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okay well me and this kid we'll call him bob. well we started talking about a month & a half ago. and we really hit it off. we hung out and started liking eachother like right away. he really liked me and i liked him but it like seemed to change. we went out and it started to seem like i was liking him more. and then we broke up after a week. and then the week after that we went out and then broke up again. so we stayed friends & we still acted like we were going out and kissed all the time and crap. so on friday i asked him who he liked and he said this girl named sarah. so on friday i was with him and he kissed me and i was okay with it but then i started to feel akward and hes like why do you keep pulling back and i wouldnt tell him and then i finally did but it came out totally wrong. i said that he was leading me but i didnt mean it like that, so now hes mad at me and i tried to explain to him it was cause he liked that girl but then he goes i told her yesterday i didnt like her anymore and i did like you. so now i dont think he does anymore. and hes really not talking to me. & he like took my out of his top 8 on myspace and everything. so basically i just need to know what to say to him. please help me. im super sorry its really long. ill rate all 5's. thanks<3
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well then.. myspace is dumb just to tell you all it does is creat drama. there's some pretty important people that are in my life that aren't even on my top eight.. me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months and he's not even on my top eight.. so don't get all eww about that one.. he's just trying to make you feel bad
if you really like him.. write him an email and just spill your heart out girl. tell him WHY you like him and HOW MUCH. tell him WHAT he does that makes you feel this why. tell him since WHEN you've felt this way. and tell him HOW bad you want to fix the problem... if he doesn't listen then he's just another dumb boy.. im sorry.
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I'm not entirely sure that you owe this guy an explanation at all, to be honest because from my perspective, you haven't done anything wrong.
I am finding it difficult to understand how it is that he doesn't want to actually go out with you but is happy to treat you as his girlfriend. It sounds to me as though he is just keeping one foot on the boat and one on the dock, which certainly wouldn't be good enough for most women. To then tell you that he liked another girl implies that he is considering going out with someone else while still acting like your boyfriend, which is appalling!
By all means, if you want to speak to him about what you said then do but make it clear that you every right to feel upset about the situation with the other girl. However, if you did say something bad to him, apologise for that. Also explain to him that you wouldn't have reacted the way you did if you knew where you stood. Are you just friends that kiss? Is he just spending all this time with you until 'someone better comes along'? Does he really like you? Is he under the impression you are in fact a couple again? You have a right to know the answers to these questions and I really don't think you should be kissing him until he is prepared to give you some answers. If he's just making use of you or just wants to kiss you without making you his girlfriend then you really ought to get rid of him once and for all because you can do a lot better.
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Talk to him. Put it from his point of view. I mean do you honestly think he wouldn't think the same if he were in your shoes? I would of felt the same. I really don't think you have any reason to feel bad. He should of told you he didn't like her because for all you knew he was using you. Explain that, tell him you really like him and want to go out and your sorry there was a misunderstanding. Good Luck!
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Maybe you should just talk to him about how you felt. I'm sure he will understand.
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