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I like my brother's friend...
Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 7:04 pm
Hi, I am 15/f. I like my brother's friend, who is 17.
One of his other friends' little sister liked him. When he found out, he said he would never go out with her becasue she is his friend's lttle sister...and was pretty much like "Yuck"
Anyways, when I first met him, he already knew my name, but we didn't say much to each other. Then around a week or two later, it seemed like he might like me, because he was looking at me and talking to me and stuff. Although I liked him, I didn't know what to do. I didn't want him to be disgusted, so now I completely ignore him. (I'm weird, I know). And he ignores me as well.
My question is, should I try to flirt with him and sew what happens? Do you think he would ever go out with me?
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Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 6:25 pm
me and my boyfriend have had the same problem for like 8 months. he only rarely makes time for me. but we broke up for a month and we got back togheter and he said that he would fix it cuz he really wanted it. HE CAME BACK TO ME .. you know.
but nothign changed, so i confronted him. and hes like well 'well shoot for hangin once or twice a week', and so far he's made no effort.
so is it unfair of me to give him two weeks and if he still makes no time for me i stop giving effort to the relationship. im sick of feeling like its one sided feelings, cuz what he says is so different from what he does. i just dont knwo what i should do .. any ideas?
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trouble
Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 5:39 pm
ok I'm really confused right now, i Dont know what to do right now. I like my boyfreind brandon, but he can be a huge asshole. he tells me what and what not to do, he critisizes me, and even yells at me, plus he has problems of his own and i can't deal with him and his problems AND my problems alltogether.he also hides things from me, lies to me, and sneaks about everything. I can't ever beleive him. all my freinds say i should dump him, but i still like and care for him. plus he's not ALL bad. i really enjoy being with him. There's also a guy named Russell who seems to be interested in me, and ditto for me. Me and him talk alot on the phone, and he helps me with alot of problems, and I like him too, but i dont want to leave brandon then go...
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guy confusion!
Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 3:29 pm
i like this guy adn today he was kind of being rude to me like saying, you look like a monkey ( we were doing something about monkeys in class) and you smell like a monkey. and you are retarded. i was really hurt because i like him and i don't like it when he says that. does this mean that he finds me annoying or something? what should i say if he says it again?
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It's the never-ending cycle...
Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 2:39 pm
I'm a 19 year old female in my second year of college and It seems that I'm stuck in somewhat of a rut. Every guy I fall for, and every guy that falls for me seems to have a very short attention span when it comes to being interested in me. I'm a very timid person when it comes to relationships, and it seems that the minute I show any sign of maybe coming around about the idea of being with someone, he drops me. just like that. What am I doing wrong? Is there a secret to fixing this? I just feel so confused.
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Too late?
Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 2:29 pm
i have this guy friend called Chris and i think he's just the best. he's so funny and caring and just so amazingly awesome!
the other day we were hanging out and just before he left he said he had something to tell me. he told me that he loved me and that he had done ever since the first time he'd met me. then he kiss me and ran out. i realised after he'd left that i'd fallen in love with him too, and it just took him saying it to make me realise that i did. but have i left it too late to tell him?? i don't want him to think that i don't like him and miss my chance but i just don't know how to say it now, the moments kind of gone?!
thanks
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How do I tell if it's love?
Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 6:36 am
Right. There's a girl and I've known her since the summer, and we basically hit it off really well at camp. We're both into theatre, we're both very philosophical, and we both have warped senses of humor :) (The best kind). It took us a while to go from being "good friends" to an official relationship, but a couple weeks ago, we did. It feels amazing.
Since camp, we've talked on the phone for about two hours straight every single night. Some of our conversations are deep and meaningful, some are silly and random, but there's never been one I haven't enjoyed. The largest issues with this whole deal is that she live about an hour away from me. We see each other every other weekend, though, and sometimes more often tha...
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long distance rela.
Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 12:58 am
Ok, I used to live in Maine and have this boyfriend. Cuz my dads in navy I moved all the way to Hawaii. I really love this guy and want to be with him forever. But i dunno if he feels the same way. When ever i try to talk to him hes always doing something else. And i tried to have a friend talk to him but nothing works. And when he does talk hes like "how are we gonna make it work" and stuff. I'm going to visit in december.
but i dunno if he wants to be with me.
whats a good way to ask him with out really coming straight forward and be like "do you wanna still be with me"
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Mixed Messages
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 10:56 pm
I met a girl about year ago who I really liked, but she had a boyfriend and a 6 month old baby. The boyfriend is no more but she still lives with him (for at least the next month). We became friends and have always flirted a lot. We've spent some time together but I couldn't ever get further than that. We've talked about my feelings for her and have a pretty open dialog about it. She says she doesn't want a relationship.
Two weeks ago, she got drunk and sent me an email telling me all the dirty things she wanted me to do to her. The next day she said she was embarrassed and wanted to pretend it didn't happen. Last week, she sent me a txt and wanted to meet up for a drink. We had a few drinks and as I was walking her...
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i cant let him go...
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 9:53 pm
im sorry if this is kinda long,i hope you could give some help.so, i broke up with him 2 days ago its just that we were texting and he kinda make me feel that i wasnt important to him anymore his text kinda dry.we talk last night and he says the only reason that his acting like that its just bcoz his parents are against in our relationship,1st,were kinda related to each other(my grandma and his grandpa are cousins)it was not really an issue with parents but wen they knew that i run away before they hated me now,and they knew about a different story about me running away they knew that my x bf was letting me run away with him and thats not rue,i run away coz my mom scolded me.they let him chose wether his studies or me.and he cant do anythin...
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talking on the phone-silence
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 9:14 pm
hey just to give a lil bit of backround info,i'm a girl 14 in the 9th grade... i've know the boy i like since kindergaten. Me and him are really tight and what not. We both like each other and have gone out before, on and off for about 2 grades straight. But now i have nothing to talk about with him on the phone it's always either silence or something really dumb happening. Can someone please give me some idea of what i should do. Thankx a bunch!!!
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ayudame!!
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 8:42 pm
how do you prove love to someone you love?
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ugh..confused..
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 8:15 pm
13/f
alright..
theres this guy that i REALLY like. my friend asked him if he would go out with me and he said he proly would. so im really excited. but the thing is that if i went out with him i would only see him in one of my classes and hes on the other side of the room from me. and i dont really know him that well so i think it would be weird going out with him. im used to being friends first. i would be alot more comfortable being his girlfriend if i was his friend first and knew stuff about him. but i think it would be really awkward just going up to the guy that knows you like him and be like "hey!! whats up?". please help me.
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large love
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 6:49 pm
Ive always been the kind of girl who says i dont care what guys look like, its all about the personality. But this guy i like now, hes perfect and truly amazing, he would do anyhting for me and we ahve liked eachother for about 5 years now. yeha i know, its a long time. Well hes, how do i say it in a nice way... large. and i feel horrible becuase i always think if he was hot and the same personality i would deffinetly date him. but, i dont know what to do... i know its no big deal about looks. But seriously if someone had roten teeth. was like 600 pounds and was just yucky, would u date them? (thats not the desciption of the guy i like, it was just an example) Yes its alll about personality, but looks have somewhat to do what their personal...
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guys in my grade
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 6:43 pm
I don't like the guys in my grade. They dont like me. I like the guys in the grade above me. They like me.
All of my friends in my grade are friends with those guys who don't like me so its awkard.
All of the girls in the grade above me complain of them being "their guys" so i better "back off".
Help? Why dont they like me but the older ones do? And because of all this I cant get a boyfriend for beansss. Lol sorry but yeah thanks a bunch :)
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So cute.
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 6:37 pm
I liked this guy for 3 years.My best friend knows it.She started dating but i cant yet.This guy is so cute.He's in my school.Sometimes he looks at me in the hallway of my school.Is that a sign that he likes me?Thanx alot!
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talking
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 6:22 pm
Ok so im a guy and i dont really talk with my parents bout like love stuff and stuuf like that n im a little nerves bout telling them some stuff like a gf or stuff like that can i get some advice.
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get rid of jealousy?
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 5:22 pm
Alright, so.. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now, and i still cant get over the fact of some of the girls that are his friends. They are much much more prettier than i am, and i just think they like him and they ALWAYS flirt with him and i get really pissed off and i want to like kill them (not literally i just feel that way). How can i stop being so jealous?
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ummm........wow he thinks im cute plez help me
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 4:07 pm
i like this guy but i just found out that my friend briana likes him 2 we already agreed that ewe would not fight over any boy but i need some advice 2 hook him i want 2 HOOK him and reel him in 2 me before he goes 2 her i want him > plez give advice
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My prince turned into a frog- what should I do?
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 3:32 pm
Should it be a red flag if your bf was calm one minute and then the next he was flying of the handle? My bf for no reason a couple of nights ago just yelled "you're not listening to me"! Another time he stuck his face in mine and yelled "I'm SO sorry". This is because I told him I wanted to leave a party that his friends were being jerks at. It kind of scares me how he can switch from charming to beast like that. He lately has been critzizing everything I do and making me feel like crap. In the beginning he was so polite and charming and sensitive that's what made me fall in love with him. But now I'm mostly seeing a monster. I've heard stories about how he treated some of his ex gf's. One said he was constantly...
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