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How Can I Be Sure?


Question Posted Tuesday March 28 2006, 9:15 pm

I need some advice! There is this guy i like: He's two years younger then me and we work togehter. We work almost every weekend together and i don't think he has a girlfriend. I've never really liked a younger guy, so i don't know what to expect and if he liked me back. Here are a few signs i have gotten:
-he looks at me a lot, for a long time as if he were lost, and when i ask what he will say something random like "i didn't know you were working today"

-he smiles at me a lot but doesn't talk to me as much as he does the other girls. When he does talk to me its about the most random things

-he will sometimes joke around with me, by telling me that im not working hard enough or something like that.

-the other day he grabbed by stomach from behind and scared the hell out of me, he laughed and walked away. I didn't know what that ment?

-Sometimes his parents will come through my cash(were cashiers at a supermarket) and his mom will always adress me by name and is always smiling (although she is a friendly woman)

-and when my parents go through his cash he gets really nervous and never really looks at my parents.

I don't know if any of these signs can really tell if he likes me or not, but some honest advice would be greatly appreciated, Thanks in advance


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jeff answered Friday March 31 2006, 4:44 pm:
Id say that minor physical contact is one form of showing affection.
Depending if you had met his parents outside of work, them knowing your name is a bit of a sign that he talks about you at home.
Men rarely feel comfortable around a girls parents, possibly due to the steritypical "you're not good enough for my daughter" coming from the dads.

J

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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday March 28 2006, 11:53 pm:
Nobody knows all of the signs of whether someone likes you or not. But, those seem to be a few good signs of him maybe liking you. Especially if you find that he's doing only these things to you and not anyone else.

What I think you should do is wait until something happens. Until the signs are a little bigger and noticable to the people around you. When someone makes a comment about him liking you, thats a bigger sign. For now, just work and have fun just working with him. See if you can get a conversation going and try seeing if theres a way to hint around for you both to hang out outside of work.

Theres not a lot of difference to expect in dating younger guys. It's like dating anyone else older.

-TheTeenGirl

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