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Friend vs. Crush
15/f
All right, so my friend, who is very shy, has never told somebody she likes him before. But just a few months ago, she decided to tell this one guy that she does like him. The only problem is, I liked him too. They flirted for a while, talked to each other on cell phones a lot, but all he did was confuse her, cuz even when she asked him out he rejected her. But he still flirted with her. Now, I sort of have the feeling that he likes me too. What should I do?
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I don't think that you should make a move on him because if he was being flity and still rejecting your friend then it is possible that he might be the same way to you. So maybe it would be smart if you let him make the move rather than you making a move on him and if he has been a jerk to you too then you can reject he so he can see how it feels because he rejected your firend and he still flirts with her. I Hope That It Works Out!!
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well. shes your friend and she told him first, unless you told her that you liked him before she told him she has dibbs, just suck it up for a while. friends should always come first, and if he's flirting with both of you like that hes prolly a major player anyway, no use wasting your friendship on a guy like that
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From what I gather this guy likes messing girls around, leading them on and then pretending nothing happened. I think he has a hard time figuring out what he wants which technically is his problem but if you try and get involved with him he might just mess you around like he did with your friend. Also I think you might want to look at things at a perspective. Even if it works out with you two you might fall out with your friend and while you are dating him it might not look like such a big deal. However nowadays most relationships are not forever whereas friendship is another matter and this experience might cost you more than you are willing to give up. If you still like him too much and you can’t get him out of your head I suggest you wait until things with your friend and him cool down, before you make your move.
I hope I helped!
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Well since you both like him you and your friend have to make him off limits. I mean remember you should never let a guy come between your relationship. If you do it will cause bad things happening. If he ever flirts you or asks you out reject it. No matter how much you like him. You friend is more important then just some boy. Anyway I hope I helped I'm REALLY sorry if I didn't.
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