexual thoughts revolving around this kink! Any idea or tip is highly appreciated!
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Don't feel like a bad person because of the things you think about. You are human and we do need things to fulfill in our life. Try to experiment the desires you have been having because that can be one way about going it to get rid of it.. and ya know..when you get in that situation you might not even want to do it so at least you know then if it was what you truely wanted to do and if you do do it then you'll know if you enjoyed it and what not. you really should accept your self because accepting yourself is showing who you really are not only to those around you but to you. you are getting to know your innerself. i dont know what your thoughts are but i hope i helped.
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I realy get what your saying my name is C.L.N and I'm going to try to help you
I hate to say this but you should try pleasing yourself like.......masterbateing it can help where you want feel for those thouaght and try avoiding porn and things with nudeity cuz it can bring that feeling back to you.
If age is good sex could help and another thing is live your fantasies so that you already did it before it won't hit you as much.
Hope I helped alittle bye
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whatever it is, i can almost promise you that there are people out there into much weirder stuff. you might be surprised to find that other people probably do in fact share the same fetish as you, no matter how odd you may think it is. and once you find someone special and you share fantasies, maybe they would be willing to take part in it and you could return the favor.
if you really want to try to get rid of it, the only thing i learned about in psychology is that aversion therapy has had the best results in eliminating fetishes. you could try seeing a psychologist.
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