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I like this guy...


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 1:12 am

Alright. So I like this guy..a lot. I never told him it, but we talk all the time. We met a while ago because we used to have the same problem. But He's so great and everything the only problem is that he's turning 16 this year and I'll be 18 in a month. I want to tell him how I feel, but I'm scared he'll think I'm wierd or something because I'm older. or I'm scared about what people would think. I mean I want to tell him, but he lives about 2 hours away, and we never see each other.And when we talk, we talk about Everything and anything. I don't know what to do. I'm probably not even making any sense. So should I tell him how I feel about him, or just let it go?

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I KNOW ITS LONG BUT PLEASE READ...I LIKE MY BEST GUY FRIEND!


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 11:50 pm

14/f...okay I really really like one of my better guy friends named Warren. But no one knows it except me. Anyways I he was talking with one of my other friends and he said that he thinks that I like him a little (I tend to make things obvious). I totally freaked out and avoided him for a while so now he doesn't think I *like like* him anymore. It's good for now but I have a feeling that he *might* feel the same way about me. I'm not sure though. Even if he does we both don't want to make a move probably because we don't want the other one acting weird. I have no idea what to do. As far as how to act. Eventually I want him to know that I like him. But I'm not sure about the timing, or even if I should tell him. Should I wait for him to make...

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Guys! && signs.


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 10:10 pm

People say body language says a lot. So, i wanted to know...what are some body language signs and stuff? like whats some things to show body language && what do they mean? && can u tell me some signs guys do and what they mean? like to show you they like you.. or even if they just want one thing? anybody?

Thanks

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I know... another love question


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 9:19 pm

i have a bf. im crazy about him. i think about him constantly. we had sex for the first time. and everything was really weird, so we did it again and it wasnt so weird. we have finally told people about us dating. pretty much everyone knows. im still really weird about some people knowing. his parents know that were dating, but mine dont. they think that after my last relationship. that i should wait till im 16. which is in july. how can i tell my parents. adn another question i have is, how do i keep things going as good as they are now. me and my ex dated for a long time. and everything was good. then after 8 months everything crashed i dont want this to happen again. so help. pleez. ill rate high.

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help me please


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 9:03 pm

I have like 3 questions in 1...please don't judge me.

Ok I am 15/f and I am a virgin and never really done anything so...

1. How do you give a hand job?
2. How do you give head?
3. When your having sex for the first time does the girl just lay there or what?

Well, they might be dumb questions but I am kinda lost. I would like it if experienced people answered these questions...PLEASE don't judge me...thanks for answering and I will rate!

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boys gotta go


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 8:38 pm

So this boy that I have liked for a while now is getting to me. Actually he has always been playing his little games. But this one made me upset. He told one person we were going out. No that’s not the part and than my friend was like oh are you too going out and he goes yes and she goes aww that’s so cute and he goes yea id tap that.. If you don’t know what tap that means..leave..just kidding. So than I was like kind of happy and i was like oh so were kind of going out. So I call my friend kara cause I want her to call me with him and she goes oh well he’s going out with this girl _____.My heart sank to my feet. Yea they went out in the past for like a week and they recently broke up . I was devasted when they even began going out...

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Friend vs. Crush


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 8:37 pm

15/f
All right, so my friend, who is very shy, has never told somebody she likes him before. But just a few months ago, she decided to tell this one guy that she does like him. The only problem is, I liked him too. They flirted for a while, talked to each other on cell phones a lot, but all he did was confuse her, cuz even when she asked him out he rejected her. But he still flirted with her. Now, I sort of have the feeling that he likes me too. What should I do?

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SO CONFUSED!!!


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 8:34 pm

ok well i really like one of my best friends and all my friends and everyone thinks he likes me but my other friend asked him out and so did another friend of mine and my friends asked him who he liked and it wasnt the 2nd friend who asked him out so hes deciding between me and my other friend..(shes not like my huge friend but she kinda is..)..im so conufsed and i like him so much!!he flirts with me all the time and i flirt back and we have an awesome time 2gether but he wont decide who he likes...AH IM SO SICK OF THIS 2 YEAR OLD STUF!!i mean yea i respect that he needed some time but 2-3 weeks is too long dontcha think???im so depressed most of the time cuz of this..and then another problem is his bff likes me..and hes really cute too and...

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i decided


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 8:23 pm

ok so ill go over this quickly i like this guy (im bi) n hes gay n iv decided to try n talk to him n become friends with him. i realy like him n wont him to know im bi so how would i slip that into the convo somehow. n how sould i go about asking him out. well someone let me know i need tons of help.

mizike

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Please Help..i dont know what to do


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 8:02 pm

im 15 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 5 months..we had unprotected sex but he pulled out before he came..im really worried that i am pregnant, and i could never tell my parents..i have been gettin pains in my stomach, but it could jsut be me worrying..or my period is coming..what should i do..i cant keep the baby..and im jsut really worried..is there ways i could get an abortion with out my parents knowing?..like the morning after pill

please give me some adivce what to do before i go insane

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Missing my "best friend"


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 7:25 pm

Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up last friday. I miss her so much, I truly love this girl, my best friend. I feel hurt and at the same time confused, even though we have talked over the phone and even gone to the movies once since the break up 4 days ago. I dont know what to do, all i do is think about her and us, I cant believe its over, i seriously thought this was the "one" i was gonna spend my whole life with. Im done crying but sadness is all over me, I dont know how to deal with all of this. Ive been in many relationships, however, none were as serious as this one. I wanna call her so bad and be with her, i look at our pictures together and i get the need to cry. My question is, should i call her and tell her h...

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doesn't want a relationship


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 7:20 pm

17/m
well, theres this one chick. and shes hot. but thats besides the point. i like her and i THINK she likes me, but she doesn't want to date. she told me some crap about how shes bad with relationships and she wanted to be fwb. I was all like...um, idk. so now were just sort of like...more than friends but less than other stuff...that whole thing. and the other day she told me that she was going to be all protective of me and stuff. and to me, thats like...WHAT THE HELL!? cause its like, you dont want to date me, but you dont want me dating anyone else. so idk what to do, because I really want a relationship. i tried telling her this but she just told me that she's bad with relationships.

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i have a funny feeling.


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 7:01 pm

do you hate whenever you have feeling that you really like someone and you don't know if they like you back but anyways whenever i see this guy that i like he really shows that he likes me but whenever i talk to him through e-mail he seems he doesn't like me. Goshh i really need your help because i really love him!!

Thanks

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NO!


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 4:23 pm

ok so on friday, my freinds and i are going ice skating. i told this guy who i know and we flirt together all the time. I like him but I don't want a b/f right now... I just want to flirt. So, he is coming as well with his freinds and of course we are going to flirt like crazy. I'm just nervous because I don't want him to ask me out and then get turned off..AND I don't want him to go out with this rude snob that I hate. What should I do to prevent him to asking me out? If he does, what should I say?

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was he hinting around that he's interested in having childre


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 3:08 pm

A male friend of mine that I've been hoping that one day will become more than friends with me was having a conversation with me one day. We were watching a Dr. Phil show about dead beat parents. I started telling my friend how I would raise my kids if I ever had them one day. My friend was listening intently and seemed to be really interested in what I had to say. Well after this he said to me "so when are you having these kids"? I got a little embarrassed and then told him that I hadn't thought about it (although I had, with HIM being the father) and said that I just knew I would be a great father. Then he said in a really quiet but sweet voice "yes, you would make a great mother some day".
Do you think thi...

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Backwards Dance.


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 1:34 am

At my school, we have this dance where the girls ask the guys (hence the backwards part). I have a few guy friends that I'm thinking of asking, but I don't know how to ask them. Girls, if you could share how you asked a guy out (or to a dance), and guys, if you could share how you'd like to be asked, that would be great. Also, none of these guys are romantically involved with me in any way. Also, if you can think of cute ways to do my hair or other dance tips/tricks (i've never been to a dance, really.) then I'd really appreciate it. Thank you so much, and I look forward to hearing back from you soon. :)

Oh, and also, should I ask a freshman (I'm a freshman) or an upperclassman?

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coping


Posted Monday January 23 2006, 12:01 am

As all great stories begin, mine starts the same way... There's this girl. Well anyway there's this girl I work with that I like but I know I can't have. She's really beautiful and cool, so I'm not suprised that she has a great bf that she absolutely loves. They live together and all, so I know I have pretty much zero chance with her. I guess I just like her most b/c she's cool. I guess my question is not "How can I be a homewrecker or How can I be a knight in shining armor?" It's more like "What can I do to get her out of my head?" I know she likes the other guy and all that shit. She likes me and everything, but only as a friend. Don't you hate that phrase? Oh well, I don't care if this doesn't get put up or answered i...

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Does anybody have the cure for shyness?


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 11:04 pm

There is this guy that I really like, and I think he may like me too, but my shyness is holding me back. I don't have any classes with him, so it's hard to just start up a casual conversation without sounding stupid. And none of my friends are his friends, so it isn't like I could casually join into a conversation. I wrote him a note once, but I didn't even have the guts to hand it to him myself, so I had my friend do it. I think Nick would like me more if I could show him that I'm not afraid to talk to him. I'm not really "afraid" of talking to him. I guess i'm just very nervous of what might happen because of it. (Like me sounding like a total dork) Any tips or anything...? lol, thanks!

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What do I do to gain his attention again?


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 10:08 pm

Before I begin, I'd just like to apologize in advance for this being a pretty long question thing. Anyways, there is this guy named Andrew. The attraction started in science class last year. Ironically enough, we were always assigned to sit next to eachother througout the whole school year. He'd flirt, I'd flirt...it was great. I can't say the same thing about this school year because I haven't even had ONE class with him. I still tried to keep going what we had last year by asking him to go to the Homecoming dance with me. He said yes but come the day of the dance, he was a no-show. He apologized later and he did look sincerely sorry so I moved on, and tried not to let people see how disapointed and sad I was. Later on in the year, he said...

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What to do about him....


Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 8:16 pm

I've liked this boy for a while and he knows it. I asked him to winter formal and he said yes and he got me a corsage and matched me and everything.
A day before formal, I saw that he had left this girl on myspace a comment on this picture of hers saying she was beautiful and stunning and gorgeous. She left him one back saying thanks and he said no problem took the words out of my heart. That REALLY scared me. That girl is a whore. She has a new BF every week and shes ugly.
So last night at formal me and this boy had a BLAST. We seriously freak danced the whole time and held hands and got really close and he didnt even dance with her or anyone else. Just me. He didn't even look at her dancing and she was right by us. He ev...

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