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I need advice
How am I supposed to ask for advice if I dont know what my problem is. This is what happened to me a few weeks ago. I met this lady, a very brilliant, smart, sophisticated type of a woman.
She went out with me several times, we shared notes in our school work...she is a Physician Assistant student at University of Minnesota and am going for my masters in Mass Communication and Journalism.
After a few weeks, she started missing my phone calls, ignoring my phone calls and when I confronted her she asked me for money to pay a medical bill of 1,200.00.
What was she upto? I wondered!
So I asked her if she thinks we are heading anywhere with our relationship?
She said I was not her type....I was not light skin enough....I was tall enough and had the hair she liked but I was not light skin enough.
Should I bleach myself...cause I really care about her.....pleae advise. thanks...bye
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I honestly have to say, she's a gold digger. A vulture. A siren.
What you should do, is confront her (very nicely), and ask her, if she is shallow enough to believe skin color determines the relationship. You should also find out what the medical bill was for, because that's one hefty bill. Ask her for her opinion of the relationship, then tell yours. Don't bleach yourself, because any modification of the body has risks. If things are going the wrong way, you can then use the fact that she lead you on for money as a guilt trip. Use anything else that would make her see the wrongs of her ways. If you care about her, then you would try the best to see that she won't lead somebody else on.
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You should never EVER make drastic changes to yourself, just to please someone else.
Listen here, skin colour doesn't matter, it's probably an awful excuse she just said because she doesn't want to pursue a relationship with you. It also sounds like she just wanted to use you for your money.
So.. Ask her for your money back straight away. and please, to stop yourself getting hurt, forget about her. She already said you werent her type - so focus on getting over it and finding someone who loves you for YOU and doesn't want you to change.
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Are you insane? Is this a real question?
I mean, no, of course you shouldn't BLEACH yourself.
And you should also NOT pay her medical bills!
You aren't in a relationships with this vapid, gold digging, racist little bitch, and you should NEVER get into one with her.
She isn't smart, she's a judgmental freak, and she isn't sophisticated, she's a selfish whore.
How can you care about someone who ditches you, ignores you, tries to extort money from you, and then tells you that you aren't good enough for her because of the colour of your skin?! Seriously! That is a whole UNIVERSE of NOT OKAY behavoir.
If you need a woman to abuse you, hire a dominatrix. She'll be cheeper than this nasty piece of work.
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I don't think you should bleach yourself for her you shouldn't change yourself for anyone she is just
seeing your flaws and isn't accepting you for who you truely are i don't think things are meant to be
between you two seeing as she said you weren't her type that's bad news i don't think changing one thing about yourself is going to make her happy she
might not be satisfied you deserve someone better who will love you for you(:
Seems like she's using you to pay her medical bill
and isn't concerned about the relationship there's
other girls out there who will treat you better
then her you truely deserve better say if she isn't willing to accept you then you can't be in the relationship with her it's her loss
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haha not LIGHT SKIN ENOUGH? that sounds prejudice, stay away from her. and are you crazy? bleach your skin? dont even consider that. there are many people who would like you no matter what your skin color is. thats nonsense. And dont give her money. she doesnt deserve it, no matter what medical problem she has, she probably has a brain condition for saying something so dumb. Dont waste your time on people like that, life is short, you do not know when it will end, dont care about people who dont care about you.
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Ummm... run, fast, the other way. This chick is a user. She doesn't talk to you except to ask for money. Sounds like a classic chickenhead. You don't need to change a thing about you except the loser leech you've managed to hook up with. Sorry, I know you said you care for her, but she obviously does not care for you. Are you so lonely that you would settle for this treatment from someone who is supposed to care for you? Step away from this situation for a moment and objectively look at it. Is this what you think a good relationship looks like? You've been had, my friend. You can do better. You'll know you've found "the one" when she tells you you're perfect just the way you are. Don't settle for less, or you'll always regret it.
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