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MASTERbator...I mean...seriously a MASTER of the art :(
I am 23 years old, and am currently living with my 32 year old boyfriend of 1 year. Up to this point things seemed pretty great..but lately, since we got the internet and a computer in the apartment...I have had this icky feeling of distrust towards him. I notice that he goes to sites on a daily basis with nude women and porn, and gets emails from sites like...f**k buddies.com and what not. Now I know in his past he's had ALOT of women, so I feel a bit nervous and unsecure in the relationship, not to mention the porn/masterbation thing.
This is an issue that I am seriously bothered with. I find it disrespectful and hurtful, and take it VERY personally. I am not an ugly girl, but we all have our insecurities.
I think what really has set me off is that lately he has been snoring...ALOT (From weight gain..I think) and so he wakes me up often in the night. So I am up for hours at a time sometimes, and hear him talking in his sleep (yeah, I like it shaved, lick my nipple, etc.) and masterbating! I didn't say anything at first, but he does it EVERY night, regardless of whether or not we had sex (which is fantastic, by the way).
So this one small pebble in the sea has caused major ripples..and now I'm questioning the entire relathionship because I now feel a bit...well...disgusted and rejected by him. We are not sleeping in the same room since I confronted him, and I am having trouble getting past this, or even making him understand what is going on. Please help!
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