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BDSM Culture Clash


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 11:10 am

So, my partner's parents/family have 'seen the bruises' and now think I'm some vest-wearing wifebeater and have 'warned me'.

How on earth do I tactfully explain what's really going on before I get the rozzers called on me?
I don't think they'll appreciate the honest truth about what their 'little princess' likes in bed somehow...

>.<

Awful and delicate situation, help!

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boys please help me!!!!!


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 10:37 am

first of all sorry this is so long!!!

i really like boys to answer this cause they know how other boys are thinking cause boys are a soo weird sometimes :-)

well i really really like this guy and uhm lets call him D :-) so i am a new kid in this school (i kinda really hate) but never mind that! uhm so i really often looked at D but not because i liked him or something just because he was interesting and always so funny and hyper so i think he took it like she loves me or something! and then once he talked to me and well then i started to like him but i was really shocked and answered weird when he asked me something and he was like: why are you so mean to me? so than he asked me if we should be friends or some...

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should we go back out??


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 9:49 am

ok i started dateing this guy and i thought we should just be friends ( because we just met like a week before that ) anyway he was fine with it.at school he still try's to hold my hand and stuff and he grabbed my ass too. i dont mind it but do you think me letting him do all this makes him think we are dateing again?? we went out the other night and someone asked me if he was my boyfriend and i didnt know what to say....is it stupid to ask him to be just friends with benefits because i would do stuff with him but i dont want a boyfriend???? ill rate high

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sooo CONFUSED


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 9:44 am

I have a hugeeee crush on my best friend. Here's the problem--he wants to be a priest. Hes never had a gf(ive never had a bf either) he says he would date girls, and hes prob. telling me the truth. Ive liked him for about a year, and all my friends think he likes me. He told me that he would neverrrr go to a dance with a girl cus he hates dances, but i asked him to go to one and hes like "yah sure I'd love to"
We talk about how everyone thinks we like eachother. He has never denied not liking me. He always just finds some excuse to change the subject. If he likes me, how could I get him to tell me? DONT tell me to tell him i like him, i know that is an option, but i just wanna hear more. thanks in advance<3

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This one girl...


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 1:39 am

14/male

There's this girl I really like. We'll call her "B." I know some people said "true" love isn't real for teens, but I can feel that I love her. I have since I met her.

Well, she's a few years older than me, and she's dating this guy I haven't really enjoyed being around in the past. I wrote B a letter, but I signed it "Your Secret Admirer." It basically says stuff about how I love her, and things like that. But, I haven't had a chance to sneak it into her backpack or whatever.

The thing is, I think she might sorta like me, but I'm not sure. Should I sneak the letter into her backpack?

Thanks,

-Fyce



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MASTERbator...I mean...seriously a MASTER of the art :(


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 12:16 am

I am 23 years old, and am currently living with my 32 year old boyfriend of 1 year. Up to this point things seemed pretty great..but lately, since we got the internet and a computer in the apartment...I have had this icky feeling of distrust towards him. I notice that he goes to sites on a daily basis with nude women and porn, and gets emails from sites like...f**k buddies.com and what not. Now I know in his past he's had ALOT of women, so I feel a bit nervous and unsecure in the relationship, not to mention the porn/masterbation thing.

This is an issue that I am seriously bothered with. I find it disrespectful and hurtful, and take it VERY personally. I am not an ugly girl, but we all have our insecurities.

...

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ex and new boyfriends


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 11:31 pm

me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago. and i just got a new boyfriend a few days ago and i like him a lot. but my ex boyfriend called me lastnight and told me how much he wanted me back and missed me and i just dont know what to do. he treated me bad but i still love him and care about him and dont know if i should be with my current boyfriend. being held by him just doesnt feel the same but i know if i go back to my old boyfriend that nothing will change. can somebody please lemme know what to do?

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KISSING :x


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 10:59 pm

I just got a great new boyfriend. But I'm totally afraid to kiss him because I've never kissed anyone before and everyone's like you'll know how to do and stuff but srsly, I don't know if I go on the top lip, bottom lip, what? I'm so confused. And also, how can I not have bad breath while making out with him? It seems no matter how hard I brush my teeth and stuff I always seem to have bad breath!!! Gum solves the problem but i cant have gum when I make out. Please help, thanks. Love, Chels.

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how do i talk to him


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 10:40 pm

me and my boyfriend get along great we hav alot of similar interests but we only really talk about his stuff when were chatting on the computer... i embaress myself around him like randomly start talking to myself...dnt ask me why... i just got nervous. anyways i dont want him to lose interest in me he told me today on msn that he wanted a girl that could "explain" herself, and not be shy around him. im afraid that if stop being shy that i will do something stupid and scare him off. does anyone have any ideas how to keep a converstation going without any awkward silences or weird moments... or what i should talk to him about....

thank-you.. i really apreaciate it
xoox
ill rate 5

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getting back with an ex


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 10:27 pm

Me and my boyfriend broke up. He broke up with me to go out with this one girl but we started talking again and the past 2 nights he has kissed me. He said he is confused and I want to get back with him. Would it be bad if I did?

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How Can I Be Sure?


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 9:15 pm

I need some advice! There is this guy i like: He's two years younger then me and we work togehter. We work almost every weekend together and i don't think he has a girlfriend. I've never really liked a younger guy, so i don't know what to expect and if he liked me back. Here are a few signs i have gotten:
-he looks at me a lot, for a long time as if he were lost, and when i ask what he will say something random like "i didn't know you were working today"

-he smiles at me a lot but doesn't talk to me as much as he does the other girls. When he does talk to me its about the most random things

-he will sometimes joke around with me, by telling me that im not working hard enough or something like t...

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Prom date


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 9:00 pm

Ok, so I really like this guy name trevor and i really want to ask him to prom cuz the odds are he wont. However, my classmate has asked 7 guys to prom already, being turned down by all of them, resulting in her being the talk of the school. My biggest fear is rejection, and if I get rejected, i dont want to end up like my classmate, being the talk of the school. Do u know of any other ways I could ask him or get him to ask me?

Much thanks

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jealousy


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 8:58 pm

ok i am going out with a guy a year younger than me and we r doing fine. Well his ex girlfriend hates me and we got in a HUGE fight and im sure she is still crazy about him. She is his age and he just says she's only jealous and nothing else. I really like this guy and i don't know what to do about his 'friend' his ex girlfriend that is.
14/ female
oxoxoxoxox
i RATE!!!!!

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Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 8:42 pm

My boyfriend and I have been going out for awhile. And we have a certain group of friends that we hang out with. The point is that he spends more time with my best friend than he spends with me. They both say that they could never do something like cheat behind my back. I trust them but sometimes I wonder if they really could be masking my eyes with their friendly words. How can I just get over this jealousy phase?

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Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 7:51 pm

I've been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months now. I feel really bad because in the beginning of our relationship I cheated on him. When I first started dating him I had already been dating another guy for about 3 weeks. When I realized how big of a stuck up liar my ex was and he broke up with me that was the end. And I was going to be completly honest. Time went on and nothing happened in our relationship. I get a feeling that he's playing a game with me and I don't matter to him. We've been dating for 4 months and I don't feel the way about him I've felt with all my other ex's after 4 months. I'm not sure if it is because I don't talk to him as much as I talked to my ex's or what...but I feel like somethings going on. Part of ...

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Boys


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 7:40 pm

There is this boy I know. I think he likes me because he made me a CD. He has come to all my parties, so I really think he does. He is sorta shy, so I cant really tell. What are some ways that I can get him to fall for me and tell me? Or what are some ways to tell he likes me for sure??? Thanks! 5's for good advice!

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this doesnt make sense


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 7:32 pm

Ok so im 15 and i have this friend and she is amazing and we r great friends and she has a bf that she rarely sees or talks to..several times ive asked her to simply hang out and like watch a movie or play pool..and she says no cuz she has a bf..ive talked to 10 other girls including my 19 year old sister and every 1 sed that is really messed up...what should i do?

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Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 7:31 pm

this may sound dumb, but i have a crush on this kid that i never meet. I see him everywhere and we kind of exchange looks, but i dont know if he notices me or i just want him to. He friends with a few of my friends, but how can i talk to him without making an akward, or embarissing situation?

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would this be a good song to send to someone?


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 7:15 pm

Hi. I'm a 15 year old guy and i like this girl alot..we are very close friends but i want to be more with her....the problem is she has a boyfriend that she rarely sees and he isnt a "good egg"...and i would like to send her the link to the song broken by seether..if you think it would be a good idea let me know..and we went out 2 times already but it was 2 years ago and i tried to move on but i cant get over her...Tell me what you think...Thanks

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How do you know?


Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 7:03 pm

what makes you think he likes me? i just don't see how you think he likes me, not that i don't want him to, just any advice of where you thought he liked me would be helpful, thanx.

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