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long distance rela.
Ok, I used to live in Maine and have this boyfriend. Cuz my dads in navy I moved all the way to Hawaii. I really love this guy and want to be with him forever. But i dunno if he feels the same way. When ever i try to talk to him hes always doing something else. And i tried to have a friend talk to him but nothing works. And when he does talk hes like "how are we gonna make it work" and stuff. I'm going to visit in december.
but i dunno if he wants to be with me.
whats a good way to ask him with out really coming straight forward and be like "do you wanna still be with me"
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asking just that. also, he's still trying to get over his gf moving to another state. Long distance relationships usually never work out, I don't mean to be rude or anything, but I don't think your relationshp is going to last that long. and if it doesn't there's plenty more guys along the road, losing him wont be the end of the world. it might be hard for a couple of days, but still, don't shut yourself up, keep yourself open to new guys, because trust me, it wont work out.
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If he's asking you "how are we gonna make it work", it sounds to me like he has doubts about you two being able to stay together. If he really liked you and wanted to be with you, he'd at least try to be a little more positive about everything and at least find some time to talk to you. I would wait until December whenever you visit him to talk about him and if he still wants to be with you, because after spending time with you, he might change his mind and realize how much he really DOES want to make it work. I would just hang out with him while you're there, and then late at night whenever you guys are just sitting around talking, let him know how you feel. It's better to talk to him about it face to face. Just be like,"I've had a blast being here with you, and I know now how much I want to make this work. Do you still want it to, though? Cause before I visited, I'm sorry, but sometimes I got the feeling you didn't think we could last, or that you didn't want us to. I don't want to fight, I just want to know." [ or something like that ].
I hope I helped, and I hope everything works out.
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