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boys..
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 3:52 pm
well there is this kid.. that i used to like.. and i think he used to like me.. well a little bit because he flirts with me all the time.. still does but he had a girlfriend all this time.. so im not sure if we are friends.. bc he talks to me..sits with me on the bus and stuff..but some days he doesnt even talk to me.. so im not sure how to view the sitation..its really complicated i dont get it guys are so retarded! and.. also i was wondering..how you can get a guy to notice you..like i think i like this guy..but i dont know his name.. i just see him in the hallways and stuff and hes older than me but i was wondering how i could get his attention... thx for the help
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Help me from my world shattering
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 3:32 pm
i'm 15. almost 16. my special someone is 17. almost 18. our birthday are in the next two months. where I live it's ilegal for a 18 yr. old to date anyone under the age of 16 and i'm not quite there yet. but we've agreed we're not going to let that stop us. my mom doesn't let me go out with him because last week she decided that he's a loser because he droped out of school. and she thinks he's too old for me. my someone and i have been together for 8 months and i would do anything for him and we have a undying love for each other. but it's getting so hard and now he's listening to peoples opinions and wants to break up with me because he doesn't want to try anymore. i know i could have tried more instead of trying to find someone else. but n...
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after 8 months we're breaking up
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 2:58 pm
i'm 15. almost 16. my special someone is 17. almost 18. our birthday are in the next two months. where I live it's ilegal for a 18 yr. old to date anyone under the age of 16 and i'm not quite there yet. but we've agreed we're not going to let that stop us. my mom doesn't let me go out with him because last week she decided that he's a loser because he droped out of school. and she thinks he's too old for me. my someone and i have been together for 8 months and i would do anything for him and we have a undying love for each other. but it's getting so hard and now he's listening to peoples opinions and wants to break up with me because he doesn't want to try anymore. i know i could have tried more instead of trying to find someone else. but n...
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break up-ish
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 2:41 pm
what is the best way to tell someone that you do not want to be thier girlfriend anymore, but that you still would like to communicate with them, remain friends, ect? it's just that our relationship has never really been more than "just friends," except that we've been calling ourselves a couple... as in he doesn't pay for me, touch me unless he has to, ect. And I would like to have to opportunity to see other people if it comes up. So my question is how do I go about telling him this without him being upset or thinking that just because I don't want to be his "girlfriend" that I never want to communicate with him again? 16/f, if it helps. :) fives for everyone :)
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boyfriend problems
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 1:50 pm
ok so i have this boyfriend. He's awsome and we have been dating for about 6 months.a few nights ago he called me and told me that he was going to be gone for a week. Well he was gone for 6 days and when he got back we were having sex. I noticed a bruise on his stomache. At first i ddin't care but then i got closer and it turned out to be a hickey. i didn't say anything at the time though. THe next day we went to the movies but in the middle of the movies he got a call. When he came back he told me it was a call from his brother. I checked his phone after the movies and it was to a girl named mindy. Two days later i called his house and a girl in the background was screaming his name like in a sexual way! is he cheatin on me??? wat should ...
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please help me
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 1:44 pm
has it ever happend to you that in four and a half years two of your exboyfriends are so shy and your current one is as well?? wel thats what is happening to me at the momment. look, my boyfriend is really cute and sproty and is the mosy populer boy in the class and he is sooooo shy. he hasnt even kissed me or atleast hold my hand. all he says to me is 'no you did that question wrong'or'im sorry'or'you s**ty head'. the only thing that melts me down is 'i miss you'or 'i love you'
i really dont want to dump him so what should i do
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My boyfriend and I are breaking up after 8 months.
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 1:03 pm
I'm almost 16. I had a wonderful boyfriend of 8 months. We have been through everything and survived it all. & now he's sick of trying. I need to show him that we can do this, forever. I'll give lots more details if you want to help. Please don't reply if you're just going to tell me to move on.
-Gabohh
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Dating a recently seperated man...
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 4:40 am
I have been seeing a 31 year old recently (about 6 months ago) seperated guy. This guy is great and I am finding myself falling for him. We have a strong sexual chemistry and i cant stop thinking about him ...
He seems to feel the same.
Problem: He was married , has 2 kids (2 and 4) and his wife cheated on him. He sought counselling at the time with her, however she was adament that there was to be no reconcilliation.
He continued to see a therapist up until we met about 2 months ago...
He still contacts his wife weekly to see his children once a fortnight...
Im worried i am just a rebound??? I really see myself falling for this guy...
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am i too old for this
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 2:29 am
I will try to make this as simple as possible. Im a 42 yo male, however I do not feel like it nor do I look like it or act like it. Most all my friends are 20-25, I can hang with them and act just as crazy( with out being ingnorant) but I can also be the adult when I have to be. My question: Is it wrong for me to enjoy the company of the younger crowd, meaning, I am attracted to a 20yo female, Im not like some sexual preditor chasing/hunting down the teen hotties, Im just more attracted to them.Part of me feels totaly wrong for having these feelings.Give it to me strait and tell me how terrible I am. Sincerly mndfrk
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How to go about telling a girl how I feel
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 1:04 am
Hello, just wondering how I should go about telling a girl how I feel about her. I am semi-overweight and not really that confident yet. I just want to give it a shot anyway whether it ever happens or not. I have known her for a while so it's not just some random pretty girl that I've never talked to.
I was think about sending roses and etc. with a secret admirer message...would a girl like that? Just looking for some advice on how to handle this..
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bleeding
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 12:20 am
ok this may sound slutty, but im defiantly not slutty!
Ok so for some odd reason i bleed when my boyfriend fingers me... and then the other day we had sex for the first time and i barely bled.... so why do you think i bleed everytime he fingers me..?
any advice would help.
kthx. :)
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how do i get over her?
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 11:44 pm
ijust broke up with ny girlfriend 1 month ago im aboutto be 20 and she took all my friends with her and even worse she goes out telling everyone that i was the worst that i took advantage of her that i never appreciated her when in the end ill do everything to keep her happy and all she would do is complain now she moved out of her parents house and is not doing anything with her life and i feel bad because this was the girl i wanted to maryry now im left with a brokenheart and regret i need someones help im really depressed i know every one says ill move on but it doesnt seem that way so far because i knew for sure that she was was my soulmate but in the end i turned to be wrong she was too high maintenece i though it was normal but well im hoping someone can help
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Effram and Amy
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 10:44 pm
ok, so if anyone watches Everwood, then this may sound familiar to you. If not, then i will give some overview. effram came to Amy's school and then they liked each other and then they didnt and then they didnt and then they didnt and o on so forth... now, he likes her but she doesnt like him. I have recently found a very familiar pattern with my life. Except this time, i liek him and he doesnt like me.
I dont know what to do. I will like him for a week or so, and then he will act funny or do soemthing out of character and iw illtalk to my friend about it and decide i dont like him anymore, and then a week later i will hang out with him and totally love him again. Its soo confusing, my friends are getting annoyed with my swingng app...
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it so different.
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 8:29 pm
okay well me and this kid we'll call him bob. well we started talking about a month & a half ago. and we really hit it off. we hung out and started liking eachother like right away. he really liked me and i liked him but it like seemed to change. we went out and it started to seem like i was liking him more. and then we broke up after a week. and then the week after that we went out and then broke up again. so we stayed friends & we still acted like we were going out and kissed all the time and crap. so on friday i asked him who he liked and he said this girl named sarah. so on friday i was with him and he kissed me and i was okay with it but then i started to feel akward and hes like why do you keep pulling back and i wouldnt tell ...
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Should I Move On?
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 8:26 pm
A guy that I'm friends with and hoping will be my bf one day keeps giving me mixed signals. One day he'll be sweet and attentive and tell me things I want to hear; and the next he's mean and cold. For example; one day he told me that he wanted to be with me and hoped I wouldnt marry someone else. Then another day he sarcastically told me I needed a man in my life. He can also make some rude comments about women in general; like "women always need attentiong"; and that men are smarter than woman. One day I took him to play tennis and the whole time he critized me. Everyone tells me I can do better but I feel I really love him. Even with all his faults he's still really sweet sometimes- once he gave me his computer and desk a...
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Guy problems
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 7:52 pm
well theres this guy i sorta like. but my friends really dont like him. and im embarrased to go out with him or what ever. i dunno what to do cus i cant stop likeing him!
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i wanted to know if I could get pregnate from this
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 7:07 pm
me and my boyfriend fool around alot... I keep my pants on most the time and he stays in his boxers most the time... but say he's in his boxers he cums and my pants get all wet could I get pregnate...
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what's sexy?
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 7:01 pm
I kinda want guys to answer this question, because they would know this kind of stuff. What makes a girl sexy?
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is that really the reason we broke up?
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 6:42 pm
ok this may get confusing so i'll try to put it simply ok
me and my ex also one of my best friends went out for 1 month then he broke up with me he says he did because he just saw me as a friend.i don't know if i really believe him this is the kind of realationship we had.
We talked on the phone like everyday for hours.
and we would always meet like every night(he lived behind me)anyway he seemed as though he liked me he would always put his arms around me and hold my hand and i truly thoght he liked me and i really loved him and i know i loved him because i don't say i love you unless i mean it and if a guy says it to me i'll be like thats good i know thats mean but hey can't lead them on anyway so i toldhim i ...
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im so confused about him !
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 6:26 pm
thers this guy i really lyk but my friends HATE him i dnt know why but they say tht i could do better but I LOVE HIM not anyother guy. i noe he lyks me bak but i dnt wanna be his girlfriend i just wanna be friends with benifets lyk we are but i hate the fact tht my friends cant stand him so how should i tell them tht its my life nd to stay out of it in a nice way ?
thnx !!
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