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i need to open up
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 12:36 pm
Ok I am a 17 year old male and I have had 3 serious girlfriends, but recently I have had major problems talking to any girls at all. Every time i see a girl that i am interested in i either freeze up or pretend they arent there. its starting to get so bad that i just want to stay in my house and ignore everything.please help me
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confused.
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 11:33 am
ok so i may sound stupid, but here it goes.
there is this kid on my Cross Country team who is AMAZING! he is extremely cute, athletic, and nice. buttttttt he's a junior and i'm only a freshman, and my selfesteme is low to begin with, so it's like why would he ever notice me.
i'm thinking it's just a dream crush.
i am in a semi relationship now (we aren't like going out yet until school starts and we know whats going on) and i REALLLYYYYY really care about him. but whenever i see the other guy i just melt. ahh what do i do?
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me bob n joe
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 11:31 am
me n bob went out for 2 months and i was head over heals with him. then he broke up with me for what he said was personall issues. two days after we broke up everyone was telling me he liked another girl. i stopped talking to him then after school ended me n him started talking again we were on n off the whole summer. towards the end of the summer he stopped talking to that other girl and just to me. we were still always on n off but we always said we loved eachother and i do love him. but on friday my birthday weekened [[ my birthday being sunday ]] he asked me about this guy i kissed over the summer. he got really mad at me and i was completly misrable my WHOLE weekened. i seriousely like made myself sick. then on my birthday we were cool...
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Love problems
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 1:38 am
im a female thats 14.I know a guy named robert that I knew since 4th grade.He's my bestfriend and I really care about him.Near the beginning of 5th grade I found out from one of his friends that he really likes me.Robert didnt know his friend told me and he didnt want me to know...yet.I just acted like I never knew he liked me and nothing changed.
A year later robert and i got to go to the same m-school,and we started to hang around more.robert was really shy for some reason and people started to tease for that.I stuck up for him and people stopped cause i was one of those people that every one called `popular`.he started to like me even more and he finally got the courage to ask me out.I said yes cause i started to like him ...
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How do I move on from this break up?
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 12:08 am
I just got out of a 5 1/2 year relationship (we were engaged) in July and I'm finding it very hard to deal with.
I left him because after a while, I realized that it was more of a friendship. I love him very much but I guess I'm just not in love with him anymore. I didn't feel that SPARK or that passion.
He was my best friend for so many years and I guess a part of me just wishes I felt the same as him. I know he loves me and is in love with me and it breaks my heart to hurt him this way.
Sometimes, I just feel like running back to him because I want so badly to just take away his pain and make everything better but I know it wouldn't be fair to do that.
I just don't know how to de...
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Cant stop thinking about him
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 11:04 pm
Please help me out.
I love this guy I really do. I care more about him than anyone else and I thought he felt the same about me. We broke up a while ago for a very silly reason.
Cause i didnt tell him which mall i was going to with my friend(which is a girl). He is a very jealouse guy, and i know thats bad but i love him and i dont care.
We have always been able to work things out but that time we couldnt. He got to mad and he yelled at me so i hung up on him. ONe thing led to another and we broke up. I called him and it seemed as if he wanted nothing to fo with me but i know thats not true I know him more than anybody does.
I was with him for two years. And I cant move on. He got anoth...
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Fear
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 10:28 pm
A few days ago my boyfriend of a year and a half and I broke up. We got back together the next day. The break up was sort of mutual but I initiated getting back together and wanted it more I think. Things are going a lot better now I think, it seems like a fight we needed to have. When I’m with him now I’m quite relaxed and comfortable but the problem is when he isn’t around I’m completely terrified.
I’m terrified he is going to dump me again, that he doesn’t love me, and that I bullied him into taking me back and the problems I thought we had, the ones we are working to solve, weren’t the core problems and he’ll still be unhappy and leave me.
I can’t sleep, I feel sick to my stomach nearly al...
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besties and my ex!
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 10:02 pm
OK my best friend is going out with my ex and i think i still have feelings for him. They are trying to help me through it but nothing is working. Can you help me?
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When's the earliest you can have an abortion?
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 9:30 pm
What is the earliest time you can get an abortion? If fertilization happened a month or so ago, when's the soonest an abortion would be possible?
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break up
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 7:26 pm
Well I started dating this guy and we've only been dating 4 like 2 weeks but we talk less now than we did b4 we started going out and I hardly ever see him..and then theres this other guy I like and talk 2 like everyday and I see him more than my bf so I'm thinking about dumping the first guy 4 the 2nd one...but how do I let him down easy?? or should I just stay with him and see what happens??? Thanks!
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stuck in the middle
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 6:43 pm
ok.. well.. i have liked this guy for a while & i didnt know if he liked me.. well yesterday another boy i know asked me out and i said not now cuz i like someone else.. but i think hes sweet.. well this kid who ask me out really likes me and now i might like him a tiny bit but i like the other guy more.. well.. now the guy that i liked asked me out & i wanna go out with him so i said yes ..what should i do about the one that likes me?? what should i tell him??. by the way.. im only 13.. please help me!
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confused about some phrase everyone says about boys
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 5:44 pm
You know what they all say "When you give a guy all he wants, he gets bored quickly." What are some examples of that phrase? like what are you not supposed to give all he wants? I've been dying to know what they exactly mean by that.
Thx =)
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so there's this lifeguard an yeah
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 2:54 pm
ok so im a 15/f and i go to this YMCA pool and over there is a lifeguard... he's super cute... well the first time i went their he was making fun of me cuz my eyes were red... and the second time i went their he was staying stuff abt me i think and he kept smiling at me.. so i kinda got mad and the next time i went there he was like in my way and he goes am i in yur way and i go ya u r soo move and yeah i dunno if he likes me and im not sure if i should talk him...
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since when is it a crime to be single?
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 2:27 pm
I am a 28/f and very independant. I work and live on my own in an appartment. I have been single for about 5 years. I have a lot of interests and friends and I'm close to my family which keeps me busy. The problem is that some of my friends who are in relationships have been trying to set me up with guys. It bothers me because they say things like "we need to find you a man". One of my friends just started dating her bf and now is trying to set me up with his roomate. I'm not interested because they said he he's yoan me by about 6 years and is unemployed. Another friend of mine tried setting me up with a 22 year old. It was very awkward because he really liked me and I did not. How can I tell my friends in a nice way tha...
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so yeah...the guy i like has a gf but he likes me back too..
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 1:54 pm
The guy I like has a girlfriend and Im friends with her but i really really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but i know there prolly not gonna break up for a LONG time if they even do at all. But heres the thing. HE LIKES ME BACK. I just really dont know what to do. And i like this other guy and hes single but I dont know if he likes me back or not bcuz im scared to ask him and have him say no then ill get embarrassed if he tells all his friends. what should i dooo??
((<< k y r a//13//female//USA >>))
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thank you so much
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 1:52 pm
thanks so much for your advice.
like i said, i never really talk about this with anyone. sometimes i wonder if what you said is right, if im just her door mat? but i hate to think that, because above all we are friends like you wouldnt believe.
we didnt talk for 2 years, and i lived my life and i did the things you said i should do. but in the end , i just fell more and more in love with her. even without wanting to, all i did eas to think of her (and still do). il probaly will end up going crazy.
since the i realize that i was fallin for her, my mind told me "no, it can not be" but my heart tells me something else. i swear , i had never experience such pain and love at the same ...
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ah love bites.
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 12:52 pm
im 15 hes 17 were both really shy but im the kinda shy that doesnt get noticed alot but hes popular, my friends think we could be a cute couple but everytime we hang out we never talk, how can i start talking him so that maybe i have a chance with him
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keeping the realtionship fresh
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 12:12 pm
Does anyone have any ideas on how to keep a relationship fresh? Like what activities could be done(expensive and inesxpensive)? I need help because I don't want my realationship to fall apart.
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I'm going out with a guy...that I dont really wanna be with.
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 7:16 am
Well here's the deal. I'm going out with a guy that I don't really want to be going out with. I only said yes because I know he really likes me but I just don't like him. I like his best friend. But his best friend has a girlfriend...but he likes me back. So I really don't know what to do. I don't know how to dump him but still be friends? Please someone...HELP.
((<<--Kyra//13//F//USA-->>))
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What do you think?
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 7:01 am
My girl sais that I am the one making her happy. She is gone for 3 weeks now (28 August today)and I will see her again in the middle of Septmember.She always sents messages on the phone yet she never calls and most of the times she wont pick it up when I call cause she sais she is shy of her mom when she is around. In three weeks she never called not even once. What do you think my future is?
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