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so i got in trouble


Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 1:05 pm

19/f well on Friday i went to this auto shop, and the owner there started flirting with me, and i asked him if he could fix my car since it had some scratches and dents on it, he told me about this place across the street so i went there and got an estimate. I came back to the shop with that male manager who was hitting on me, and he started telling me how i had nice tits, and legs, and saying he wanted to buff me out. This was in his office and he's married (I saw the pictures) Well anyways i got offended and started yelling at him. Then i went home and looked up his number, and then we started talking on the phone and he said he wanted to have sex with me and for some reason i agreed. Well on Saturday i called him and told him i didn't wa...

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not real sure what he wants


Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 12:30 pm

kinda long!!
Hey guys, im 18/f and the guy i like is 17. Okay well last year right after my birthday he texts me.. Of course i didnt know who it was and everything, but i knew who he was. I was a senior and he was a sophomore. Well we started texting and even hung out a few times.. I started to really like him. I just broke up with my boyfriend of almost three years when me and him started "talking." We had sex a few times and I just really liked him. Well i fell for my ex again and got back together. Me and my ex are now apart again and me and Ky started talking again.
I messed up; I wanted to hang out this past weekend and told him to text me if he wasnt gonna do anything. Well I find out he went to taco bell with...

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am i a friend or not?


Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 1:41 am

okay i went to this awake-a-ton and meet this guy, hes 17 and im only 14. we got on great and were really open to each other. I only had known him for a day b4 he asked me for my home number msn, facebook ect. hes called several times and talks asthough he likes me.... the problem is he has a gf. he lives far away so im not sure what to do.... is it normal for a guy to call a girl/hug ect when he has a gf... how do i find out if he likes me .. without him thinking im a foulish teen ??

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Everytime I pee lately, my bladder stings afterwards? Blood?


Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 12:24 am

Everytime I pee lately, my bladder stings afterwards, and twice a tiny bit of blood has come out. Also, sometimes it feels like I have to pee a lot more than I actually do. Whats wrong!

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18/f, dating after abuse


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 11:08 pm

To make my love life over the course of high school short, 8th grade I dated a guy (for 6 months) who was an airhead. Freshman to sophomore year I dated a guy (1 year) who was mentally/physically abusive and also raped me. I should also mention he took my virginity. I ended sophomore year on a bad note of one night stands that were alcohol induced out of depression. I started junior year off by dating the same airhead from 8th grade until we ended it about 2 months ago (I'm now a senior).
I feel myself slipping back into what happened to me sophomore year (drunk hookups based off of my need for intimacy). Often guys that I'm friends with will ask why I hate hugs, hand holding, any form of touching. I can't stand to be touched by gu...

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Crazy ex?


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 10:55 pm

Today - My ex girlfriend decides to leave a box of all the things I've ever given her: Notes, a $55 dollar pair of shoes she never wore, birthday cards, etc. I don't know what to do about this - AND she's started hangning out with my bestfriend... I'm not sure what to do about her. And I don't want her to interfere with my and my bestfriends relationship of 8 years...What do I do?

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Stupid, Lovestruck Question


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 10:29 pm

There's this guy...(oh I can't believe I'm asking this)...and I really like him. And i've liked him for a looong time. And of course, we've never dated. There were serveral different rumors about him asking me out (of course, before I liked him) but that was quite a while ago. Anyways, my number one buddy has been telling me that she thinks he likes me. I don't know. But I wanna know.

How do you tell a 14 year old boy likes you?

-M:]

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precognitive dream


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 10:25 pm

so a week ago i had a nightmare that i walked to my boyfriends house and there was a for sale sign and i was crying hysterically and i ended up waking up crying. it was so realistic and like it really like shook me up. today, my boyfriend called me and told me that he just found out that hes moving and theres gonna be a for sale sign up tomorrow. how the HELLLL did that happen?!!! i just wanna know like if im psychic or something haha. or why that happened. and how. im freaked out lol

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So what are the chances that i could be pregnant?


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 8:58 pm

So About two or three weeks ago me and my boyfriend were fooling atound in my room. Well he was rubbing his dick around my vagina. But thats all he did. But he had precum on his dock and he said he got it all off. Then he did that again. But its april 26 and im supposed to get my period tomorrow april 27. And im nervous. But my period is irregular. So what are the chances that i could be pregnant? Thannks in advanced

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Why hasn't he called for two days? Helllppp!


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 8:11 pm

So, for those that didn't read my previous question, it might be a good idea.
But basically, I dated this guy two years ago. I was 16 going on 17 and he was 17 just turning 18. We had a good relationship. Dated 6-7 months. I don't know if I loved him or not..but I definitely had strong feelings for him.

So, I broke up with him because lack of communication and we were fighting basically for three weeks. And afterwards, I told him how I shouldn't have made such a rash decision and I told him how I felt...three times since we've broken up. And three times I've been rejected or given bullshit answers.

ANYWAYS, that's the short story and like I said, reading my previous question would be a good thing. :) AND...

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pre-cum after the first ejaculation


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 7:54 pm

Can a guy pre-cum after the first ejaculation? Like for example if we have sex and he ejaculates, and then gets hard for a second time, can he still pre-cum for that second time before the second ejaculation?

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things aren't right


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 7:28 pm

18/male
i guess i woould start by saying lately i feel like shit. my head just doesn't feel right and by not right i mean i feel like i just did drugs.(i don't do drugs unless perscribed by a doctor) I can't coordinate myself quite right. Just typing this is hard. and either i sleep to much or i can't sleep at all. I used to love playing video games and hanging with my friends, but i just don't feel like doing it anymore. last time i was at the doctors they said i was healthy. I don't know does anybody know about why i may be feeling this way?

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A life of dieting


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 7:22 pm

i was anorexic. i then suffered from BED (binge eating disorder). the doctor explained to me that it was because my body was trying to "restore" all the nutrients it had lost. when i was anorexic, i lost about 30 pounds. Then, i gained about 15 back total, and i felt really good. that was my ideal weight, told by how my body felt, the doctors, and my bmi. i was put on birth control because i lost my period and with the birth control i gained 15 pounds more! right back where i started :(.... the issue is that I gained it purely because of the pills. I eat VERY healthy and exercise every day. the doctor explained to me that it was a shock to my body because it had such little hormones and this was like excess to it. but, now i'm try...

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College Student Living at Home


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 6:45 pm

19/f
I was going to go away for college until I found out the day after I graduated that I was adopted. I decided I wanted to stay home for a little while. I do not attend community college or junior college. I am in the university. So, there are dorms. As of right now, I am living at home. I live with my mother and my grandparents. Although I love them very much, there are some issues with living with them. For one, my grandparents are older and this IS their home. They have their habits, which I cannot break. For one, my aunt (who lives across the street) comes here EVERY NIGHT to watch soap operas with my grandmother. They are not in a private room watching these quietly. They watch it VERY LOUD in the living room.

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Do you think he feels the same?


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 6:01 pm

I like this kid and I feel like he likes me but I've never had a boyfriend so I could be wrong. When I walked in the cafeteria the first few weeks of the second quarter he looked at me until I walked to my table which was behind him, so I would break the stare. I feel like he looks at me a lot when he sees me. My friend and I stay after to work on a project for a class we have together and he would come into the library and she said he was looking at me the whole time but I don't know if he was or not because he was clear across the Library. He's supposedly a very outgoing guy, he has a lot of friends that are girls. Do you think he's kinda liking me or at least thinking I'm attractive? If you think so why won't he talk to me if he's so outgoing? Thanks!

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When can I take a test to find out if I am pregnant?


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 6:00 pm

Ok so stupidly me and my boyfriend had sex whilst on my period (obviously it was in the time i wasnt taking birth control pills) Ive looked online and im worrying because I saw that the birth control pill can kill a baby when your pregnany, seriously harm it or cause miscariages.

What if I am pregnant? We only had sex 2 days ago so I wont be able to take a pregnacy test but If I am pregnant I dont want to harm the baby. Im meant to be taking the pill starting today.. I dont know what to do. Should I stay off it until I take a test? I am still on my period atm and the only thing that makes me stop my period is the pill. I dont know when I can take a test to find out... does anybody know?

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3 year anniversary


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 5:04 pm

f/17 and m/20. okay so it's my fiance and i's 3 year anniversary in september. i'm low on cash right now but i'll have enough money by then but the problem is i don't have any ideas on what to get him. i've done the photo album and a huge blanket. i really want to get him something that has the date we first started going out. i can't do bracelets because his sister and brother-in-law did that for their anniversary except they have their names and their kids' names. anything at all would be helpful. thanks!

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major teen problems


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 4:55 pm

I was so happy at one point,I had found my first boyfriend and we were so happy and had so much fun.He broke up with me over a month ago ,because he apparently just stopped liking me as much but told me im the first girl he's ever loved and first girl he's really had feelings for (all his friends told me this was true and he'd never been in a serious relationship either).Ofcourse since i had no idea he was going to do this,I was devastated. We began talking and hanging out all the time and stuff but he just doesn't want to get back together and told me that every time we're together he feels like he hurts me because he knows i want more than just a friendship with him and that i always talk about when we were dating etc.I lied to his face a...

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roommates.


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 4:47 pm

so my best friend and i are going to be going to the same college in the fall. i never really wanted this to happen, but i got wait listed at my first choice so this was one of my only options. she had been switching back and forth between commuting and dorming, and she finally chose dorming. i was always set on dorming just because i want that experience. now...she says she wants to room with me. i love my best friend to death, but i don't know if this is a good idea. hopefully we would get a suite so i would share a room with her and then have 4 other girls in 2 other rooms in the suite, but still. she says she would go home a lot and everything.

i don't know what to do. part of me would love to room with her and other gir...

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We can't communicate!


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 3:41 pm

My husband and I are just not communicating properly. We've been married for 12 years. HE's from Holland, I'm Canadian...that's been a cultural issue in the past. We get frustrated easily with each other. We were both the youngest in our families...if that makes a difference. Our kids don't see us comprimise, figure out problems together or work together very often at all and I'm afraid we won't teach them how to do those things properly for their future. Where do we begin?

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