confused about some phrase everyone says about boys
Question Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 5:44 pm
You know what they all say "When you give a guy all he wants, he gets bored quickly." What are some examples of that phrase? like what are you not supposed to give all he wants? I've been dying to know what they exactly mean by that.
cheap_thrills answered Monday August 28 2006, 12:02 am: It means that you should tease a guy, so that he wants you more. Some guys AND girls get bored of their boyfriend/girlfriend easily...so you have to try avoiding that. If you give a guy what he wants off the bat, then he'll think you're a slut most of the time. Have some shame, that is. It'll make you more attractive in the long run.
caramella answered Sunday August 27 2006, 8:21 pm: Guys like everything about girls,their body exposed,girls calling them,making out,screwing them,chasing them,telling them to call.If a girl gives a guy EVERYTHING all at once hell just think shes a hoe and will get bored easily.If you like dress half naked to impress them and do all that.To make guys NOt get bored of you,you gotta keep them guessing HOW your body looks but not exposing it and by not calling a lot and by not chasing him and refusing sex multiple times,that will leave him wanting more.Im not saying dont give it to him but just give it to him one by one. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
CHRIStotheTINAA answered Sunday August 27 2006, 7:24 pm: I kinda think it may have something to do with sex. Like if a girl is dating a guy for a few weeks and they move fast and they have sex... he will get bored eventually of doing the same thing over and over again and end up dumping her; vs. if they waited to see if it was worth it, and moved slowly.. the guy has something to look forward to. It's like when you see a shirt in a store that you reallyy want.. and then once you take it home, and wear it a few times.. it kind of loses it's glow. It's not as special once you have it. I guess I mean that it's kind of nice to want things, and not to always have everything.. you'll always have something to look forward to. Sorryy this was really long but it was kinda hard to explain it. hahaha Hope I helpeddd :] [ CHRIStotheTINAA's advice column | Ask CHRIStotheTINAA A Question ]
HectorJr answered Sunday August 27 2006, 6:24 pm: Not with me, but I've seen many scenarios that can fit that phrase. The most common and unfortunate can be seen with relationships.
I've heard countless stories about how a girl thought she was 'so in love' after only two weeks of going out with the guy, that they decided to have sex. Some guys will go for what they can get and be interested only in that and not the actual relationship.
Well you know the ending. Three weeks later the guys dumps her and moves on to somebody else. Meanwhile the girl is heartbroken and confused, wondering what she did wrong. She says to herself: but I loved him, I gave him my virginity, I cared for him, etc. She often fails to realize that she went too quickly into things and didn't think things through.
So theres one example where I'm sure you have heard at least one story about that does fit that phrase.
Ehh I can also apply it to video games. Some are a lot of fun and take a long time to beat and to find things and of course get better at it. It's really great until we find codes for the game. We put in the codes to get all the weapons, cars, infinite lives, skip the boring parts of the game, etc. Then what? Where's the fun in that? For a while it's probably the coolest feeling ever...but then you reach a point where you realize there's nothing left to do and that fun you had for using the cheat codes goes away. Now what? Well that's another example, not neccessarily something given to him by someone else. Anyways there's a bunch more. Hope that helped. [ HectorJr's advice column | Ask HectorJr A Question ]
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