19/f well on Friday i went to this auto shop, and the owner there started flirting with me, and i asked him if he could fix my car since it had some scratches and dents on it, he told me about this place across the street so i went there and got an estimate. I came back to the shop with that male manager who was hitting on me, and he started telling me how i had nice tits, and legs, and saying he wanted to buff me out. This was in his office and he's married (I saw the pictures) Well anyways i got offended and started yelling at him. Then i went home and looked up his number, and then we started talking on the phone and he said he wanted to have sex with me and for some reason i agreed. Well on Saturday i called him and told him i didn't want to have sex with him, and then he said that's fine but not to call him after 6. Well the next day i did on accident because i didn't recognize the number on my phone and then i got scared and yesterday i got a call from him and he was asking me why i called him. I told him it was on accident, and then we started talking, and then he said to hold on but my arm got tired, so i hung up on him. HE called me back and started yelling at me telling me that we needed to keep a professional relationship and then i told him off, and he said he was going to file a police report. i got scared and called him again and told him not, but he said he already did. About 10 minutes later i get a call from Harris County police department and the lady was asking me why i was calling him. And i told her kind of what happened, and then she said she was going to send a police officer over, but i left my house and went to school. There i go t another call from a deputy saying that the manager of that auto shop filed police report and wasn't going to press charges because he doesn't want me to get into trouble, but he is serious about it. And that was my warning, so after that i never called him. Well my question is could i get into more trouble? i am very frightened because if my parents found out i would get kicked out. And also how long will this police report stay on file? I know that guy did this be cause he's mad just cause i wouldn't have sex with him. So yeah i don't know what to do and i am very scared please help!
Additional info, added Tuesday April 27 2010, 1:08 pm: I feel very bad about what happened and i know i shouldn't have called that guy so please don't tell me how dumb i am because i know what i did was wrong. . Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? DearAbby92 answered Tuesday April 27 2010, 10:50 pm: It's ridiculous that he would file a police report on YOU. People like that disgust me. He was probably afraid you would spill his secret to his wife and wanted to scare you into not calling. If no charges are pressed I don't think a police report will harm you, most employers won't see that.
You could file a sexual harrassment report or report his business for unproffesional behavior. Honestly, I think you would be better off letting this go. I don't think he will bother you anymore.
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