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Missing my "best friend"
Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up last friday. I miss her so much, I truly love this girl, my best friend. I feel hurt and at the same time confused, even though we have talked over the phone and even gone to the movies once since the break up 4 days ago. I dont know what to do, all i do is think about her and us, I cant believe its over, i seriously thought this was the "one" i was gonna spend my whole life with. Im done crying but sadness is all over me, I dont know how to deal with all of this. Ive been in many relationships, however, none were as serious as this one. I wanna call her so bad and be with her, i look at our pictures together and i get the need to cry. My question is, should i call her and tell her how much i love her and ask her to get back with me, or should i give it time and not call her for sometime in order to get my thoughts and feelings straight, and allow her the same opportunity?
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That depends on who broke up with who. If she broke up with you, I doubt it was a spur of the moment thing, especially considering how long you've been together. It's best to try and move on, and that may require spending some time apart from her. You need to heal before attempting a friendship.
If you broke up with her, go for it, but don't be expecting much, especially depending on why you broke up with her in the first place.
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Well don't know who broke if off, but if she did, did she give you a reson. give her a little space and give your self time to really sort u=out your feeling for her.Try and do stuff with your other firends and try not think about her. I know you want to call her and tell her how you fell but it might push her away even more. She might have done something and can't tell you. Just wait and maybe she's not the one for you.
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Im going to assume she broke up with you? (you failed to mention that) also did she give you a excuse why it was over? that would be helpful in answering your question. Putting myself in that same situation, I would call her. Life is to short to sit around wandering if that one phone call could of made the world of difference to you. Don't let her go without a fight. Now I'm not saying suffocate her. if she asks for space then give her that but also let her know how much she means to you.
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