I've liked this boy for a while and he knows it. I asked him to winter formal and he said yes and he got me a corsage and matched me and everything.
A day before formal, I saw that he had left this girl on myspace a comment on this picture of hers saying she was beautiful and stunning and gorgeous. She left him one back saying thanks and he said no problem took the words out of my heart. That REALLY scared me. That girl is a whore. She has a new BF every week and shes ugly.
So last night at formal me and this boy had a BLAST. We seriously freak danced the whole time and held hands and got really close and he didnt even dance with her or anyone else. Just me. He didn't even look at her dancing and she was right by us. He even hugged me when it was time to go.
This morning I left him a comment on said that I had fun and thanked him for taking me and everything, he wrote me one back saying "yea i had fun" and that was IT.
SO does he like me or not? Am I wasting my time on him? I really wanna take things slow, but I dunno if I should even be liking him...
HELP!! I RATE SUPPPPER HIGH!!
Good points: He wouldn't have said yes to go with you in the first place if he didn't have some interest in you. Plus, he wouldn't have like held hands, and hugged you if he didn't like you at all. And he's a guy. Guy's don't usually leave long comments and stuff. But you should talk to him about it. I mean I know people are gonna tell you to talk to him, annd it might not be comfortable doing so, but if you really like him and think he's worth it than go for it.
Bad points: Maybe he isn't a typical guy. All guys I know leave short, to the point comments on Myspace's. But the stuff you said that he said about the other girl makes him sound like he's not that kind of guy. I would be a little weird about it if that's all he said back.
Jojo349199 answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 1:39 am: The answer to your question is a lot easier than you think. No... you are not wasting your time with him. He likes you, that is obvious. Also... you already know you like him so why worry about whether you should like him or not? You already do like him. The final question... are you going to get back together? Maybe... you already had a good time together and good times don't happen with everyone. This does not mean the relationship will go anywhere or last forever. The best thing you can do for yourself is to pay attention so you don't get caught by surprise. It could tke a long time before you really know what he is all about. Contact him again and ask him to if he wants to do something else. [ Jojo349199's advice column | Ask Jojo349199 A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Monday January 23 2006, 4:55 pm: ughhh myspace haha =) i had an issue with that too before but that's a different story. okay here's a tip. GUYS SAY ANYTHING. most guys anyway. even if they don't think the girls pretty & juss wanna be 'nice' & tell her how great looking she is, when she isnt!!!!! you can obviously tell you're way prettier than she is by the fact that he paid his attention to you at the dance but juss said it to her on myspace. don't worry shes ugly. anyways, i think you should talk to him about it. that's all you can really do but i think since you guys aren't actually "dating" he might not do anything about it. don't use all your attention on him. go out & meet new people & he'll come around if he wants to be with you & if not then you'll find someone else.
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