there is this kid on my Cross Country team who is AMAZING! he is extremely cute, athletic, and nice. buttttttt he's a junior and i'm only a freshman, and my selfesteme is low to begin with, so it's like why would he ever notice me.
i'm thinking it's just a dream crush.
i am in a semi relationship now (we aren't like going out yet until school starts and we know whats going on) and i REALLLYYYYY really care about him. but whenever i see the other guy i just melt. ahh what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DD answered Monday August 28 2006, 10:52 pm: Sounds to me like you are more into this guy's looks, and so if i were you, i wouldn't do anything about it, and i would stick with the other guy. If you do decide otherwise, though, stop putting yourself down and force your self esteem up. it's only a 2 year difference anyways, so if i were you, like i said, i would stick with the semi-relationship, and turn it into a real relationship :)
Hope i was of some help
ductape_n_roses answered Monday August 28 2006, 8:48 pm: Sweetie, boost your self esteem yo. Sweetie, yo..haha..anywhos. Some guys I know are repelled by that one personality...low self esteem. you jsut need to be bold, confident and yourself. Believe in yourself and don't let other people's criticizm get to you. If they judge you, they don't know you. If they know you, they won't judge.
Just begin talking with this guy. Say that whatever run was fun or something like that. Just small talk =D. Imagine that he's your best friend or such. Just don't begin the femal anatomy with him...erm. yea.
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