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ok so on friday, my freinds and i are going ice skating. i told this guy who i know and we flirt together all the time. I like him but I don't want a b/f right now... I just want to flirt. So, he is coming as well with his freinds and of course we are going to flirt like crazy. I'm just nervous because I don't want him to ask me out and then get turned off..AND I don't want him to go out with this rude snob that I hate. What should I do to prevent him to asking me out? If he does, what should I say?
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If this guy really does like you, then maybe if you play hard to get he'll like you even more... So, I suggest that you just say like "maybe," flirtatiously. Hope it works out for you!
**Bethany**
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hey, you just can prevent soemone from asking you out lol. but if he does just simply say i have to think about it. then the next day polietly tell him your not looking for a boy right now. hope i have helpe;d. anymore questions drop a message in my inbox. please rate. cait ♥
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Just when you guys are talking just say something like "Yeah.. I'm happy I don't have a boyfriend right now, I really want to wait a little while before I get a boyfriend". He shoudl get the hint that you are not interested in having a boyfriend. // ♥
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I mean no offense, but you're being a tease! You're giving this guy the wrong idea by flirting with him so much. I'm not saying that you can't flirt with him, I'm just saying that if you are going to do so you need to make sure that he knows you're not being serious about it. Trust me, what you're doing can really hurt, a guy did it to me before. Leading someone on is just about the cruelest thing you can ever do to them. Try to let him down really easy. You need to tell him nicely, to his face, when you're alone with him, and as soon as you can. The sooner the better because if he tells you that he likes you or asks you out before you tell him how you feel, it's going to hurt him even more. You don't want to break his heart more than you have to! As for the "rude snob", well, it's his choice who he dates. It would be the friend thing to do to talk to him about her and tell him how he shouldn't date her because you don't think she's a good person, but wait a few days after you let him know you don't want to date. If he does ask you out before you get a chance to tell him DO NOT say yes. If you do you'll regret it so much. It's about your happiness too, not just his. Don't sacrifice yourself just to not hurt his feelings. His feelings need to get hurt a little if you don't want to date him, that's just how life is. The downside of all of this is that he may get upset and not talk to you for awhile. It will definitely save you much more trouble than it will make though. I hope that everything works out well and good luck!
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hmm don't hang around him the whole time. flirt for a bit, go with your friends, come back & talk to him, go back with your friends, etc. if you're hanging around him the whole time then he'll probably get the idea to ask you out. also i think that guys don't like asking girls out in groups. if your friends are all there then he probably won't ask you out. if you guys are alone together a lot he probably will. if he does ask you out juss be honest er tell him you want to learn more about him.
-hope that helped!♥
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