Though mentally speaking... Sexiness is probably 90% personallity. The image a guy builds of you in his mind determines how sexy he thinks you are. That can be based on how well he knows you or what he thinks of the way you look. Make sure that guys fall in love with the real you.
Girls who are actually "sexy", I believe, are the ones that leave the guy wanting more. (that was told to me by a friend of mine) ...If that makes any sense... Don't worry about being sexy to all guys, because the guy that really loves and cares for you will find you sexy just the way you are.
If you have a bf, do things for him. Let him know that you love him with little reminders, thoughts, notes, and other things. That might not seem in the general definition of "sexy" but if the guy loves you, he will see you that way. Guys like to be thought of by their gf. And attention is a really big turn on for many guys.
So called "sexy clothes" (revealing clothes) don't do much for you besides make guys see you as an object. It's far better to dress sexy for a guy you care about and who cares about you rather than to dress sexy just to get attention from guys.
askmeimaguy answered Monday May 29 2006, 10:14 pm: ok depends on how old you are if your like in 6 or 7 grade what makes you hot or sexy is boobs pretty much you go up to any kid in 6 or 7 their eyes go straight to you know where but in like 8-about 10 it would be about more of the smile and less of the chest 11 through ever its basically a good personality so what is sexy for most is modest dont ever go over board on the clevage than guys will think you are trying way too hard and wont go for you a little bit or none whatever your comfortable with so yeah it pretty much varies throughout the age groups [ askmeimaguy's advice column | Ask askmeimaguy A Question ]
loves2shop86 answered Monday May 29 2006, 9:36 pm: hey! well i know i'm not a guy but since this website has a lot more girls than guys on it, i don't know if you'll get an answer. but i've had this conversation with many guys in the past and they all say the same thing... confidence makes a girl sexy. you can be the most gorgeous girl in the world, but if you are not comfortable with yourself, then that's not sexy. on the other hand, an average looking girl is sexy if she is confident in herself and what she has to offer! that attracts guys because let's face it... if you DON'T think you are good and have NO confidence, guys will think "why should i even give her a chance? what's good about her? there must be nothing special if she doesn't even like what she has to offer." hope that helps... you don't have to rate since i'm not a guy and that's what you wanted haha :) [ loves2shop86's advice column | Ask loves2shop86 A Question ]
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